Why do you think masturbation is wrong?

Andrew The average teenage girl of today, if her parents offered her to wear a chastity belt, would probably react something like this: "Are you completely fucked up!?".

Yeah but it's not like that - first there's the talking the shame and guilt the what you did was wrong - and then promises. But yeah actually when they finally had the belt it was easier to say no - it seemed insane. Like it's still insane but actually not impossible I know now. And this is another thing making me think Mum must have worn one before like how can you but think it's insane unless you've done it yourself.

Andrew Hey another thing I don't think it's weird to have tried it - like most of my friends if they had private access to a belt they'd try it for sure. But yeah I know letting parents control the keys is hella weird - I don't tell them that.

a_father And no teenager would ever tell parents, he / she wants to be locked in a chastity belt.

https://unwedchastity.org/d/25-asking-parents-to-be-belted

Andrew I once held your point of view and do have the sources that helped me to change my mind. But this conversation feels too adversarial for my taste. I don't need to climb up a mountain to convince you. I simply need to ensure that my own position is correct for me.

Jonas If the aim is prevent-masturbation then a google image search will put chastity belts into their mind right away.

But my parents aren't crazy - how could they go from that to thinking it's ok.

Avery I find this unfortunate. I get my ass patted by some of my classmates and teammates, not just strangers on the subway. I cannot imagine a society where women behaved as badly, or anywhere near it.

Completely agree, we girls who have been well educated constantly see how they try to diminish our principles and they want us to behave like scoundrels and shameless.

Andrew The average teenage girl of today, if her parents offered her to wear a chastity belt, would probably react something like this: "Are you completely fucked up!?".

It depends on what that girl has seen in her family. I asked for my seatbelt, although the regime is a little stricter than what I expected.

Jen Maybe their protect button got pressed? That's enough to turn most parents into unstoppable terminators!!

Joh Many are, for sure. But some - or even many aren't.

a_father But they were adults, right?

Yes, my that friend was an adult

a_father And I exclude @Renita . She has other reasons (or not?).

Why? The same, if we are talking about mastrubation

a_father I know, hard words

Then, do not use them. It is easy.
Your tone does not make favour to conversation climate.

Joh Under consideration you start to find out what sexuality is masturbation is the first step before you have a relation with someone else.

yes, that was the case with me too, but it's a bit difficult with the other one. I was 14 and then your example is correct, but many started much earlier than I did

Andrew

so just so i get it right: your thesis is that you think i accept the belt because i have sadomasochistic traits, wow !

a_father It becomes very bad, when you can read here, the current weares would suggest their future daughters to wear a chastity belt.

I would never suggest it to my daughter, but talking about it is not a crime, what my daughter does with the information would remain her own decision

a_father But she thinks about suggesting her (future) daughter wearing a belt...

no, I don't, sorry if that was expressed wrongly, I just want to show her what I wore, why and what advantages and disadvantages there are, after that she can decide what she wants, she can also ignore it completely. I'm only writing about hypothetical situations in which my daughter would want it and how I would react to it