Right time to tell a man you wear chastity belt

Raziel My take on answering this post though: Watch a movie together, and when you see a belt, ask how the other thinks about it. It would give you the idea of their take on the device.

sorry, i understood your post, but not this part. in what context do you mean this tip?

Sara2001 This is normal, too.

I don't think we can agree on this point. I would always ask someone who tells me that something I'm doing isn't normal, "what gives you the right to tell me what's normal"? I'm a bit individualistic and idealistic

Sara2001 They are definitely normal, too.

my grandmother, for example, sees it differently and even if i suffer from it myself i can't really blame her because it's normal in HER worldview

Raquel and I don't know how to tell him

why do you even want to say it?

Renita If you don't behave like a slut, because you wear a belt, than it's right and logical.
If you wear a belt, because you behaved like a slut, it sounds worse.

Nope, I was never one of those women.
It probably would have cost my parents more for me to accept the belt and, surely, I wouldn't be so angry now.

Megan Why would you use the word "slut" to describe yourself ever???? Like ever?

Sorry if it sounds bad, but I'm just pissed off.
I was never an easy girl, but it seems that my body adapts better to the belt than I do, and it is just around the corner that I hit the ground, and I see that the abyss is approaching me.
I do not know.

Raquel Nope, I was never one of those women.

Then no need to worry.

Renita Then no need to worry.

My uncles thinking way!

Raquel Sorry if it sounds bad, but I'm just pissed off.

We talked, but crises are very common. I think that do not have experienced key holder is drawback.

Angelina my grandmother, for example, sees it differently and even if i suffer from it myself i can't really blame her because it's normal in HER worldview

I think if it comes to the term "normal", it's the society who defines what is normal not an individual. I don't say that I like it that it is like this, but that's how it is. But the society also defines up to witch degree something that is not seen as normal is acceptable.

Ines We talked, but crises are very common.

But mine seem longer tahn yours....

Angelina why do you even want to say it?

It doesn't matter at the moment. And I hope that, in summer, I can also take vacations from the belt.

Raquel But mine seem longer tahn yours....

It's normal - like I know for me it's very different to Ines. You'll be different too. My moods about the belt are all mixed up. The worst - I get sad about it - like I know why I'm doing it and I want to wear it - but still sometimes I'm depressed about what I'm missing out on - and all the other difficulties seem worse as well then.
And sometimes I'm having a completely opposite mood. Ines doesn't like to talk about it I think it's what she calles crises - but really it's the main part of wearing a belt. This is intense but easier actually - like I know better the reason I'm waiting - I can let it be, not fight. You need to have peace with it. If you think it's a problem you'll always have problems.

Jen

In my case, generally, and at the risk of being superficial, they always come from experiencing some physical discomfort.
The background is clear to me, but sometimes the inconvenience makes me think about everything.
But hey, two more girls with belts, well, three, in the family, it helps.

Sara2001

I have to agree with you, but I will try to do everything I can to change this.

Raquel And I hope that, in summer, I can also take vacations from the belt.

interesting, reminds me of an employment contract. maybe i should also agree on 30 days beltholiday per year in my contract . no seriously, I wish you much success. and as far as your feelings are concerned:... well, it is completely normal that there are better and worse times, but your basic attitude is quite good, you can build on it.

Angelina
@Raquel, I will not count with that summer release...

Laura
I can assure you that, she will not have it.

Angelina don't you think it's a risk to marry someone you don't know in everyday life?

I never said that you shouldn't know a person in everyday life.

Raquel just around the corner that I hit the ground, and I see that the abyss is approaching me.
I do not know.

@Ines does @Raquel play tennis or is there a neutral space you can socialize? You're a good sister !
I wish everyone had as positive of a friend!

Megan
Yes, we have always been very close, and we are practically neighbors.
Our mothers, even, I already told you that they are members.
She was one of the first people who knew that I was going to start wearing a belt.
You will see that many things I do not answer here since we see each other or by wassap.

Raquel
Ask yourself why do you wear it.
As far as I understood you like the idea and you were intrigued when you saw it at Ines.
Now tell him you wear it while you like to be protected and not distracted in you daily live. That is it. No further explanation is necessary.

Joh Ask yourself why do you wear it.
As far as I understood you like the idea and you were intrigued when you saw it at Ines.
Now tell him you wear it while you like to be protected and not distracted in you daily live. That is it. No further explanation is necessary.

Yes, what you say is true, but it seems to me much harder than I thought.
Ines and the aunt help a lot, and that's where I go back, but if I'm alone, or I wake up in the middle of the night, then it costs me something more.

Ines Yes, we have always been very close

True.

Megan @Ines does @Raquel play tennis or is there a neutral space you can socialize? You're a good sister !
I wish everyone had as positive of a friend!

No problem we meet at least 3 or 4 times every week. She is my Cicerone!

Ines My uncles thinking way!

How about aunt?

Renita
Uncles... uncle and aunt!

Ines @Raquel, I will not count with that summer release...

Laura I doubt

Ines I can assure you that, she will not have it.

oh come on, give her some hope

HHelen I never said that you shouldn't know a person in everyday life.

But this only really works if you live together with this person.

Raquel Yes, what you say is true, but it seems to me much harder than I thought.
Ines and the aunt help a lot, and that's where I go back, but if I'm alone, or I wake up in the middle of the night, then it costs me something more.

First of all, it's good that you have this help, especially through personal contacts, many here don't have that, for many only this forum remains. Of course nobody can take the burden off you, I wouldn't expect that if I were you, but I don't think anyone wants to make it more difficult for you than necessary, rather the opposite.

Raquel She is my Cicerone!

I don't quite understand the word, the following is translated to me from wikipedia

"Cicerone is a name for a tourist guide who takes tourists and visitors to museums, places of interest, etc. and explains archaeological, historical and artistic backgrounds"

I think Ines could do that too, but you probably mean something like mentor, don't you?