Laura Because they can blackmail each other

that's true, but not for every couple. i think if you define your goals clearly from the beginning and are willing to take on this dual role, it can work. i couldn't do it that way, so it didn't work (fortunately, in hindsight).

Jonas Ok. It'd be a bug if they were aiming to maintain each other' state of being unable to have sex, which is I think what we were talking about.

i don't think that should be the goal in a relationship that one or both don't have sex/orgasm anymore. i only think that it works because you want to preserve each other for your partner or also against your own search for sexual overdrive. with such goals it can work.

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      Samantha I was wondering if there are other couples where both partners wear chastity belts?

      There are, but apparently we're not serious enough, so I generally keep quiet about such things. ;-p

      Admittedly I'm 30-something and pregnant, so not exactly the target market for "unwed" + "chastity"... It's not like I'm saving myself for a future husband or anything of that nature.

      I (used to) wear a belt when my man works away. And lately I've been keeping him under lock and key when he's home... Because I'm a lil bit dominant, and I like it and I deserve it. So he's stuck with it! 😁

      It's easy to overthink these things but that's basically how it works for us.

          Sin omg I just read the WA hermit kingdom article and was wondering how you were.

          Sin And lately I've been keeping him under lock and key

          🤣🤣 lol - guy locked up by a pregnant woman hah he better look out.

          Sin I like it and I deserve it. So he's stuck with it! 😁

          Yeah!

                  Jen lol - guy locked up by a pregnant woman hah he better look out.

                  He has commitments now whether he likes it or not! 😁

                  I'm so happy they kept the borders closed after what happened over east. It's been so good! I keep reading articles from nutcase Americans saying how we're living under occupation in a gulag, and all we've been doing is lazing about on the beach sipping cococut water. Best summer ever! 😁

                  Things are just starting to kick off though, we have to wear masks indoors now because omicron got in, so we're not far behind you. Stay safe! Good luck with your driving test.
                  :-)

                    Sin Admittedly I'm 30-something and pregnant

                    Are you still pregnant?

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                        Sin And is it still doing Yoga?

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                            Joh i think it's having a rave party.

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                                Sin Because I'm a lil bit dominant, and I like it and I deserve it. So he's stuck with it! 😁

                                Understandable, you also have to endure something with the pregnancy, and he should share that with you. 😝 😂

                                Jen guy locked up by a pregnant woman

                                sounds like a new topic in the forum 🤣

                                Sin yep 4 weeks to go... I look like I'm shoplifting a basketball at the moment!

                                I wish you much success for the birth 🙂

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                                        Sin
                                        It sounds like it will keep you on your toes after the birth.

                                        I wish you a smooth birth and much joy with the new earthling.

                                          Sin not exactly the target market for "unwed" + "chastity"... It's not like I'm saving myself for a future husband or anything of that nature.

                                          It is fine 😀 it means different things to different people !
                                          It sounds like you are happy...
                                          Yes from the united states it does look like parts of Australia are a gulag but that is true for every country even with no Covid

                                            Sin 4 weeks to go... I look like I'm shoplifting a basketball at the moment!

                                            Oh wow, well and you are keeping your husband close by...
                                            When you are pregnant it makes sense that both partners change their lifestyles and the man doesn't go off and wish you luck with his kids 😅

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                                                Sin yep 4 weeks to go... I look like I'm shoplifting a basketball at the moment!

                                                Awesome moment. I wish you the best.

                                                  Megan When you are pregnant it makes sense that both partners change their lifestyles and the man doesn't go off and wish you luck with his kids

                                                  He could try but he would need to use a bolt cutter on his private parts! I think it's safe to say he's stuck with us for now (and vice versa).

                                                  Thankyou everyone.

                                                      Sin He could try but he would need to use a bolt cutter on his private parts! I think it's safe to say he's stuck with us for now (and vice versa).

                                                      Thankyou everyone.

                                                      Oh boy I am certain you know what you are doing and he is safe but do you have a ring behind his balls?
                                                      I saw those in pictures and I just cant believe in doing that.
                                                      Is there a full belt for men?

                                                          Sin Thankyou everyone.

                                                          Wow this must be exciting!
                                                          So 4 weeks or so and you'll be a mom?

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                                                              Megan Terrifying, huh?!
                                                              Doc said to pack your bag, could be anytime from now really. :-0

                                                                  Megan do you have a ring behind his balls?
                                                                  I saw those in pictures and I just cant believe in doing that.
                                                                  Is there a full belt for men?

                                                                  Yeah he has a cage now. It's a relatively new thing for him so I'm not like a total nazi with it. I guess it's more symbolic.

                                                                  It's okay until he gets aroused, then he starts hopping and dancing a little bit! But it seems to stop growing when it identifies impending danger. He can't pull it off once it's done up, but there's lots of room behind the ring. It's not super tight or anything life threatening.

                                                                  I quite like it, it's sexy when he walks around the house naked with a mopey look on his face, and his shiny package jingling like a cow bell! You should try it, they become much more obedient! It's amazing how many massages I'm being offered. 😁