Renita And not tell friends

Of course.

Angelina it is worse than chastity

I agree.

HHelen Different status.

But she would be able to find someone else to marry,which make her happier,even if it means a "lower" status for a while.

HHelen Would you approve a chastity belt in this case?

If the only possibilities are an unhappy marriage or a chastity belt?

The chastity belt,in my case.

Foxies

It is very romantic.🙂

And a good way to consider how you live together,even if not wed.

I like you wear rings like wedding ones,too.🙂

Angelina i always enjoy reading your comments

Me too.

    Foxies We just chose to make the promises personal and private,

    that is also perfectly ok, but i must also point out again that at least in our country there are also legal things that ensure that we make this promise as a marriage promise. 🙂

    Rina That's why I said it would be very dystopian thing.

    I agree with you, even though I don't think it's impossible

    Vanessa If the only possibilities are an unhappy marriage or a chastity belt?

    The chastity belt,in my case.

    I agree even if it is a hard decision

      Laura Have your friends seen your belt?

      No, they don't know about it.

      Vanessa But she would be able to find someone else to marry,which make her happier,even if it means a "lower" status for a while.

      She doesn't need to be divorce for looking. She can divorce right before a next marriage.

      Vanessa If the only possibilities are an unhappy marriage or a chastity belt?

      No, I meant a chastity belt being unhappily married.

        Rina Such law sounds really dystopian thing

        Not for my mother.

        HHelen She doesn't need to be divorce for looking. She can divorce right before a next marriage.

        i don't know how it is in other countries. in germany, according to the law, you have to have been separated for one year before you can get divorced. with a bit of luck, that should be enough to find a new partner. but i think the separation should take place before looking for a new partner, otherwise it would be very dishonest.

          Angelina but i think the separation should take place before looking for a new partner

          You should take your time to get over the divorce and and put yourself and your life in order. Find out what you like and not like, what is important and what you expect from a new relationship. Otherwise it could be you start with the wrong one again.

            Angelina but i think the separation should take place before looking for a new partner,

            Should she wear a chastity belt during the separation in this dystopia?

              Joh

              i agree, but i wrote this under the condition of a chastity belt law 😉

              Laura Should she wear a chastity belt during the separation in this dystopia?

              difficult. i would say no because she is still officially married and if she changes her mind again she ahould could have sex with her husband at any time.

                I would say any world where chastity devices are mandatory for the unmarried would be running on the principle of no sexual relief outside of "marriage duties". Which would mean a chastity belt would be customary, if not required, for spouses in the process of separation. Of course with the soon-to-be-former spouse having the ability to remove the belt if the marriage is resumed before the divorce.

                  Angelina I don't think it's impossible

                  But very very very unlikely.

                  Angelina if it is a hard decision

                  Sure.

                  HHelen She doesn't need to be divorce for looking. She can divorce right before a next marriage.

                  Yes,but she may want to never be unfaithful,and so divorce first.

                  Laura

                  🤣

                  Angelina in germany, according to the law, you have to have been separated for one year before you can get divorced.

                  Even if the two partners agree to divorce?

                  Laura

                  Probably.

                  youdontknowme

                  I agree.

                    youdontknowme

                    maybe no belt during the separation, but as soon as she has sex with another man, she has to wear the belt again (difficult to control)?

                    Vanessa But very very very unlikely.

                    unless I found the CBP (chastity belt party) 😉

                    Vanessa Even if the two partners agree to divorce?

                    yes, because marriage is something important. the partners should think about whether they really want a divorce during this one year.

                      Angelina but as soon as she has sex with another man, she has to wear the belt again

                      As soon as she declares a relationship with another man

                        Laura As soon as she declares a relationship with another man

                        that should be at least the latest timepoint, yes

                        Angelina if she changes her mind again she ahould could have sex with her husband at any time

                        Then the separation will be over.

                          Laura Then tell and show to their husbands 😂

                          I do not judge their behavior.

                          Angelina according to the law, you have to have been separated for one year before you can get divorced

                          Can you get married immediately after divorce?

                          Vanessa Yes,but she may want to never be unfaithful,and so divorce first.

                          She should be fine with a chastity belt.

                            Renita Then the separation will be over.

                            Makes sense. Chastity belt during a separation, that goes off when she returns back to the husband or after a new marriage

                            HHelen I do not judge their behavior.

                            Do you support adultery?

                              Laura a new marriage

                              a new marriage???? Oh come on, for god's sake! Anybody is to marry only once in their life !!!!! Once and forever!!! It's a holy boundary in front of God, not a cable TV provider treaty that you can change whenever you want to. Sure, in some rare exceptions like when being abused or tricked it's ok, but that only bearly happens, luckily. You can't just marry someone else because you wake up ater lile 11 years and notice that youe partner investment dropped in value and that you want someone else now... maybe even make jim oay for you and the children while he never gets to see them again.... like seriously ... no....

                                Max9
                                Even if the spouse gets into an accident a week later and dies, you want the surviving widow to remain single for life and live miserably knowing they can't search for a new partner?

                                  Laura Chastity belt during a separation

                                  Correct. Separation means no sex for her.

                                  Max9 a new marriage????

                                  You didn't know that many people get married few times in their life?