the lock!
Joh I do not think you really understand what I'm writing.???
Parents and daughter have an agreement - if this is broken, she will get rid of what has been agreed. Maybe tuition fee, student room, a car and more.
If she open her belt without permission, she gets rid of all benefits. This is what I pointed out in my first post and then you pull away with the fact that there are completely different, about not good job as a parent etc...
Tobbe I do not think you really understand what I'm writing.???
I did understand it but you don't understand my point.
Tobbe Parents and daughter have an agreement
For an agreement is it necessary that it work you have to trust each other. Otherwise it makes no sense. If both sides are trustworthy and will stick to the agreement why then a belt?
The belt is a contradiction in terms. If it is necessary, there is no trust. Then even a belt will not prevent the agreement from being broken. So it is better to work on the cause than on the effect.
HHelen I was not successive in it at all.
Than you have not to worry about a possibility which is unlikely.
Joh We talk around each other!
You are before the chastity belt has even been discussed. Can work and probably does for most families. But those who have already chosen chastity belt as a solution to the "problem", then it is too late to come up with all the points you list.
I mainly wanted to point out the consequence of being tempted to open the belt illegally.
Do not have a big discussion about alternatives to chastity belt, when it already exists and is used in the family.
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Tobbe
I agree with you if they cheat and it comes out it will have consequences. In any cases.
You can make it as safe as possible but there will always be a way around it. Sure the effort increases.
However, if there is mutual trust in the commitments, the security becomes obsolete. This is my point. Instead to spend a lot of effort to make the belt more save spend the effort in your relation.
Joh Instead to spend a lot of effort to make the belt more save spend the effort in your relation.
why don't you think both are possible? i think it can work to work on the parent-daughter relationship and use the belt as a complementary tool. of course i think it should be on a voluntary basis, but i don't want to rule out that it can work that way.
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Angelina why don't you think both are possible?
Oh, I think both is possible but it will only work fine if they have an agreement which fits both.
As an example, I can't remember her name, she has an agreement with her parents. She lives in another town and she wears the belt all time but has 1 hour time every evening to open it for cleaning and for fun. In exchange she got a car and the money for the school and living.
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Angelina Keeping passwords in your head works great... Until you get get older and start forgetting them... 
Sure!
HHelen Yes.
Already decided or still hesitating to do this?
HHelen I have the same impression, but, again, @BikelockFugitive thinks differently.
But he's very skilled in lockpicking.
HHelen Basically you want to unlock and lock it back secretly.
It would be useful for us!
Similar for many of us!
HHelen I was not successive in it at all.
Another reason to not think your daughter manage it easily.
Joh She lives in another town and she wears the belt all time but has 1 hour time every evening to open it for cleaning and for fun. In exchange she got a car and the money for the school and living.
I do not share it.
A girl should not have responsibility about her belt.
I am against the wearer can have any power about her belt.
Joh Oh, I think both is possible but it will only work fine if they have an agreement which fits both.
As an example, I can't remember her name, she has an agreement with her parents. She lives in another town and she wears the belt all time but has 1 hour time every evening to open it for cleaning and for fun. In exchange she got a car and the money for the school and living.
@Lana, yes this agreement was really very well structured
JonesMacGyver Keeping passwords in your head works great... Until you get get older and start forgetting them...
if I forget something it was not so important
HHelen He claims that every girl is able to do the same.
and it is precisely this point that I doubt, but it is certainly possible with a lot of training
Anyone with functioning fingers and decent dexterity can learn to pick a basic lock in a matter of hours. I once learned it myself because I was bored though I'm out of practice now, laughs. Learning it if you're being watched all the time, that's a different matter.
the question is not whether we can do it, but whether we can put the padlock back on without any problems.