youdontknowme

yes the word game was not good but august is usually the warmest and so it would help but i would also support your idea 😉

Raziel The opposite of Locktober could be Outober, where you're... "out."

I like Outober very much too 😉

    Raquel Yes, what you say is true, but it seems to me much harder than I thought.

    Any progress in it?

    Raziel The opposite of Locktober could be Outober, where you're... "out."

    Angelina I like Outober very much too

    Maybe if we ever find ourselves in that horribly sexist fantasy world where all girls are locked while the boys roam free, we could establish both. Girls get out for a month while the boys have to restrain themselves. Still half the population locked so no funny business that could result in things like unplanned pregnancies, but the world would be a little fairer, long-term wearers get a well-earned break and long-term non-wearers a much-overdue lesson in delayed gratification.

      youdontknowme No. Chastityty belts have to be orderet for both. Otherwise it will be REALY unfair.

      youdontknowme

      if we lived in this kind of world, i would agree with @Kaja, then both genders should have to wear a belt and the "outober" should apply to everyone 😉

        Angelina Obviously establishing some more gender equality should be the long-term goal, but I doubt that would be easy to achieve in a world where the rules, customs and traditions were as one-sided as that. And I reckon the only way to convince the people who came up with the idea of locking girls up in the first place would be to have different free months for boys and for girls.

        Who knows, you might even get 6 free months out of it in the end.

          youdontknowme

          i would agree if there were different months, then at least there would be no illicit sex, but i think the months should be evenly distributed. however, i also admit that it would probably find less acceptance this way (especially with men).

          • Joh replied to this.

            Angelina i also admit that it would probably find less acceptance this way (especially with men).

            I also see less acceptance with the female majority.

              Joh I also see less acceptance with the female majority.

              that's why it would be fairer if men had to wear it too, then women wouldn't feel disadvantaged. to be clear we are of course only talking about theoretical mind games 😉

              • Joh replied to this.

                Angelina I don't see any mayor unbalance between male and female wearing a CB. Count how many members are male and female with belt we have.

                  Joh I don't see any mayor unbalance between male and female wearing a CB. Count how many members are male and female with belt we have.

                  The interesting question would be how many "forced" or "convinced" wearers we have compared by wearers who truly want/love to wear it, splitted by gender.

                  I am not sure, but I have the feeling that more man wear it because they want it and more girls have to wear it because someone else wants it.

                    Sara2001 more man wear it because they want it and more girls have to wear it because someone else wants it.

                    This.

                    And the mere fact that this is a shared perception of reality is (of course unaccurate) interesting.

                    Sara2001 but I have the feeling that more man wear it because they want it

                    I get the same impression.

                    Sara2001 more girls have to wear it because someone else wants it.

                    I can't see this.
                    Obviously more men wear one and less women but I see many women who wear it because they like it.

                      Joh Obviously more men wear one and less women but I see many women who wear it because they like it.

                      But I think percentage of woman who have to wear it is higher then the percentage of man who have to wear it. Overall it's definitely more common for man (as a lifestyle/fetish/call it like you want).

                      • Joh replied to this.

                        Sara2001 But I think percentage of woman who have to wear it is higher then the percentage of man who have to wear it.

                        I suppose we will never know as long as no one has approached this scientifically.
                        We have contact with some people, but they are certainly not a representative group. And so we will only get a distorted picture.

                          Joh Obviously more men wear one and less women but I see many women who wear it because they like it.

                          yes, but among the forced, or rather involuntary, women are clearly in the majority.

                          Joh I suppose we will never know as long as no one has approached this scientifically.
                          We have contact with some people, but they are certainly not a representative group. And so we will only get a distorted picture.

                          we can only go on the basis of the forum, how many are in the world in general, we can hardly say. there are often new users coming here so we have to assume that our group is too small for a conclusive judgement.

                          • Joh replied to this.

                            Angelina yes, but among the forced, or rather involuntary, women are clearly in the majority.

                            Only at this forum. At other forums not.

                              Joh Only at this forum. At other forums not.

                              I frankly don't know of any other forums where there are involuntaries.

                              youdontknowme Other forums typically have very few forced members to begin with.

                              that's exactly what i mean, in other forums there are mostly only people who want to do it or see it as a fetish.