Been gone a while

Laura How would you know if he is right one?

If you find the right person you know it. Follow you feeling.
I have actively sought a new partner several times in my life. In the process I have met many women. We talked, drank coffee, went for walks and told each other our previous life, what we like and what we do not. It comes all by itself and at some point you know. She is the right person.

Avery Yes and it's working with my grades and my running, I have actual proof with test results and running times.

You enjoy your running it's a great bonus to have

Avery Plus it feels good to know that when I do have a guy I will be able to give him something nobody else had had, at least for a whle.

But is it about that? I think this thought is nearly a trap. There's also what your giving yourself - when you have a guy you'll have something special you haven't had for a while. That's what makes sense to me.

Avery I know I won't last 'til I'm married

It's hard it's a crazy thing to think about

Avery Needing a belt to do it I consider a sign of weakness in me

Wow you go
That's just stress for me like locking the belt is a decision I make it and then I can relax but just being strong is like an fight with yourself. For when your actually doing stuff sure but alone or overnight...

Joh The solution is to control yourself.

if only

Avery Yup

Is right partner like - meaning life partner? I guess at least expecting it to become that?

Jen if only

Why, if only? Is there someone else who has an influence at achieving your goal?

Jen You enjoy your running it's a great bonus to have

I do. When I was younger I was a swimmer but here in the Northeast US you are always inside. Running you get outside most every day, not in the dead of winter, and I love getting out especially mornings in summer.

Jen But is it about that? I think this thought is nearly a trap. There's also what your giving yourself - when you have a guy you'll have something special you haven't had for a while. That's what makes sense to me.

It's about self-discipline, self-respect, getting really in touch with your body and what it needs rather than what it wants and striving to do what's right with the gifts God gave you. And feeling a little bit special. Looking at myself in the mirror naked and knowing I'm not giving it away.

Jen It's hard it's a crazy thing to think about

I'm going to see some of the Brigham Young girls Friday and Saturday in Florida. I'd love to know what the married ones did. Did they give themselves to their guys before they got married. I have read, but not actually been told, people look the other way if you're betrothed.

Jen Wow you go
That's just stress for me like locking the belt is a decision I make it and then I can relax but just being strong is like an fight with yourself. For when your actually doing stuff sure but alone or overnight...

I've made changes in my lifestyle to make it easier. Like showering in the locker room where I can't masturbate, sleeping with my door open so people can hear if I masturbate (I yell a lot). No drinking which weakens your resistance. stuff like that.

Jen Is right partner like - meaning life partner? I guess at least expecting it to become that?

Right. I think. I don't want to get married too young tho. Want to have a career started, a few $$$ in the bank, just be older and understand more about what I want. So if I have a strong feeling for someone soon I'll give in, I'm pretty sure.

Avery Also, I can say boobs and he doesn't mind but beware of tits.

In germany there are "Möpse" (which also describes a breed of dog).

youdontknowme But yeah, wiener puns are great

so the penis of an austrian is an "Wiener Würstchen"?

Angelina In germany there are "Möpse" (which also describes a breed of dog).

And quite the fun visual joke, where a man compliments a women in the street on her nice pair of those, everyone around gets offended, but she thanks him and lowers her two pugs to the ground.

Funguy Yes, that was most logical. But from what you told about your mother, I didn't want to completely rule out option 1.
And to me your English is fine; this was something that could easily have gone wrong with a native speaker too. In contrast to computer languages, natural languages can often be ambiguous, and you really have to work hard to avoid them.

youdontknowme

yes and the other day i met a pretty woman in the lift who told me to press the 2, somehow the situation escalated

Avery Thanks, that will come in handy.

Angelina yes and the other day i met a pretty woman in the lift who told me to press the 2,

Great. I should remember it the next time I am in the same situation.

Jonas Successful chastity, long term, needs lots of things to be in place, not just a belt.

Probably yes;

The belt is only a help.

Jonas So, I will still have access to this board I think, but the time I spend on here must be limited.

Try to,at least,have time on it not counted as "social media" but in special "forum" part,with its own duration.

Avery Some of the stuff makes sense though.

Yes,but there is a lot of measures,even if I understand the purpose of these.

Avery it's working with my grades and my running

Good!

Avery I will be able to give him something nobody else had had

Understandable,yes.

A good gift to a man you love.

Avery serious about.

So until a serious relationship?

Good goal.

Avery I don't know what will happen to me next summer.

Harder in Summer?

Or only due to the clothing?

Angelina i just don't think that's right.

Or you had "love at first sight" ("coup de foudre" en français).

Angelina the belt was never in my possession, either camryn had worn it or it was at her home

Ok,I thought you may have opened it during her training for permanent wearing(even if you decided not to do it).

Avery leaving the door open so I can't masturbate

Even if no one is close to the door?

Avery Needing a belt to do it I consider a sign of weakness in me, though not in others.

Maybe at first,until you manage your urges better?

Jonas some sort of cyborg

Joh If you find the right person you know it. Follow you feeling.

Sometimes,I think a new boyfriend/girlfriend was the right,but I was wrong,however...

Vanessa So until a serious relationship?

Good goal

Right.

Vanessa Harder in Summer?

Or only due to the clothing?

That plus lots of free time, places to go, stay out later because it's warm. Lots of temptations.

Vanessa Even if no one is close to the door?

Well I'm kind of a screamer. Plus someone might still be up in the common room, plus it's usually dead quiet after about 11.

Vanessa Maybe at first,until you manage your urges better?

I'll use it if I have to. Just seems like a fail.

Vanessa I will still have access to this board I think, but the time I spend on here must be limited.

Try to,at least,have time on it not counted as "social media" but in special "forum" part,with its own duration.

At this stage I've a lot of input in making and setting up the rules. Once the "lock" is in place however, I no longer get a say, for obvious reasons. So, yeah, I'll make sure at this point that there's time to visit the forum

Vanessa Jonas some sort of cyborg

Vanessa

Part man, part machine, flesh and steel as one!

Joh Great. I should remember it the next time I am in the same situation.

let me know how it went

Vanessa Or you had "love at first sight"

not at first sight, but at the first date

Vanessa Ok,I thought you may have opened it during her training for permanent wearing

I have (un)locked the padlock, but not any more.

Vanessa Sometimes,I think a new boyfriend/girlfriend was the right,but I was wrong,however...

As I wrote in another topic. Nobody is perfect from the beginning.
For me helped a lot to get my head around who I am, what I like and not like and what I expect from my partner. After that was done I started to search for a new one.

Angelina let me know how it went

If, yes