Explaining rules

Angelina

Ines I know that maybe it is a bit hard, but we should the forum the less sexualizedsexualized as possible. I know I am asking an effort to the users, but it is for good reason.

I accept that and will try to follow your request, I just want to explain why I think some rules are correct in principle, but wrong in their implementation

Ines

Angelina
We do not have room for wrong implementation.
We are here to talk and discuss about chastity belts, but topics with excessive sexual load will be closed.
We have to maintain a happy environment, and if this keep await some perverts of opening accounts here, then, all is worth it.

Angelina

Ines We are here to talk and discuss about chastity belts, but topics with excessive sexual load will be closed.
We have to maintain a happy environment, and if this keep await some perverts of opening accounts here,

i agree 100% with this part, i also think we should continue to keep the forum clean

Ines We do not have room for wrong implementation.

Ines then, all is worth it.

i don't agree with this part at the moment, but i will see how it will look in practice. i only ask for sensitivity when making decisions

Ines

Angelina i only ask for sensitivity when making decisions

I think that sensivity and manners are a constant in moderation action here.

Angelina

Ines I think that sensivity and manners are a constant in moderation action here.

i have that feeling too, but it can just slip away pretty quickly and by that i mean both in one direction and in the other

Ines

If someone has doubts.

Kris

I have a question. Maybe @Megan or @Laura can help me. Would it be ok to write my email adress in my profile description?

Laura

Kris Would it be ok to write my email adress in my profile description?

It's fine. But be aware about spammers

Angelina

Kris

don't you think that's a bit risky? when the forum was smaller, i.e. 2 years ago, i might have done that too, but now there are soo many users here who could see that and not everyone is friendly.

Kris

Laura Thanks Laura 🙂

Kris

Angelina Don't worry, its a mail-adress, where nothing personal is stored 🙂

Angelina

Kris Don't worry, its a mail-adress, where nothing personal is stored 🙂

that's not what i mean, there could also be users registered here who send you trojan mails or similar. not everyone is what he/she seems. there are many users i would give my mail to, but especially those who have been registered for months/years and have never written anything seem very suspicious to me.

Kris

Angelina ok, I will think about this again 🤔

Angelina

Kris

Good 🙂

Ines

New forum rule, 11.
It's not possible for people to come in here to have a good time, and find the language of slum pimps.
We may not like the ideas, and they may be refuted, but it's enough to make the forum environment uncomfortable.
The moderation team has removed trolls, horror stories, and abuse tales, now the goal is for the community to be led by kindness.
I know that most users agree.

Angelina

Ines and find the language of slum pimps.

i'm not sure what that is but it seems to refer to that we should use polite language, i agree with the new rule 🙂

curious

Angelina
You got the meaning right.
Slum pimp would literally translate into German as "Zuhälter aus den Slums".

Angelina

curious

so it can be translated as "ghetto language" 😉 anyway, good that this rule exists, actually superfluous for a long time already

Cb85

Hostility is why I’ve been absent. The roe vs Wade thing kind of made me check out for a long time.
I’m quick to offer an honest opinion, but I like to try to avoid hostility.
I admit some of my opinions are way out of mainstream, but I spend my time on more of the less known social sites among those that feel they have been censored.
I refuse to be censored anymore so I tend to attract hostility.

hanna_anders

Cb85 nobody is censoring you, but if you repeat well known untruths you’ll get called out on it. Saying things are the “truth” then just outright talking nonsense isn’t going to get you a free pass, sorry.

Avery

Cb85 I admit some of my opinions are way out of mainstream

Not necessarily in my country. Much of what I see you have written seems reminiscent of Donald Trump and his supporters and he got elected President of the United States. So much for being "way out of mainstream".

Angelina

Cb85

nobody wants to censor you. i read an interesting sentence yesterday: we have no problem with freedom of expression, we have a problem with accepting other opinions, i think that sums it up well. we all (myself included) should work to make everyone feel comfortable 🙂

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