Can the cable on the neosteel be detached while wearing it?

BD1791 That's a great suggested. I've been emailing back and forth with neosteel. I'm going to wait and see what pictures are like when the store is back up but if I can't see well I'll make this request. Thank you for the suggestion!

maybe you can then generally conduct a real sales pitch online via zoom or something similar, then the retailer can show you the different models

BD1791 It gets confusing when people say the person wearing the belt can take off the bottom part and get access. I wanted to make sure, before I spend the money, that the kind of belt I'm planning to get is secure and that the wearer (or anyone else) can't gain access when it's locked on.

this only works if the wearer has the key, otherwise almost every branded belt is absolutely secure

BikelockFugitive There is even a CB I know about, but I won't mention it here, since there are too many people looking for ways to lock their children.

maybe interesting for children who want to lock up their parents

BD1791 We have very open communicate. We have talked in depth about time to get use to the belt and expectations for the belt. I don't think he'll get anything or implement any rules without talking to me unless I consent to that kind of thing which I haven't.

In my opinion, a very important point is to discuss all the rules beforehand so that nobody experiences a nasty surprise at the end. It's best to set the rules before you wear the belt and not while you're wearing the belt, because then you and he will be too emotionally tied

BD1791 That's a good suggestion. I haven't considered trying to take the belt off behind his back. Does everyone try that at she point?

As long as there are no daughters, it's simple because it's an agreement between two people, but nevertheless he has to tell you what awaits you.

My daughter and niece always say that it is much easier when we have been given clear rules, when I was in charge, my daughter says that I improvised and that it was even worse, even though in some things I was not as strict as my husband.

BD1791 What kind of consequences happen for that?

Consequences for certain behaviors, what is allowed and what is not, my husband accepts that we fight with the belt, but trying to reach us below the belt would already be considered bad behavior, and sliding elements under the shield would be cause for more serious punishment and many nights with the blocking piece, until trust was restore

BD1791 yes, security is very important to me

Have you ever considered a hips style belt? Or it's out of question for you due a security concern?

BD1791 They have a higher security lock you can upgrade to which I think I'm going to do...

Are you able to pick their standard lock?

BD1791 I'm not sure how similar they are.

A chastity belt lock can't be open with a staple or bobby pin. Also you have to do it with lock on you.

Renita you would be surprised how easy it is to pick the lock on a belt whilst it is locked on you.

Years ago I had a William Jones belt. I could pick that with using a uni-ball pen lid as torque wrench and a hair pin to scrub the pins. Took about 30 sec

BD1791 Did you go with something else?

With stock locks.

BD1791 I'm not sure what that is

Locks came with the belt.

BD1791 I purchased a belt today

What did you buy?