curious I think that situations might occur where self control is not strong enough to actively make a decision pro chastity

I have been straightforward about having had some fails, (but none with boys).

curious For that reason I would indeed advocate for using the belt on a 24/7 basis

As I have said, and you have denied as recently as a day ago, you want everybody in belts. It's a difficult task. One dusts oneself off and keeps trying.

curious the belt will stop any such attempts

As I've said I keep the belt handy and use it fairly often at night in bed when the hands begin to wander.

        Avery No matter how you slice it, it is the girls who need protection

        maybe need is the wrong word, because everything you describe comes from social contexts or religious motivations, if you change the origin of these problems, these differences between girls and boys no longer exist

            Angelina maybe need is the wrong word, because everything you describe comes from social contexts or religious motivations, if you change the origin of these problems, these differences between girls and boys no longer exist

            But when I leave the gym today at 4:30PM and it's almost dark the word need is probably the best to keep in mind.

                @Avery
                You are mixing up two very different things.
                1) Belt as protection against sexual assault
                2) Belt to protect you from giving in to sexual urges that would cause you to violate your goal of chastity.

                Personally I don't consider number 1 a good use, because it is potentially getting the attacker more angry and violent. But if you are a victim, I can see how at least you would feel protected.

                For number 2 is is of course all about how acceptable fails are to you. If I was making the decision to actually go for a no orgasm lifestyle, I would not want any fails. Or in other words, fails would be worse than the disadvantages of being in the belt 24/7. In your case obviously you consider fails as no big deal, so your priorities are reversed. Your approach is 'belt as little as possible and just as much as needed', while based on the different priorities, my approach would be 'belt as much as possible with breaks as little as is necessary.
                Nothing from with either approach, I just think everyone needs to find the right approach for his/her goals.

                  curious Personally I don't consider number 1 a good use, because it is potentially getting the attacker more angry and violent. But if you are a victim, I can see how at least you would feel protected.

                  Usually your talking about things you know nothing about is amusing, but here it's potentially dangerous. The police advised me that the best defense is to make things difficult for the attacker. They want a quick hit with a victim who offers no resistance. So you yell, kick them, hit them, try to run, make noise, so they will leave. A b elt will put them off. They want to deal with cotton panties, not steel belts. We've talked about this before here. That's what they teach you in the many classes there are for women who live in urban areas.

                      curious my approach would be 'belt as much as possible with breaks as little as is necessary.

                      I'm not impressed by talk. I'm making an effort.

                        curious Personally I don't consider number 1 a good use, because it is potentially getting the attacker more angry and violent.

                        Best way to achieve he becomes sweeter is let him rape us.
                        I hate feminist stuff, but in this case you will not say this to a boy involved in a street fight.
                        Do not punch so hard to enemy, or he will become more angry.
                        He is a rapist, a guy that will take the most valuable of a women and later maybe he will kill us, mutilate us or whatever... so, of course, runaway if you can, but if not, of course I will try to do a lot of things that he will not like them.

                            Ines
                            I am not saying don't fight back. I am saying a belt is not the ultimate solution for that problem.

                                curious I am not saying don't fight back. I am saying a belt is not the ultimate solution for that problem.

                                That's #1, the assault problem, right? So tell us what the ultimate solution is.

                                    Avery They want a quick hit with a victim who offers no resistance. So you yell, kick them, hit them, try to run, make noise, so they will leave

                                    100% true for a typical sexual attack.

                                    curious I am saying a belt is not the ultimate solution for that problem.

                                    Of course it isn't, but it probably won't hurt either (unless it makes it harder to escape from rapist).

                                        Avery So tell us what the ultimate solution is.

                                        The best solution would be if a woman had the strength, skills and means to defend herself against assault. Of course, few women have them.

                                          Avery But when I leave the gym today at 4:30PM and it's almost dark the word need is probably the best to keep in mind.

                                          of course i know these problems, but don't forget that women's insecurity is the fault of men who simply can't handle themselves.

                                          curious I am not saying don't fight back. I am saying a belt is not the ultimate solution for that problem.

                                          of course the belt as such is not a real solution, but i think there is an advantage. no attacker expects a chastity belt, this 2 to 3 seconds of confusion can be enough to use further measures like running away, screaming or pepper spray.

                                                Angelina of course i know these problems, but don't forget that women's insecurity is the fault of men who simply can't handle themselves.

                                                Yes, and robberies in homes are fault of thieves, but at the end is the owner who uses lock, or alarm... However you are right, sadly only solution is our protection.

                                                    Ines However you are right, sadly only solution is our protection.

                                                    well i would say if the police were doing their job properly it wouldn't be necessary but i think that would be getting too offtopic

                                                        I dont know where you live, but here, in my country the "street rape" is not problem.

                                                        Really absolute majority of sexual crimes are between people who know each other (like partners) or on parties (drunk, ...) etc. And some less hard crimes (harassment) between friends, at work, ...

                                                        Really street is not riks at any hour.

                                                          Kaja Really street is not riks at any hour.

                                                          Here as well. You can get in a fight more likely then a rape happen.

                                                            Angelina if the police were doing their job properly

                                                            No, they can arrest the rapist.
                                                            But being a rapist, implies that he mad a aggression.

                                                                curious I mean, what´s the point of a chastity belt if you can take it off like normal underpants in 3 seconds?

                                                                I was asked about the current status. She will be locked soon.

                                                                Andrew Wouldn't it be better to leave her a key so she can open and close the chastity belt as needed?

                                                                It's called emergency key. Otherwise she is not supposed to take it off.

                                                                Renita Then you don't need to wait, put it on now.

                                                                I hope it wouldn't happen.

                                                                        Kaja Really street is not riks at any hour.

                                                                        I would put it a little bit differently: the probability of "street rape" is very low in most European countries (probably also in the USA), although such cases also occur, so it cannot be said that there is no risk at all.

                                                                          Kaja in my country

                                                                          Fortunately...
                                                                          Here we had very low figures, but are growing year by year.
                                                                          38% of arrested, foreigns.
                                                                          Most of them are men only with origin in countries where girls are no more than an animal.