Right time to tell a man you wear chastity belt
Angelina my grandmother, for example, sees it differently and even if i suffer from it myself i can't really blame her because it's normal in HER worldview
I think if it comes to the term "normal", it's the society who defines what is normal not an individual. I don't say that I like it that it is like this, but that's how it is. But the society also defines up to witch degree something that is not seen as normal is acceptable.
Raquel But mine seem longer tahn yours....
It's normal - like I know for me it's very different to Ines. You'll be different too. My moods about the belt are all mixed up. The worst - I get sad about it - like I know why I'm doing it and I want to wear it - but still sometimes I'm depressed about what I'm missing out on - and all the other difficulties seem worse as well then.
And sometimes I'm having a completely opposite mood. Ines doesn't like to talk about it I think it's what she calles crises
- but really it's the main part of wearing a belt. This is intense but easier actually - like I know better the reason I'm waiting - I can let it be, not fight. You need to have peace with it. If you think it's a problem you'll always have problems.
I have to agree with you, but I will try to do everything I can to change this.
Raquel And I hope that, in summer, I can also take vacations from the belt.
interesting, reminds me of an employment contract. maybe i should also agree on 30 days beltholiday per year in my contract 
. no seriously, I wish you much success. and as far as your feelings are concerned:... well, it is completely normal that there are better and worse times, but your basic attitude is quite good, you can build on it. 
Megan
Yes, we have always been very close, and we are practically neighbors.
Our mothers, even, I already told you that they are members.
She was one of the first people who knew that I was going to start wearing a belt.
You will see that many things I do not answer here since we see each other or by wassap.
Joh Ask yourself why do you wear it.
As far as I understood you like the idea and you were intrigued when you saw it at Ines.
Now tell him you wear it while you like to be protected and not distracted in you daily live. That is it. No further explanation is necessary.
Yes, what you say is true, but it seems to me much harder than I thought.
Ines and the aunt help a lot, and that's where I go back, but if I'm alone, or I wake up in the middle of the night, then it costs me something more.
Ines Yes, we have always been very close
True.
No problem we meet at least 3 or 4 times every week. She is my Cicerone!
oh come on, give her some hope
HHelen I never said that you shouldn't know a person in everyday life.
But this only really works if you live together with this person.
Raquel Yes, what you say is true, but it seems to me much harder than I thought.
Ines and the aunt help a lot, and that's where I go back, but if I'm alone, or I wake up in the middle of the night, then it costs me something more.
First of all, it's good that you have this help, especially through personal contacts, many here don't have that, for many only this forum remains. Of course nobody can take the burden off you, I wouldn't expect that if I were you, but I don't think anyone wants to make it more difficult for you than necessary, rather the opposite.
Raquel She is my Cicerone!
I don't quite understand the word, the following is translated to me from wikipedia
"Cicerone is a name for a tourist guide who takes tourists and visitors to museums, places of interest, etc. and explains archaeological, historical and artistic backgrounds"
I think Ines could do that too, but you probably mean something like mentor, don't you?