Explaining rules

Ines It is quite different, everyone in private life can do freely, here, in the forum, no.

I understood that, I formulated it deliberately provocatively

Ines We can not allow that a user who is sayin is 13 years old starts to talk about anal sex, for example.

what if it is based on a real experience. it is of course very unlikely, but not impossible or?

Ines These are controllable, I think.

ok, i will see

Joh Maybe a solution would be glasses which detect not for her age appropriated sentences and turned black so she can't read it.

Joh We can control it only if an age verification would be installed.

the question would be how this works without having to enter personal data.

Ines I know that maybe it is a bit hard, but we should the forum the less sexualizedsexualized as possible. I know I am asking an effort to the users, but it is for good reason.

I accept that and will try to follow your request, I just want to explain why I think some rules are correct in principle, but wrong in their implementation

Ines We are here to talk and discuss about chastity belts, but topics with excessive sexual load will be closed.
We have to maintain a happy environment, and if this keep await some perverts of opening accounts here,

i agree 100% with this part, i also think we should continue to keep the forum clean

Ines We do not have room for wrong implementation.

Ines then, all is worth it.

i don't agree with this part at the moment, but i will see how it will look in practice. i only ask for sensitivity when making decisions

Ines I think that sensivity and manners are a constant in moderation action here.

i have that feeling too, but it can just slip away pretty quickly and by that i mean both in one direction and in the other

Kris

don't you think that's a bit risky? when the forum was smaller, i.e. 2 years ago, i might have done that too, but now there are soo many users here who could see that and not everyone is friendly.

Kris Don't worry, its a mail-adress, where nothing personal is stored

that's not what i mean, there could also be users registered here who send you trojan mails or similar. not everyone is what he/she seems. there are many users i would give my mail to, but especially those who have been registered for months/years and have never written anything seem very suspicious to me.

Kris

Good

Ines and find the language of slum pimps.

i'm not sure what that is but it seems to refer to that we should use polite language, i agree with the new rule

curious

so it can be translated as "ghetto language" anyway, good that this rule exists, actually superfluous for a long time already