a_father

frankly, i don't really understand your problem. when parents buy a belt, it can also be a preparatory act. in @Ine's family, everything is voluntary, but if the sister changes her mind, the belt is already there. you sometimes create problems where there are none.

Vanessa To have one ready if she wanted to wear it.As long as she's not forced to wear it,I don't consider it is a problem if they bought it.It is their money,they can decide to spend it on chastity belts,even if it can be wasted in this case.

I agree thank you

    Vanessa clothes,but,except this,not sure it would affect how independent she is

    Well, truly we are dependent on our keyholders for a lot of things, I think she does not like it so much.

    Vanessa The second is not a problem,it could fit well or be adjusted.

    Yes, but, since the belt was in home, and she was not very slim... I can understand her in this aspect. I do not like so much my belt after Christmas...

    Angelina i hope you understand the comparison

    Yes, it is accurate, I think.

      Ines Yes, but, since the belt was in home, and she was not very slim... I can understand her in this aspect. I do not like so much my belt after Christmas...

      your sister is younger than you, right? then she probably gained some weight during puberty. it may be that the belt no longer fits her anyway.

      and yes christmas is a bad time for chastity belts 🤣

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        Ines It would be a very improbable situation, and very embarrassing, so probably my parents will turn a blind eye. I think that even she should not do it, it is so intimate that we can not do so much about it..

        Very embarrassing,sure!

        Good it would have not much consequences,however.

        Ines Maybe, she ask me usually about the forum, but she is less used to "internet environment" than me, so, sometimes she was not comfortable with some stories and behaviors.

        Understandable.

        Let's hope she come back soon,anyway,her posts were interesting.

        Ines truly we are dependent on our keyholders for a lot of things

        Right,I haven't thought it this way.

        Ines Yes, but, since the belt was in home, and she was not very slim... I can understand her in this aspect. I do not like so much my belt after Christmas...

        Sometimes,it needs time to fit well again,sure,but it usually don't last long.

        • Ines replied to this.

          Vanessa Good it would have not much consequences,however.

          They can not exist... What can a family about it? Further disappointment, there is not much more options.
          It is not a good habit for a girl, but...

            Angelina frankly, i don't really understand your problem. when parents buy a belt, it can also be a preparatory act. in @Ine's family, everything is voluntary, but if the sister changes her mind, the belt is already there. you sometimes create problems where there are none.

            A belt is very expensive. You don't buy one if you don't expect it will be worn. We don't talk about a cheap shirt...
            But my problem is, that @Ines talks about her 'rebellious' sister. But with her sister everything is fine. Here you can see how family members think about her sister

              Angelina your sister is younger than you, right? then she probably gained some weight during puberty

              Well she was a bit lazy about sports, fortunately I could change it a bit.
              Now she is perfect!

              Vanessa Right,I haven't thought it this way.

              Yes, and I think she does not want change it.

              Vanessa Sometimes,it needs time to fit well again,sure,but it usually don't last long.

              Gap is very narrow, and she took some weight in short time, for sure it was very tight.

                a_father A belt is very expensive. You don't buy one if you don't expect it will be worn. We don't talk about a cheap shirt...
                But my problem is, that @Ines talks about her 'rebellious' sister. But with her sister everything is fine. Here you can see how family members think about her sister

                so first of all it depends on the financial circumstances whether a belt is expensive or not. my father does not find it expensive. secondly, rebellious is not a swear word, only within the family she is the rebel. 😉

                Ines Now she is perfect!

                Good 🙂

                  Ines

                  Unfortunately,my parents think there is options,even if we would agree that these are not good options(punishment,unwillingly use of a chastity belt...).🙁

                  But we would never agree about if it is a good habit or not!😉

                  Ines I think she does not want change it.

                  Understandable.

                  Ines Gap is very narrow, and she took some weight in short time, for sure it was very tight.

                  Don't you think she would care more about keeping the same weight most of time is she wears one,to keep it comfortable?

                  Angelina secondly, rebellious is not a swear word, only within the family she is the rebel. 😉

                  I agree,in french too,it is not considered as an insult,only a personality trait.

                    Vanessa Unfortunately,my parents think there is options,even if we would agree that these are not good options(punishment,unwillingly use of a chastity belt...).🙁

                    But it is only impose a piece of steel, the true meaning of wear a chastity belt is lost irretrievably, and further I do not know if maybe in homes where physical punishment is accepted, but in my home such action would rot the environment.

                    But we would never agree about if it is a good habit or not!😉
                    Yes, and you know that I know that this depends on cultural and educational environment, and I can no judge, I am used to girls that do it without any problem, but I know what I should say to my daughters.

                    Vanessa Don't you think she would care more about keeping the same weight most of time is she wears one,to keep it comfortable?

                    Yes, but firstly it should fit comfortably, and she get fat. Currently, for example, she could wear it comfortably, and it is a good way to maintain our weight.

                    Vanessa I agree,in french too,it is not considered as an insult,only a personality trait.

                    However, we are more worried about her grades, for example, that about if she wears or not a chastity belt.

                      Vanessa But we would never agree about if it is a good habit or not!😉

                      that's not even us involuntary wearers among ourselves. i differentiate between singles and couples 😉

                      Vanessa agree,in french too,it is not considered as an insult,only a personality trait.

                      correct and sometimes even as a positive, depending on the context.

                      Ines However, we are more worried about her grades, for example, that about if she wears or not a chastity belt.

                      Do you think there is a connection between the fact that she has rather poor grades as you describe and not wearing the belt?

                        Angelina

                        Angelina Do you think there is a connection between the fact that she has rather poor grades as you describe and not wearing the belt?

                        Well, My sister and me always achieved very high marks, her marks are not a catastrophe, but are pretty lower than ours.
                        No, wearing a belt does not have relationship with marks.

                          Ines No, wearing a belt does not have relationship with marks.

                          i think so too, i only asked because there are different opinions on this here

                          Ines But it is only impose a piece of steel, the true meaning of wear a chastity belt is lost irretrievably, and further I do not know if maybe in homes where physical punishment is accepted, but in my home such action would rot the environment.

                          Personally,I think there could still be a good ambiance most of the time(in my family,at least),but of course,it is not the best way to use chastity and I would prefer there is no corporal punishment(and even no punishment,cornertime,grounding,etc...are not much better,even more at 26).

                          Ines you know that I know that this depends on cultural and educational environment

                          I guess so,yes.

                          Ines it is a good way to maintain our weight.

                          Right,even if only a side-effect.

                          Ines However, we are more worried about her grades, for example, that about if she wears or not a chastity belt.

                          Logical.

                          Angelina that's not even us involuntary wearers among ourselves. i differentiate between singles and couples 😉

                          I know!😉

                          And we would never agree about it too!😉

                          Ines No, wearing a belt does not have relationship with marks.

                          Not directly,yes.

                          But,if we try to concentrate on other things,and if one of these is studies,it may have some impact.But a probably low impact.

                          My parents think a bit otherwise,my twin had to wear his chastity cage for some time when he had several bad grades in a row,to make him concentrate more on studying...

                            Vanessa And we would never agree about it too!😉

                            probably not, no 😉

                            Vanessa my twin had to wear his chastity cage for some time when he had several bad grades in a row,to make him concentrate more on studying...

                            does it worked?

                              Angelina does it worked?

                              Yes,but I think mainly because he wanted to end this punishment as soon as possible than because he concentrated more on his studies.

                                Vanessa Yes,but I think mainly because he wanted to end this punishment as soon as possible than because he concentrated more on his studies.

                                i thought the punishments were limited in time, or did he have to wear the cage until his grades improved?

                                  Angelina

                                  Generally,it is for a decided amount of time,yes,but,this time,it was related to his grades.

                                    Vanessa Generally,it is for a decided amount of time,yes,but,this time,it was related to his grades.

                                    ah ok and i think if the grades hadn't improved he would have been back in the cage very quickly right?