Angelina The members of the forum might not, but the outside world is much larger than this forum. And each side would consider their use the proper one. I am just saying that it might be hypocritical for you to proclaim their use improper while complaining about them proclaiming your use improper.
As far as I am concerned, both uses are equally valid and may have overlaps. Whether you consider a chastity belt a sex toy or a tool depends on how you use it, it is not intrinsic to the belt itself.