Abby82 Bryan got it right.

if it is not an attack but you can talk to the boy, then a clear no should be enough. of course he will be disappointed, but it is like with the belt, if he loves you he can also wait. sex is something nice (at least for my girlfriend, unfortunately i don't know it yet), but it is not the most important thing

    Bryan As @Megan suggests, self confidence and assertiveness as well as an ability to communicate boundaries well would probably be more valuable than self-defense classes in those situations (although perhaps self-defense classes could also boost ones self-confidence :-)

    Yes keep the subjects differently. Don't praise one girl for fighting man as like we should all go out and copy her. Instead it's like why did she HAVE to do all that.
    It's just not a good idea to fight or argue https://archive.attn.com/stories/2879/how-women-responded-catcalling-in-past

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      Laura Why are you asking?

      Boss! You have to be sweeter!

          Laura Same as when the thread started. Curious since we don't hear as much about what is going on in your life as some of the other folks here. No pressure/worries if you aren't comfortable sharing.

              Ines You have to be sweeter!

              For whom?

              Bryan Curious since we don't hear as much about what is going on in your life

              Not too much. Still have to wear a chastity belt

                    Laura For whom?

                    I was joking!
                    😂
                    Your first answer sounds very... Sharp?

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                      Laura I think Ines interpreted your response to me as being a bit harsh :-)

                      Do you date? Isn't that the only way you will eventually get out of your belt? Is that something you want?

                          Laura Still have to wear a chastity belt

                          Have to? Who makes you wear it and what are the conditions for you to get out?

                              Bryan Do you date?

                              No

                              Bryan Isn't that the only way you will eventually get out of your belt?

                              I don't think so, I just didn't insist

                              curious Who makes you wear it and what are the conditions for you to get out?

                              Parents and the conditions are still the same

                                      Laura the conditions are still the same

                                      Please forgive my ignorance, but I did not read through the entire forum to find the conditions under which you are wearing the belt. Maybe you could point me to the relevant post(s)?

                                      Is there a way you can quit wearing the belt if you really want to? Or what level of involuntary wearing are you in?

                                          curious Maybe you could point me to the relevant post(s)?

                                          My profile 😂

                                          curious Is there a way you can quit wearing the belt if you really want to?

                                          Of course

                                          curious Or what level of involuntary wearing are you in?

                                          You can assume that voluntarily

                                                Laura Bryan Do you date?

                                                No

                                                Earlier you spoke about your "attitude" towards dating. Are you comfortable sharing why you don't date? Social anxiety? Ace? Too busy with other things?

                                                If you don't date, what role does the belt play in helping "preserve virginity"?

                                                Laura Bryan Isn't that the only way you will eventually get out of your belt?

                                                I don't think so, I just didn't insist

                                                Is there a point when you think you might insist? If it isn't preventing anything with people you date, and it can come off if you insist, it is staying on because you enjoy wearing it?

                                                      Laura lol. Should I take your response as you don't want to talk about why you don't date?

                                                          Bryan why you don't date?

                                                          You didn't ask this question yet 😂

                                                              Laura

                                                              Bryan Earlier you spoke about your "attitude" towards dating. Are you comfortable sharing why you don't date? Social anxiety? Ace? Too busy with other things?

                                                              I may have edited before you saw this.