Saintprudence People just aren’t ready for that conversation.

right, and that goes both ways, as far as having sex and preventing sex are concerned. which is also a pity, i think we have become an open society, so that shouldn't be a problem any more.

Megan NO! That would not work out.

probably not and it would put all volunteers on the same level as offenders, but i find the idea interesting

Yolanda With a law that allows them to put a lock on us, that's it, the government would not have to do more.

But that would not be enough, the government would have to set the exact conditions so that no abuse happens

    Angelina

    Angelina But that would not be enough, the government would have to set the exact conditions so that no abuse happens

    I don't think it was necessary...
    Are you single and have one, two, three, four or five locks (like me)?
    There is no problem, your parents or your husband are taking good care of you.
    What else happens? There are already laws to fall back on... we're talking about a law of chastity belts not that we become slaves.

      I think more or less the same. I think that if it were legal, initially a majority percentage of society would wear a chastity belt for their girls.
      Of the percentage of girls in families who didn't think it was necessary, many, in the end, would end up using it because of peer pressure, not wanting to be the class bitch, or the office bitch, and the like.
      In the end the law has to say that it is legal to keep single girls with a chastity belt and who should be the keyholder who can do it.
      Are you single, you don't want to wear a belt but your, for example, father makes you have one? All legal.
      Do you wear a belt, your keyholder, for example, never opens it and Your have to suffer from chafing or lack of hygiene? There are already laws that allow reporting abuse regardless of whether chastity belts are used or not.

        If the law not only allows, but requires, it is different.
        Probably most of the population complied with the law, the majority for agreeing, and the rest, in the end because it does not force anything bad either.
        Of the percentage that was radically against, if the control would be more complicated. I am not a specialist, but here identity cards have a chip. I suppose that if we girls are assigned a second chip to wear on our belt, it would be possible to check on devices on public roads if we carry both chips with us or not.
        In the houses, control would already be very, very complicated.

        Angelina I have another question for everyone
        what is your opinion on replacing prison sentences with chastity sentences? So someone who gets 5 years in prison would get 5 years in a chastity belt instead. The question arises above all in relation to pure sexual offences

        No.
        But I think that the chastity belt should be mandatory in prisons.
        I do not conceive that a woman who has suffocated her baby has the right to that pleasure in prison.
        The discipline and good behavior that he did not learn in freedom would be taught by the penitentiary institution.

          Ines The problem with such a law is that it hands control of adults over to other adults, and I’m not sure that’s something we really want happening. It formalizes a group of second-class citizens who are dependent on their keyholders. What about women who would want to opt out of the system, but their legal keyholders want them to stay in the belt? What would the the priority order of keyholders if they had no living parents? Would women be permitted to keyhold or would it be strictly about men controlling women? And would single men be subject to being locked up?

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            Saintprudence
            Totally agree.
            Without a doubt, it is something that I personally do not think is good, or not exactly so.
            About those girls who do not want to, but their keyholders do, it is clear that they would have the law against them.
            Although I think that, at least in a very substantial part, it could be successful because I think that many fathers and husbands would take advantage of that.
            Currently, chastity only works because it is voluntary, I don't believe the horror stories, but in that scenario, without consequences, I would probably have to start believing many scary stories. If we girls lose the protection of willpower, we are lost.
            The list of possible keyholders, who are the ones who can ultimately force the girl, would appear hierarchically in the law.
            I would probably put: husband, father, mother and brother.
            I do not understand or share the concept of male chastity, so they would only serve as a keyholder.
            Don't get me wrong, I think this would all be a setback, but I also think that if it were raised, we would be in for a nasty surprise seeing the number of supporters.

              Ines Don't get me wrong, I think this would all be a setback, but I also think that if it were raised, we would be in for a nasty surprise seeing the number of supporters.

              I do agree with you there. America’s conservative side, which numbers over a hundred million people, is obsessed with controlling women, preventing masturbation, and enforcing virginity. I suspect that the main reason we don’t see widespread interest in chastity on that side of things is that they thinks belts are either a myth or big unwieldy medieval chunks of metal.

              I will confess it’s an interesting social simulation experiment for the reasons you mention. How many would do it out of social pressure? Probably a lot. How many adult women would barely be on speaking terms with their families over belting? Also a lot. But then, how many women would have to stay in contact with family members they hated because they hold the keys? I have met a lot of older, very traditional parents who would be thrilled to maintain that level of control over their adult single or divorced daughters, and would be very pleased to know that their husbands had chastity rights.

                Ines

                Saintprudence

                I think giving control to the parents would be worse than the state forcing it. Like the girls that are forced into it but see their friends not having to - there would be so much anger within the families.

                What happens to Lesbian marriage? Do they get to be each other's keyholders?
                It might be used as a loophole by two friends. I guess if the law says chastity belts can be forced then gay marriage would be banned.

                  Just imagining if they could have forced me to wear it - I'd never be convinced - I'd just hate it and them forever

                    Jen I think you’d see a LOT of “marriages of convenience” between friends to escape the belt. But even then, women would be giving a lot of trust to their friend that he wouldn’t take advantage of the power it gives him.

                    American culture gives men way too much power over sexuality already. I’d dress what would happen if men and parents — the literal essence of the patriarchy — had such legal control over all women.

                    Jen the sad thing is, it would be worth it to some of them. My mom knew that her insistence on deeply traditional anti-masturbation Catholic beliefs drove a wedge between us until the day she died. She didn’t care. She considered it a price she was willing to pay if it made me less likely to masturbate. She would have closed a belt on me in an instant and never looked back if it was an option, and she would have been content with the consequences.

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                      Jen this is why I still have such a conflicted relationship with the church to this day, though it’s getting better. In talking to others, I’m learning that my mom’s version of traditional Catholicism was considered rather extreme. (She all but rejected Vatican II, for instance.)

                        I think I'd rather have my husband check my chastity belt than have a policewoman do it.
                        Surely most of your friends would end up locked up as @Ines and Saintprudence say and I think that the anger in the family if the girl is forced, would exist just the same.

                          Yolanda Surely most of your friends would end up locked up

                          Here (Australia) there's Catholics and the whole Hillsong thing - so yeah it would happen but I don't think most just some. Lol if you asked my friends about this stuff they'd even say I'm the one who gets belted 😂

                            Yolanda I think I'd rather have my husband check my chastity belt than have a policewoman do it.

                            Yes and I thought of that! Like TSA I have told them before that my hands are empty I am not going to pose for them to pat my empty hands going through that silly sci fi booth!!! They can kick rocks!

                            Ines I do not conceive that a woman who has suffocated her baby has the right to that pleasure in prison.

                            Absolutely not and it is okay to go straight to the death penalty instead of making sexual pleasure even a topic at all!

                            Ines I would probably put: husband, father, mother and brother.

                            IDK about brother I don't think that brothers should be bothered at all.,

                            Don't worry it isn't happening although there are some people who have used it as a therapy and it helped them avoid behaving badly with drug addicts and them maybe being in a terrible place!
                            So whenever it goes to that it will be therapy not prisons like women have now.

                              Jen Here (Australia) there's Catholics and the whole Hillsong thing - so yeah it would happen but I don't think most just some. Lol if you asked my friends about this stuff they'd even say I'm the one who gets belted 😂

                              Don't worry it isn't going to happen at all...
                              Don't get me all worried! I have to sleep !
                              Worrying about things like this is what ruined my month anyways.