vyktoryah
That's fine, too. As long as you have a goal, then I'll trust your judgement if that's what you really desire. Plus, you still have another year to think about it carefully. Make sure that moving in with a friend is what you want. If you do so while wearing the chastity belt, just get bolt cutters or a dremel to cut the dam thing off.

Rina
Thank you for the additional input of ideas concerning evidence.

Ines
Dam, you have alot of wisdom already. 😃 I'm shocked for all this coming from you who supports chastity 100%. Thank you so much, Ines.

          Raziel Dam, you have alot of wisdom already. 😃 I'm shocked for all this coming from you who supports chastity 100%. Thank you so much, Ines.

          Chastity belt can bring a lot of nice things for a willingly wearer, but for a forced wearer only misery.
          I always say that every wearer has small crisis, I can not imagine how can deal with them a forced wearer.
          Let me use a metaphor: sports are good but you can not force to anyone to play them. It is best way to achieve that person hates sports. For life.

              Ines
              Ironically, I'm skinny but not athletic at all. I don't even like sports, either. I'm more into training my mind. As for the unwilling wearers, I do wish they knew about the potential help. It'll help alot of personal heartache from posts like these popping up frequently.

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                  Raziel

                  They are fetishist. I do not do it, but I am sure that in, recently discovered for me, Fet life and another similar places we could find the IP of the horror tales users.

                      Ines
                      Off topic, but to find the IP of other users from other sites, you'd have to do some serious packet sniffing and tracing their general location. I don't want you to get into legal trouble, even if its out of curiosity.

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                          Raziel
                          No! And I lack of technical skills to do it! I was trying to explain that probably, most of "victims" here are present there too.
                          I do not mean investigate them! I do not know how start! 😂

                            Ines its still for me in the end because thats what would make me happy i feel. but yeah ur probably right i really should do more than i do just pc or whatever but i just dont know who to do it with and stuff lol im not that social so just going up to random people has always been a like major task that i really dont have the patience or heart to deal with cuz i just get so anxious for whatever reason talking to people sometimes

                              Raziel LOL yeah exactly. the worst possible case scenario i can literally just go and get a professional to unlock it for me or i can get them removed with a tool. so i really am not worried that much about this because i only got ayear left then im outta here. also im pretty sure the website owner is allowed to see peoples IP addresses when they login but im not sure?

                                It certainly sounds like you need psych help. Things like cutting are a sign that is needed. The chastity belt is just a side issue of a larger one. And your parents want to help but aren't equiped. I'd look for a way to get counseling, perhaps through your school. You need help to get better and in your case, in or out of a CB won't do it.

                                vyktoryah sorry again if this is the wrong place for this or the wrong tags plz correct me if its not and ofc ty for any replies and for reading this though!

                                no, this is the right place, but i don't think you should "pay" for your sisters' mistakes. every girl is different. 🙂

                                vyktoryah its because they are above 18 im pretty sure

                                your 19 year old sister is still living with you right? should she get a belt too? i don't understand why you should wear a belt and your sister doesn't, although she has much more reason to do so

                                Laura In my opinion,your parents should started with your older sisters, because they are already guilty

                                I agree

                                @vyktoryah
                                i have to admit i got out at a certain point, too much information for a non-native speaker. who is supposed to wear a belt now? you or your sisters too? has a belt already been ordered for you now? has a belt been ordered for your sisters?

                                sorry for the stupid questions, but i lost track at some point. 🙂

                                        Angelina sorry about the confusion lol. i kind of just ramble or rant alot sometimes so its probably really hard to understand what im saying sometimes if you arent native to english i assume. as of right now though nobody is wearing a belt but my mom said that i would be getting one and then i made that post and then everyone told me to call her so i did and asked her that she tells me if my sisters are getting one too ETC. and then said that everyone else would be having similar arrangements put onto them as well. so i presume thats whats going to happen but i dont 100% know because i didnt get a chance to ask her about the belt when we were having a discussion last night about those other things i mentioned in my update.

                                            Christine im not sure what in specific youre asking, sorry. ill try to guess though. so if youre asking why my sisters are like this well i dont think its exaclty my parents fault. libby started having boys over a while ago and then she was smoking weed and selling it out of our house so my parents kicked her out. (before her baby) she goes and gets pregnant with some bad dude like 2-3 years later and my parents feel bad about her situation after she has her kid so they gave her a place to stay. my other sister though around the time of libby being kicked out had a baby with a bad guy that she was KINDA living with. she had not really moved out officially but wasnt really there often at all.( she was at her boyfriends) and whenever she was back it was always when my parents were gone and shed brng her bf over and theyd have sex etc and pay me to not say anything about it. but he ended up being abusive and so she left him and moved back home for real again but with a child after he strangled her and she called the police and he went to jail for it but hes out now. so libby then comes back around this time like 2-3 different times changing between living here and not wanting to live with her bf etc. she did this cycle abunch between leaving him and coming back and then bringing different guys over until finally my parents had enough and said she needs to make up her mind between living here or leaving. little did we know she got pregnant again during this time and thats kinda where we are now.
                                            but my mom stopped wearing her belt due to medical issues and she only started wearing one because of a bad thing that happened to her as a kid. so it wasnt really a traditional thing its just been brought up again because of how everyones acting

                                                vyktoryah

                                                thank you for briefly summarising all the posts 🙂

                                                i hope you have the opportunity to talk to your mother soon about the exact conditions, look forward to an update 🙂

                                                  vyktoryah
                                                  I read you post and want add tome thought.

                                                  Your are in puberty with a lot of change in your body and mind.

                                                  but ive made attempts at my life in the past and im depressed currently and i cut myself sometimes too

                                                  You have some history with serious problems and you are depressive.
                                                  Both together is a lot to process which needs time and passion.

                                                  Did you ever met your online friend in real life?
                                                  If yes have you spent time together that you see how you really are and fit together?
                                                  Living together can be nice bad also a burden. Small thing can create big tension. Like who will doing the dishes, or let lie around the dirty cloth, or who is doing the shopping, cleaning, etc.
                                                  I will not say you should not but you should be sure it will work out.
                                                  Moving out is a big change in your life and you are in a big change already.
                                                  My advice do it step by step and not all in one. What looks like a solution could be a mistake in the end.

                                                  To get in contact with other peoples. You could join a club, or a dog that you walk several times a day, you could volunteer for a social project, etc.

                                                  vyktoryah being a parent definitely isnt easy lol theres no book or whatever to it andevery kid is different

                                                  You can find so many books for parenting and also for you questions, if what your father believe right or not.

                                                  vyktoryah thats how i feel about the porn thing but apparently when you orgasm it releases some hormones or something that are supposed to make you happy and then if you do that abunch you feel less happy overtime???

                                                  My experience with orgasm is it is a great relive and make me happy. If I have it too often it worn out. If you do it too often it can be addictive. You have to find out for yourself what is the right balance between helpfull and too much.
                                                  Some here have a problem with masturbation and find a solution in chastity. I think they work on the cause not on the problem but everyone has to decide for themselves what the best solution is.
                                                  The same apply to you.
                                                  Form an opinion on the various topics by consulting different sources of information. Learn your rights, find out what is important to you and what is not, what you like and what you don't like. Find your position and stand up for it.

                                                          vyktoryah i agree with that for sure! it definitely should apply to them

                                                          Fairer,but it would not help you avoid it.

                                                          And,if your sisters know you wanted your parents to use chastity belts on them too,they can haven resentment over you...

                                                          vyktoryah i just know the next 2 weeks at most because thats how delivery works

                                                          Have they measured you and your sisters(maybe without telling why)?

                                                          If not,the belt would probably not be a major brand one,and may not fit.

                                                          Ines I have sisters, and rules are the same.

                                                          Different as it is willingly.If she hasn't changed her mind,one of your sister is able to not wear as she don't want to,right?

                                                          James

                                                          A chastity belt is never a solution.

                                                          Jen Tell them you refuse
                                                          Tell them your not trying it

                                                          It worked for you,but not sure for her.

                                                          vyktoryah ill go to how ive always been pretty well behaved too and i do my chores and stuff.

                                                          It was not the case of your sisters?

                                                          Laura In my opinion,your parents should started with your older sisters, because they are already guilty

                                                          It would be fairer,at least.

                                                          vyktoryah to make an acccomadation with my sisters that if they want to live here rent free off my parents they need to wear a belt too.

                                                          Classical for reluctant wearers.

                                                          MaximeJourennes

                                                          I doubt it would help her,as she would probably be a reluctant wearer too.

                                                          HHelen I wouldn't belt you now if you promised to remain virgin.

                                                          But later,as for your daughter?

                                                          vyktoryah they no longer have locks on their doors starting tomorrow and they have to share locations with my parents on the iphone messenger. they also arent allowed to have anyone over and they need to start saving money to move out and they have to do almost all the chores except for the one i have and they are gonna be SUPPOSEDLY making dinner every night too.

                                                          They know it?How have they reacted?

                                                          vyktoryah belting a pregnant woman raises difficulties

                                                          Sure.

                                                          Maybe after her pregnancy,but it would be awful for her to know she would have it on in a few months,without being able to avoid it...Very stressful!

                                                          vyktoryah

                                                          Do your parents know it?

                                                          vyktoryah but my mom said she doesnt want me to touch myself anymore

                                                          Sorry for you...

                                                          And chastity belts are very effective to prevent it.

                                                          I guess it would apply to your sisters too.

                                                          vyktoryah she says that not masturbating can increases ur moods and you have more motivation to do things and get out of bed and youll wana work out and stuff. is any of that even true???

                                                          Only if you do this to distract you of your urges.

                                                          vyktoryah ive developed a major dependence on being with my friend who is an online friend though. we literaly spend all day if we can just doing stuff together.

                                                          Planning to live with someone you don't know well IRL is very very risked.I strongly advise you to take good care,and let your parents/friends(your friends,not his friends)know where you are,what you're doing and such.And waiting to know him well IRL,and after he met your family a few times before living with him would be better.

                                                          And even more,if he knows you're depressed and in troubles with your family,he can easily think you would be easy to manipulate.

                                                                                            Vanessa Different as it is willingly.If she hasn't changed her mind,one of your sister is able to not wear as she don't want to,right?

                                                                                            Right. She is becoming more feminine, but she is far of liking a chastity belt.
                                                                                            A pity because it would help her, but... Anyone can live the life of another person.

                                                                                                Joh Vanessa sorry if i missed anything anyone said ill try to answer everything with this reply.
                                                                                                also im not sure how to quote messages like you do so i will just go down and answer it

                                                                                                ive definitely discussed all those things with my friend though and i know the risks that come withmeeting up with online people and im usually really skeptical about it but the things theyve done for me and the positions theyv eput thsmelves in for me makes me feel they are genuine. nobody knows my plans yet though

                                                                                                from what i know though my sisters do not know about the belts. i havent asked them about it and they havent seemed any different. they also usually dirty up the house then leave it and didnt really care. theres always dishes around the place and anytime they are home its just a tornado of clothes and stuff. as for the measurements though my mom has measured me but it hasnt been for awhile and to my knowldge its only to buy me new clothes but she of course does have my size. but in all i really have made goodplans with my friend its actually a married woman that i dont plan on really being TOGETHER with i just wana live with them and play games hang out and just have a good time because we have been doign that for awhile and it just seems like what i want in life. weve already discussed the jobs we are gonna have and how we will pay for everything and we have really good communication skills so im definitely thinking it will go okay but thank you everyone for your concerns and replies. i still reallyt dont know how i feel about all of this so many people say different things about chastity lol. some people say its good and the end result is better and other people say it only works if the person wants it. imnot sure what i want i want to be happier of course and i wana not end up like my sisters so idk. no new major updates as of right now though

                                                                                                      Vanessa Maybe after her pregnancy,but it would be awful for her to know she would have it on in a few months,without being able to avoid it...Very stressful!

                                                                                                      she should not find out during pregnancy, this could cause a lot of stress and put the child at risk

                                                                                                      vyktoryah also im not sure how to quote messages like you do so

                                                                                                      mark the text part, then it will be displayed 😉

                                                                                                      vyktoryah no new major updates as of right now though

                                                                                                      so you haven't talked to your parents about this exactly? i hope you can avoid the belt.

                                                                                                              Vanessa But later,as for your daughter?

                                                                                                              Many things might happen. But yes.