Angelina but i think the separation should take place before looking for a new partner

You should take your time to get over the divorce and and put yourself and your life in order. Find out what you like and not like, what is important and what you expect from a new relationship. Otherwise it could be you start with the wrong one again.

    Angelina but i think the separation should take place before looking for a new partner,

    Should she wear a chastity belt during the separation in this dystopia?

      Joh

      i agree, but i wrote this under the condition of a chastity belt law 😉

      Laura Should she wear a chastity belt during the separation in this dystopia?

      difficult. i would say no because she is still officially married and if she changes her mind again she ahould could have sex with her husband at any time.

        I would say any world where chastity devices are mandatory for the unmarried would be running on the principle of no sexual relief outside of "marriage duties". Which would mean a chastity belt would be customary, if not required, for spouses in the process of separation. Of course with the soon-to-be-former spouse having the ability to remove the belt if the marriage is resumed before the divorce.

          Angelina I don't think it's impossible

          But very very very unlikely.

          Angelina if it is a hard decision

          Sure.

          HHelen She doesn't need to be divorce for looking. She can divorce right before a next marriage.

          Yes,but she may want to never be unfaithful,and so divorce first.

          Laura

          🤣

          Angelina in germany, according to the law, you have to have been separated for one year before you can get divorced.

          Even if the two partners agree to divorce?

          Laura

          Probably.

          youdontknowme

          I agree.

            youdontknowme

            maybe no belt during the separation, but as soon as she has sex with another man, she has to wear the belt again (difficult to control)?

            Vanessa But very very very unlikely.

            unless I found the CBP (chastity belt party) 😉

            Vanessa Even if the two partners agree to divorce?

            yes, because marriage is something important. the partners should think about whether they really want a divorce during this one year.

              Angelina but as soon as she has sex with another man, she has to wear the belt again

              As soon as she declares a relationship with another man

                Laura As soon as she declares a relationship with another man

                that should be at least the latest timepoint, yes

                Angelina if she changes her mind again she ahould could have sex with her husband at any time

                Then the separation will be over.

                  Laura Then tell and show to their husbands 😂

                  I do not judge their behavior.

                  Angelina according to the law, you have to have been separated for one year before you can get divorced

                  Can you get married immediately after divorce?

                  Vanessa Yes,but she may want to never be unfaithful,and so divorce first.

                  She should be fine with a chastity belt.

                    Renita Then the separation will be over.

                    Makes sense. Chastity belt during a separation, that goes off when she returns back to the husband or after a new marriage

                    HHelen I do not judge their behavior.

                    Do you support adultery?

                      Laura a new marriage

                      a new marriage???? Oh come on, for god's sake! Anybody is to marry only once in their life !!!!! Once and forever!!! It's a holy boundary in front of God, not a cable TV provider treaty that you can change whenever you want to. Sure, in some rare exceptions like when being abused or tricked it's ok, but that only bearly happens, luckily. You can't just marry someone else because you wake up ater lile 11 years and notice that youe partner investment dropped in value and that you want someone else now... maybe even make jim oay for you and the children while he never gets to see them again.... like seriously ... no....

                        Max9
                        Even if the spouse gets into an accident a week later and dies, you want the surviving widow to remain single for life and live miserably knowing they can't search for a new partner?

                          Laura Chastity belt during a separation

                          Correct. Separation means no sex for her.

                          Max9 a new marriage????

                          You didn't know that many people get married few times in their life?

                            Max9 I know one country besides Vatican that disallows divorce (Philippines), but even in Philippines death of a spouse terminates the marriage. Honestly I never saw any country that banned such thing.

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                              Raziel if my wife died in an accident I would definitely stay single for life - till we meet again in heaven

                                Renita I do... just don't like it.

                                Rina why are we talking about a dying partner now?

                                In the states one second after the judge signs the degree, You can marry again.

                                Renita Then the separation will be over.

                                that's true, but that's what the one-year separation is for in german law. 🙂

                                HHelen Can you get married immediately after divorce?

                                after divorce yes, but not in the year of separation

                                Laura Makes sense. Chastity belt during a separation, that goes off when she returns back to the husband or after a new marriage

                                that makes sense, i could imagine a law like that (theoretically)

                                Max9 a new marriage???? Oh come on, for god's sake! Anybody is to marry only once in their life !!!!! Once and forever!!!

                                now you can see your catholic features 😉 no seriously, this is of course the idial picture, but the reality is sometimes different. of course i only plan to get married once in my life, but i can't rule out that it will not be my only wedding. a relative of mine is getting married for the fourth time soon.

                                Raziel

                                that would also be a good argument

                                Max9

                                you are now 20. let's say theoretically you marry at 25 and your wife dies a year later. would you then remain single until the end of your life (i.e. the next 50-65 years)?

                                  Angelina that's true, but that's what the one-year separation is for in german law

                                  Is there a way to cancel it?