Sin i feel like if someone saw that theyd most likely think its something im into as thats what i woulda thought prior to this happening but either way i really do wana still live here because i of course love my famiyl and i really only got a year left until i can move out. though i stilldont know whats happening i doubt the belt is gonna occur since they didnt mention it tonight
Seeking help and advice on situation
vyktoryah
First, welcome to the forum, you are free to speak your thoughts and seek for advice and help.
Second, personal habits actually releases stress, plus the best protection is zero activities outside your home.
Third, I would suggest to call a hotline if you are forced, coerced, or threatened to wear a belt against your will. As you are in the USA, you can call CPS or even 911. The moment you see that belt, you need to mention how much trouble your parents would be in. I believe 2 parents were arrested and jailed for many years (20 years or life) for keeping their daughter handcuffed to a bed. You need to stand your ground and be upfront with the potential consequences your family would face. Sure, it'll destroy the relationship, but you really need this as your sister's problems are now becoming yours.
Off topic, but I knew someone who lost her teen years cuz she had to deal with her older sister's kids by babysitting them while attending middle and high school. I don't want you to feel you are responsible for your sister's mistakes, either.
Fourth, as long as you are continuing to chat or vent, please do so here, so you aren't injuring yourself. You really need to value your life and know that you still have a future. Your life is not going to end up like your sister's, so please keep doing your best to live your best life. Your parents have NOTHING against you. Keep thinking of the positive and continue living for your success. You can make it, but you need to first step forward.
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Raziel thank you for the greeting
i know its definitely illegal if they try to force me in one and that i can certainly get out of this household at any point but the problem is basically this. ive developed a major dependence on being with my friend who is an online friend though. we literaly spend all day if we can just doing stuff together. this friend is someone i want to move in with in one year. i have really big plans right now to hurry and get my social security card then work but i also still want to maintain access to my friend and being bale to play stuff witht hem as thats my main release/escape or whatever. i know it sounds maybe pathetic to some or just dumb but i really need to be able to play with my friend and calling cps would put me in an entirely different enviorment which would complicate all myplans with my friend. id probably have tpo wait until im 18 then and i cant do that i wana be with them now its been like 3 years of me knowing them and they are literally everything to me and i think about moving in with them every day. i live in a really good area for getting ajob too because theres so many just everywhere lol. my life has undergone alot of changes overtime though and my parents are alot different than they used to be. i of course still dont know my belt situation though but if this gets too rough of course ill definitely call the hotline and stuff i just prefer i guess waiting it out until i can be with my friend because it would mak ethings a lot easier for me and id be happier. i also wana say though that i try my best to stay uninvolved with my sisters and their kids. im pretty much just locked away in my room at all times. and my future and reason for living is my friend! they defintiely are my hope and my motivation so i am always looking forward to them and to that i used to not want to live past 20ish cuz i thought all you had to do is just work then but now i have someone i wana be with
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vyktoryah i dont really see how me watching that is gonna do that to me
It reminds me of "violent video games make people violent" kind of bs I kept hearing a lot of times. I play some violent video games like GTA series but nobody with sober and sound mind would be tempted to actually go out and shoot random people on street in real life.
Raziel As you are in the USA, you can call CPS or even 911. The moment you see that belt, you need to mention how much trouble your parents would be in.
It is a good idea. Making them know potential legal consequences would serve as a deterrent. I think most of states have certain group of people who are legally obligated to report such abuse if they suspect any signs of abuse. If your parents end up in prison for such offence, at least in US prisons, they'll be considered as "lowest kind of existence" among inmates on top of stiff prison sentence.
And keep anything that can be an evidence, as statute of limitation for such crime may be near indefinite (At least in my country such crime has no statute of limitation), so legal system can go after them even after you move out, if you report such abuse later as well.
Raziel Fourth, as long as you are continuing to chat or vent, please do so here, so you aren't injuring yourself. You really need to value your life and know that you still have a future.
I am trans, and despite living closeted now (Living with parents who aren't understanding...) and I developed strong hatred towards my life, but at least the fact that I have a truly loving partner who is affirming of my gender identity is helping me to navigate through my life a lot. She has been keeping me from harming myself...
MaximeJourennes Call the police ? It's not that simple I think
Of course it is not simple at all, they are her parents, but if the other option is tolerate abuses, then, I choose police if it is necessary.
vyktoryah
Any coercion is acceptable, if it is true what are you saying you have a lot of resources.
vyktoryah and my future and reason for living is my friend!
The reason has to be you, not anyone more.
vyktoryah ive developed a major dependence on being with my friend who is an online friend though. we literaly spend all day
Every addiction is bad. I do not make criticism of your life, but you should find another elements.
vyktoryah
That's fine, too. As long as you have a goal, then I'll trust your judgement if that's what you really desire. Plus, you still have another year to think about it carefully. Make sure that moving in with a friend is what you want. If you do so while wearing the chastity belt, just get bolt cutters or a dremel to cut the dam thing off.
Rina
Thank you for the additional input of ideas concerning evidence.
Ines
Dam, you have alot of wisdom already. 
I'm shocked for all this coming from you who supports chastity 100%. Thank you so much, Ines.
Raziel Dam, you have alot of wisdom already.
Chastity belt can bring a lot of nice things for a willingly wearer, but for a forced wearer only misery.
I always say that every wearer has small crisis, I can not imagine how can deal with them a forced wearer.
Let me use a metaphor: sports are good but you can not force to anyone to play them. It is best way to achieve that person hates sports. For life.
Ines its still for me in the end because thats what would make me happy i feel. but yeah ur probably right i really should do more than i do just pc or whatever but i just dont know who to do it with and stuff lol im not that social so just going up to random people has always been a like major task that i really dont have the patience or heart to deal with cuz i just get so anxious for whatever reason talking to people sometimes
Raziel LOL yeah exactly. the worst possible case scenario i can literally just go and get a professional to unlock it for me or i can get them removed with a tool. so i really am not worried that much about this because i only got ayear left then im outta here. also im pretty sure the website owner is allowed to see peoples IP addresses when they login but im not sure?
It certainly sounds like you need psych help. Things like cutting are a sign that is needed. The chastity belt is just a side issue of a larger one. And your parents want to help but aren't equiped. I'd look for a way to get counseling, perhaps through your school. You need help to get better and in your case, in or out of a CB won't do it.
vyktoryah sorry again if this is the wrong place for this or the wrong tags plz correct me if its not and ofc ty for any replies and for reading this though!
no, this is the right place, but i don't think you should "pay" for your sisters' mistakes. every girl is different. 
vyktoryah its because they are above 18 im pretty sure
your 19 year old sister is still living with you right? should she get a belt too? i don't understand why you should wear a belt and your sister doesn't, although she has much more reason to do so
Laura In my opinion,your parents should started with your older sisters, because they are already guilty
I agree
@vyktoryah
i have to admit i got out at a certain point, too much information for a non-native speaker. who is supposed to wear a belt now? you or your sisters too? has a belt already been ordered for you now? has a belt been ordered for your sisters?
sorry for the stupid questions, but i lost track at some point.
Angelina sorry about the confusion lol. i kind of just ramble or rant alot sometimes so its probably really hard to understand what im saying sometimes if you arent native to english i assume. as of right now though nobody is wearing a belt but my mom said that i would be getting one and then i made that post and then everyone told me to call her so i did and asked her that she tells me if my sisters are getting one too ETC. and then said that everyone else would be having similar arrangements put onto them as well. so i presume thats whats going to happen but i dont 100% know because i didnt get a chance to ask her about the belt when we were having a discussion last night about those other things i mentioned in my update.
vyktoryah my mom apparently had one when she was younger
She did? Then how did the situation go so far?
Christine im not sure what in specific youre asking, sorry. ill try to guess though. so if youre asking why my sisters are like this well i dont think its exaclty my parents fault. libby started having boys over a while ago and then she was smoking weed and selling it out of our house so my parents kicked her out. (before her baby) she goes and gets pregnant with some bad dude like 2-3 years later and my parents feel bad about her situation after she has her kid so they gave her a place to stay. my other sister though around the time of libby being kicked out had a baby with a bad guy that she was KINDA living with. she had not really moved out officially but wasnt really there often at all.( she was at her boyfriends) and whenever she was back it was always when my parents were gone and shed brng her bf over and theyd have sex etc and pay me to not say anything about it. but he ended up being abusive and so she left him and moved back home for real again but with a child after he strangled her and she called the police and he went to jail for it but hes out now. so libby then comes back around this time like 2-3 different times changing between living here and not wanting to live with her bf etc. she did this cycle abunch between leaving him and coming back and then bringing different guys over until finally my parents had enough and said she needs to make up her mind between living here or leaving. little did we know she got pregnant again during this time and thats kinda where we are now.
but my mom stopped wearing her belt due to medical issues and she only started wearing one because of a bad thing that happened to her as a kid. so it wasnt really a traditional thing its just been brought up again because of how everyones acting