Angelina of course i agree, and i can make it even more complicated. i am 18 and you can write openly with me, but if my 16 year old girlfriend is reading along, should i ban her from the room? it's all a bit illogical (my opinion).

No, this is not reasonable. Maybe a solution would be glasses which detect not for her age appropriated sentences and turned black so she can't read it. 😮 🤣

Angelina I think it would be more important to approach the matter with more sensitivity and to try to put ourselves in the girls' shoes. I agree with you that clear rules are needed, but please ones that are also controllable.

Good point. We can control it only if an age verification would be installed. But it would not prevent minors from reading the posting as long as the forum is freely accessible.
I believe to have the guideline and be careful what we write is a good way to keep our forum on a good track.

        Ines It is quite different, everyone in private life can do freely, here, in the forum, no.

        I understood that, I formulated it deliberately provocatively

        Ines We can not allow that a user who is sayin is 13 years old starts to talk about anal sex, for example.

        what if it is based on a real experience. it is of course very unlikely, but not impossible or?

        Ines These are controllable, I think.

        ok, i will see

        Joh Maybe a solution would be glasses which detect not for her age appropriated sentences and turned black so she can't read it. 😮 🤣

        🤣

        Joh We can control it only if an age verification would be installed.

        the question would be how this works without having to enter personal data.

        • Ines replied to this.

                    Angelina what if it is based on a real experience. it is of course very unlikely, but not impossible or?

                    The she can go to another place, but such themes will be closed in this forum.

                    I know that maybe it is a bit hard, but we should the forum the less sexualizedsexualized as possible. I know I am asking an effort to the users, but it is for good reason.

                        Ines I know that maybe it is a bit hard, but we should the forum the less sexualizedsexualized as possible. I know I am asking an effort to the users, but it is for good reason.

                        I accept that and will try to follow your request, I just want to explain why I think some rules are correct in principle, but wrong in their implementation

                        • Ines replied to this.

                            Angelina
                            We do not have room for wrong implementation.
                            We are here to talk and discuss about chastity belts, but topics with excessive sexual load will be closed.
                            We have to maintain a happy environment, and if this keep await some perverts of opening accounts here, then, all is worth it.

                                Ines We are here to talk and discuss about chastity belts, but topics with excessive sexual load will be closed.
                                We have to maintain a happy environment, and if this keep await some perverts of opening accounts here,

                                i agree 100% with this part, i also think we should continue to keep the forum clean

                                Ines We do not have room for wrong implementation.

                                Ines then, all is worth it.

                                i don't agree with this part at the moment, but i will see how it will look in practice. i only ask for sensitivity when making decisions

                                • Ines replied to this.

                                        Angelina i only ask for sensitivity when making decisions

                                        I think that sensivity and manners are a constant in moderation action here.

                                            Ines I think that sensivity and manners are a constant in moderation action here.

                                            i have that feeling too, but it can just slip away pretty quickly and by that i mean both in one direction and in the other

                                              13 days later

                                              If someone has doubts.

                                              2 months later

                                              I have a question. Maybe @Megan or @Laura can help me. Would it be ok to write my email adress in my profile description?

                                                Kris Would it be ok to write my email adress in my profile description?

                                                It's fine. But be aware about spammers

                                                    Kris

                                                    don't you think that's a bit risky? when the forum was smaller, i.e. 2 years ago, i might have done that too, but now there are soo many users here who could see that and not everyone is friendly.

                                                        Angelina Don't worry, its a mail-adress, where nothing personal is stored 🙂

                                                            Kris Don't worry, its a mail-adress, where nothing personal is stored 🙂

                                                            that's not what i mean, there could also be users registered here who send you trojan mails or similar. not everyone is what he/she seems. there are many users i would give my mail to, but especially those who have been registered for months/years and have never written anything seem very suspicious to me.

                                                                8 months later

                                                                New forum rule, 11.
                                                                It's not possible for people to come in here to have a good time, and find the language of slum pimps.
                                                                We may not like the ideas, and they may be refuted, but it's enough to make the forum environment uncomfortable.
                                                                The moderation team has removed trolls, horror stories, and abuse tales, now the goal is for the community to be led by kindness.
                                                                I know that most users agree.

                                                                  Ines and find the language of slum pimps.

                                                                  i'm not sure what that is but it seems to refer to that we should use polite language, i agree with the new rule 🙂

                                                                      Angelina
                                                                      You got the meaning right.
                                                                      Slum pimp would literally translate into German as "Zuhälter aus den Slums".