Right time to tell a man you wear chastity belt

Raquel But mine seem longer tahn yours....

It's normal - like I know for me it's very different to Ines. You'll be different too. My moods about the belt are all mixed up. The worst - I get sad about it - like I know why I'm doing it and I want to wear it - but still sometimes I'm depressed about what I'm missing out on - and all the other difficulties seem worse as well then.
And sometimes I'm having a completely opposite mood. Ines doesn't like to talk about it I think it's what she calles crises - but really it's the main part of wearing a belt. This is intense but easier actually - like I know better the reason I'm waiting - I can let it be, not fight. You need to have peace with it. If you think it's a problem you'll always have problems.

Jen

In my case, generally, and at the risk of being superficial, they always come from experiencing some physical discomfort.
The background is clear to me, but sometimes the inconvenience makes me think about everything.
But hey, two more girls with belts, well, three, in the family, it helps.

Sara2001

I have to agree with you, but I will try to do everything I can to change this.

Raquel And I hope that, in summer, I can also take vacations from the belt.

interesting, reminds me of an employment contract. maybe i should also agree on 30 days beltholiday per year in my contract . no seriously, I wish you much success. and as far as your feelings are concerned:... well, it is completely normal that there are better and worse times, but your basic attitude is quite good, you can build on it.

Angelina
@Raquel, I will not count with that summer release...

Raquel And I hope that, in summer, I can also take vacations from the belt

I doubt

Laura
I can assure you that, she will not have it.

Angelina don't you think it's a risk to marry someone you don't know in everyday life?

I never said that you shouldn't know a person in everyday life.

Raquel just around the corner that I hit the ground, and I see that the abyss is approaching me.
I do not know.

@Ines does @Raquel play tennis or is there a neutral space you can socialize? You're a good sister !
I wish everyone had as positive of a friend!

Megan
Yes, we have always been very close, and we are practically neighbors.
Our mothers, even, I already told you that they are members.
She was one of the first people who knew that I was going to start wearing a belt.
You will see that many things I do not answer here since we see each other or by wassap.

Raquel
Ask yourself why do you wear it.
As far as I understood you like the idea and you were intrigued when you saw it at Ines.
Now tell him you wear it while you like to be protected and not distracted in you daily live. That is it. No further explanation is necessary.

Ines My uncles thinking way!

How about aunt?

Renita
Uncles... uncle and aunt!

Ines @Raquel, I will not count with that summer release...

Laura I doubt

Ines I can assure you that, she will not have it.

oh come on, give her some hope

HHelen I never said that you shouldn't know a person in everyday life.

But this only really works if you live together with this person.

Raquel Yes, what you say is true, but it seems to me much harder than I thought.
Ines and the aunt help a lot, and that's where I go back, but if I'm alone, or I wake up in the middle of the night, then it costs me something more.

First of all, it's good that you have this help, especially through personal contacts, many here don't have that, for many only this forum remains. Of course nobody can take the burden off you, I wouldn't expect that if I were you, but I don't think anyone wants to make it more difficult for you than necessary, rather the opposite.

Raquel She is my Cicerone!

I don't quite understand the word, the following is translated to me from wikipedia

"Cicerone is a name for a tourist guide who takes tourists and visitors to museums, places of interest, etc. and explains archaeological, historical and artistic backgrounds"

I think Ines could do that too, but you probably mean something like mentor, don't you?

Angelina oh come on, give her some hope

We just don't want to give her a false hope

Laura it will be @Ines telling @Raquel mum she doesn't really need a break

Jen it will be @Ines telling @Raquel mum she doesn't really need a break

No! I am not so bad.
I said them, even, that 4 days without releases is a big amount of time, I barely can remember 4 days without releases.
But one thing is a release because good reason and another one is "a vacation".
I respect the expectations of every one about the belt, I am sure there are girls who use the belt for a purpose and a vacation can be acceptable, but this is not the case.

Ines so will you be saying she won't need a vacation?

Jen
No, never.
I have told with her, so she knows the principles.
To fix the conditions is very important, and when they are settled, they have to be respected.
But I will not defend a pasture against @Raquel wishes, even if privately I say her that she is wrong.

Jen it will be @Ines telling @Raquel mum she doesn't really need a break

Most likely @Tere