Seeking help and advice on situation
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Angelina frankly, i don't really understand your problem. when parents buy a belt, it can also be a preparatory act. in @Ine's family, everything is voluntary, but if the sister changes her mind, the belt is already there. you sometimes create problems where there are none.
A belt is very expensive. You don't buy one if you don't expect it will be worn. We don't talk about a cheap shirt...
But my problem is, that @Ines talks about her 'rebellious' sister. But with her sister everything is fine. Here you can see how family members think about her sister
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Angelina your sister is younger than you, right? then she probably gained some weight during puberty
Well she was a bit lazy about sports, fortunately I could change it a bit.
Now she is perfect!
Vanessa Right,I haven't thought it this way.
Yes, and I think she does not want change it.
Vanessa Sometimes,it needs time to fit well again,sure,but it usually don't last long.
Gap is very narrow, and she took some weight in short time, for sure it was very tight.
so first of all it depends on the financial circumstances whether a belt is expensive or not. my father does not find it expensive. secondly, rebellious is not a swear word, only within the family she is the rebel. 
Ines Now she is perfect!
Good 
Unfortunately,my parents think there is options,even if we would agree that these are not good options(punishment,unwillingly use of a chastity belt...).
But we would never agree about if it is a good habit or not!
Ines I think she does not want change it.
Understandable.
Ines Gap is very narrow, and she took some weight in short time, for sure it was very tight.
Don't you think she would care more about keeping the same weight most of time is she wears one,to keep it comfortable?
Angelina secondly, rebellious is not a swear word, only within the family she is the rebel.
I agree,in french too,it is not considered as an insult,only a personality trait.
Vanessa Unfortunately,my parents think there is options,even if we would agree that these are not good options(punishment,unwillingly use of a chastity belt...).
But it is only impose a piece of steel, the true meaning of wear a chastity belt is lost irretrievably, and further I do not know if maybe in homes where physical punishment is accepted, but in my home such action would rot the environment.
But we would never agree about if it is a good habit or not!
Yes, and you know that I know that this depends on cultural and educational environment, and I can no judge, I am used to girls that do it without any problem, but I know what I should say to my daughters.Vanessa Don't you think she would care more about keeping the same weight most of time is she wears one,to keep it comfortable?
Yes, but firstly it should fit comfortably, and she get fat. Currently, for example, she could wear it comfortably, and it is a good way to maintain our weight.
Vanessa I agree,in french too,it is not considered as an insult,only a personality trait.
However, we are more worried about her grades, for example, that about if she wears or not a chastity belt.
Vanessa But we would never agree about if it is a good habit or not!
that's not even us involuntary wearers among ourselves. i differentiate between singles and couples
Vanessa agree,in french too,it is not considered as an insult,only a personality trait.
correct and sometimes even as a positive, depending on the context.
Ines However, we are more worried about her grades, for example, that about if she wears or not a chastity belt.
Do you think there is a connection between the fact that she has rather poor grades as you describe and not wearing the belt?
Angelina Do you think there is a connection between the fact that she has rather poor grades as you describe and not wearing the belt?
Well, My sister and me always achieved very high marks, her marks are not a catastrophe, but are pretty lower than ours.
No, wearing a belt does not have relationship with marks.
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Ines But it is only impose a piece of steel, the true meaning of wear a chastity belt is lost irretrievably, and further I do not know if maybe in homes where physical punishment is accepted, but in my home such action would rot the environment.
Personally,I think there could still be a good ambiance most of the time(in my family,at least),but of course,it is not the best way to use chastity and I would prefer there is no corporal punishment(and even no punishment,cornertime,grounding,etc...are not much better,even more at 26).
Ines you know that I know that this depends on cultural and educational environment
I guess so,yes.
Ines it is a good way to maintain our weight.
Right,even if only a side-effect.
Ines However, we are more worried about her grades, for example, that about if she wears or not a chastity belt.
Logical.
Angelina that's not even us involuntary wearers among ourselves. i differentiate between singles and couples
I know!
And we would never agree about it too!
Ines No, wearing a belt does not have relationship with marks.
Not directly,yes.
But,if we try to concentrate on other things,and if one of these is studies,it may have some impact.But a probably low impact.
My parents think a bit otherwise,my twin had to wear his chastity cage for some time when he had several bad grades in a row,to make him concentrate more on studying...
Angelina A temporary punishment need not have a fixed term. It is still temporary if there is a way out that does not take years and/or a fundamental life change. She said that usually (at least that is how I interpret the "generally") the punishments were for a predetermined time, but that does not mean that this particular instance was.