Become a belted wife

Laura She got married recently

I didn't really notice that at all

congratulations @Megan (even though I'm late)

Laura I was married some time ago but I mentioned it in passing not going into details not going into details no one wants to hear...
I am just so used to everything I am a creature of habit, so most of my routine has stayed pretty much the same.

I do not have the career that my husband has and while he doesn't dominate me he does ask about what do I want to do with my life type questions. I think he is genuinely curious as selling clothing doesn't seem to be worthwhile for me anymore.

@Laura I believe you already created posts about working in IT maybe I need to look at those again...
I am not as smart as many of you but I am not stupid either, I think my husband is correct and I would be happier challenging myself. I don't want to exercise super hard anymore either. My body has stayed about the same since I stopped the whole movement addiction...

Laura She has mentioned her husband few times already

really? i didn't quite catch that. i thought she was still engaged.

Megan in passing not going into details not going into details no one wants to hear...

of course we would like to read such details, then it probably wouldn't have slipped my mind either.

Angelina I didn't really notice that at all

Me too!

So:Congratulations @Megan!

Laura However, everybody here wants to hear the details related to your belt

Right.

Hey,
since I asked Angelina this in another thread I wanted to extend this question to all the unmarried girls here. Most of you are placed inside the belt by your parents who, at least that's what I hope, have only good intentions for you. Nevertheless almost all of you want to get rid of your belt as soon as you get married. Is there a particual reason. Do you intend to cheat or masturbate in your relationship, or are there other reasons for wanting out?
It seems like you already used to the belt and I can tell you any man would to see that kind of commitment to your relationship in his girl.

Kaushal Nevertheless almost all of you want to get rid of your belt as soon as you get married. Is there a particual reason. Do you intend to cheat or masturbate in your relationship, or are there other reasons for wanting out?

I have noticed it too. Probably their parents know them better.

Kaushal It seems like you already used to the belt and I can tell you any man would to see that kind of commitment to your relationship in his girl.

Even if I am one of the few here who don't get out of my chastity equipment (including tightbands and a chastity bra?, It's quite easy. It's just not comfortable to wear it all the time and many women see it as missing trust from the husband.

Kaushal I really believe that a lot more daughters would be locked up, if knowledge about chastity belts was more commonplace. It's a good compromise to give your daughter more freedom to go out, recieve an education, while still making protect her from her urges to become a slut.

some people here in the forum have tried that, i would say with some it works and with some it doesn't, i think that communication is very important. i also think that at the latest after the wedding the parents should no longer have the keys because the daughter will then have passed the "maturity test".

Angelina i also think that at the latest after the wedding the parents should no longer have the keys

Of course, that's not what I am advocating for. The keys should obviously go to the husband, but he shouldn't just throw the belt out the window.

Kaushal It seems like you already used to the belt and I can tell you any man would to see that kind of commitment to your relationship in his girl.

No way. This is the worst that can happen.

Christine No way. This is the worst that can happen.

Hello Christine,
I don't know your story, so forgive me for asking, but why would you think that? If you saved yourself for marriage, why would you not want to save yourself, when in marriage?

Women are biologically not very well suited to resist temptation, that's why men kept control of them for most of human history. And they are not doing themselves any good. Just look at the declination of female happiness in comparison to the increase in their promiscuity. They are not strong enough to resist casual sex, when a handsome man comes along, but they only get happiness from long lasting stable relationships.

That's why I do believe most women in the west would benefit from somebody else controlling access to their nether regions. And if that is true for the unmarried woman why would it change after marriage?

Kaushal but he shouldn't just throw the belt out the window.

yes and no

if the wife wants to continue to wear the belt for the husband, then that is ok, but it can also be interpreted by the wife as a sign that the husband does not trust her. in which case, in my opinion, the two should not get married either.

Kaushal They are not strong enough to resist casual sex,

please ???? I must clearly disagree here, of course women are happier in long-term relationships, but as far as casual sex is concerned, men are far more "at risk".

Kaushal Women are biologically not very well suited to resist temptation

This is rubbish. Women are not driven by their sexuality like man. You reflect your imagination on woman without understanding how they feel.

Kaushal That's why I do believe most women in the west would benefit from somebody else controlling access to their nether regions.

I can confirm it from my experience.

Kaushal And if that is true for the unmarried woman why would it change after marriage?

Her husband might not like it.

Kaushal

It is pretty easy to answer;I don't like to wear it,to be restricted and not able to have access on some parts of my body.

I don't plan to cheat on Emilie(I'm faithful when I've a boyfriend or a girlfriend),but I probably still masturbate(Emilie is ok with it and she would do the same).And personally,I don't think we can get used to the belt.We can manage it better,but not be used to it.

I add too that Emilie would not want me to stay locked(and I would not want her to be locked),but we would probably use it as a game,after we get married.

Laura

Right!

Sara2001 as missing trust from the husband.

I agree it can be felt this way,yes.

Kaushal It's a good compromise to give your daughter more freedom to go out

It was the agreement for some of us.

Angelina i think that communication is very important.

I agree.

Kaushal Women are biologically not very well suited to resist temptation, that's why men kept control of them for most of human history. And they are not doing themselves any good. Just look at the declination of female happiness in comparison to the increase in their promiscuity. They are not strong enough to resist casual sex, when a handsome man comes along, but they only get happiness from long lasting stable relationships.

That's why I do believe most women in the west would benefit from somebody else controlling access to their nether regions. And if that is true for the unmarried woman why would it change after marriage?

As a member of the forum,and as an administrator of it,I strongly advise you to respect women here.In the introduction thread,sentences like

Kaushal I don't think she has any intentions of cheating on me, but sometimes women forget to see the longtime picture and emotionally live in the moment, so I don't mind helping her stay true to what I know she wants.

and your precedent post,among some others,like:

Kaushal It's a good compromise to give your daughter more freedom to go out, recieve an education, while still making protect her from her urges to become a slut.

,seems a bit like you treat us as "weak sluts that can resist their urges".It is not a good idea if you want to stay welcomed here.And I suggest you to read the forums rules.

You can express your opinion,as other in this thread as done,but you should respect the other members,including women,here.

Angelina if the wife wants to continue to wear the belt for the husband, then that is ok, but it can also be interpreted by the wife as a sign that the husband does not trust her.

A long talk can be useful to know if she would wear it ,and why.If they agree about wearing it and the reasons for it,totally willngly,it can be used without problems;if not,they may have more problems in their relationship than the wearing of a chastity belt,yes,as you suggest.