Amira

I'll play some more devil's advocate: suppose you were released more often. Wouldn't that make the urge to masturbate lower than if it has been quite long ago that you had the opportunity? And wouldn't that make it easier to choose not to, if you prefer that? In other words, with more releases the urge will be lower, and you will feel less like a robot.

This is just another point of view, and I'm not saying it is the best one. It's just another way of looking at it that might help you decide what would work best for you.
Or just make a deal with your mother that you'll try a period of fewer / no releases, and a period of more releases, and see what works best for you.
It seems link a big decision to make while you don't know what it will do to you. You should at the very least have some opportunity to go back if you choose no releases, like an evaluation point some time in the future.

      carg suppose you were released more often. Wouldn't that make the urge to masturbate lower than if it has been quite long ago that you had the opportunity?

      I think you're right that the frustration can certainly go up with time, however the more permanent and secure the belt is, the quicker you dismiss sexual thoughts or transform them into other thoughts and actions.

        Amira

        hi, nice to read an update from you again

        but i have to say right away that no one can take this decision away from you in the end. so far you couldn't imagine wearing the belt without breaks and it is different to say i will stay 100% chaste than to tell your mother "not today" for once. i understand that you are very frustrated in the days before. you know that you will have your break soon and your body thinks about it more. maybe it is also the pressure to have to function.

        i have a feeling you will make the right decision, but just in case you want to give up your breaks, don't do it without a contingency plan. what about the idea of trying it for a longer period of time, say 6 months. you stay locked up for 6 months and then talk to your mother again about how you feel about the issue?

          Amira I don't think I understand

          Keep wearing your belt.

            thanks to all of you 🙂

            I read everything each and everyone of you has written.

            Today it feels like the right decision to not have breaks for masturbation anymore. Even though this decision might be difficult at times it feels right.

            I will still have the opportunity to take baths without the belt on for relaxation, but then the door to the bathroom can't be closed.

            We agreed that the decision is not final and that I can back out of it at any time in the future, witz one small side agreement: When I say, that I want to get back to the old agreement, I have to wait at least one week for the first release. So it is made sure that the decision isn't made because of some kind of mood swing 🙂

              @Amira has your new agreement changed anything about thighbands? Do you think you will fight more or less because of this in the future?

                Amira When I say, that I want to get back to the old agreement, I have to wait at least one week for the first release.

                This seems like a sensible way to start off the agreement, and a good trial to see how things go... all without losing the luxury of your bath. I would go for something a little longer than just a week if you want to revert to the old agreement though. Either way, I hope everything works out well for you!

                  Amira We agreed that the decision is not final and that I can back out of it at any time in the future

                  Be careful, it might not be possible.

                      Kaja Masturbate every time you can!

                      she can't always (physically) that's the problem 😉

                      Amira

                      i think that sounds good, so no more mastubation breaks for now? it's good that you keep doing your relaxing bath. what happens when you're lying in the bath and your sexual feelings come over you? do you tell your mother then?

                      i think it's good that you can go back in an emergency but that it's not made too easy for you. decisions have consequences!

                      good luck 😃

                            Amira

                            I'm surprised to not have answered you,especially as I'm pretty sure I've read it...

                            Anyway,you're strong to have decided to not have breaks anymore!

                            But if you feel better for you this way,it is the right decision.

                            Good you can decide to change this rule again;and the one week wait is a good idea.

                            Renita

                            Until now,it seems her parents were fair about the rules,so I doubt they would betray this agreement.

                            Angelina what happens when you're lying in the bath and your sexual feelings come over you?

                            As the door would not be closed anymore during it,I guess she would not be able to disobey.

                                    Vanessa As the door would not be closed anymore during it,I guess she would not be able to disobey.

                                    as i understand it, the door is just not locked anymore. that's why i ask. i can hardly imagine her calling out: "mom, please come into the bathroom and put my belt back on".

                                        Vanessa Until now,it seems her parents were fair about the rules,so I doubt they would betray this agreement.

                                        There was no serious reason for it yet.

                                            Amira Wow, that's a very tough decision. So to be sure I understand it right, you are still allowed releases but you're not allowed to touch yourself anymore, right? And if so, how long do you plan to keep it that way?

                                                Angelina

                                                Possible,but she write "closed",and,in this situation,it would make sense...

                                                Renita

                                                I doubt it.

                                                You seem to think every keyholder would betray an agreement,which is far to be always the case(even if it is what happened to you).

                                                      Vanessa Possible,but she write "closed",and,in this situation,it would make sense...

                                                      right, maybe @Amira mira can clarify that again 😉

                                                      Vanessa You seem to think every keyholder would betray an agreement,which is far to be always the case

                                                      right my father told me from the beginning the belt stays until the wedding

                                                            Vanessa You seem to think every keyholder would betray an agreement

                                                            Every keyholder of an unwed daughter, because they want to protect her.

                                                                Renita But that doesn't necessarily mean they need ot betray her.

                                                                  Raziel Not again. why is my comment wrong? Renita said that she thinks every keyholder betrays them. Vanessa said not every keyholder betrays them. And I just agreed with Vanessa, so I said if they want to protect her, it doesn't mean they have to betray her. Why is everything I write wrong? Vanessa and Renita talked aboutt he whole thing as well