Saintprudence Iām working a lot on that with a therapist. Because Iām torn between my dominant and submissive, religious and rebellious sides, heās suggested I give each one some time āin controlā and see what feels right. Putting on my dominant religious face recently is one thing that got me to post here again. I wanted to see how I felt actually expressing these ideas. Itās already serving a purpose. In a vacuum, I can say āobviously masturbation must be prevented,ā but in the face of those who must live with it, such as you and Jen, that attitude is not as strong.
i can understand that, but i hope it won't last forever. it's good that you are getting psychological help, i think you should work through your past and regain a healthy attitude. š
Saintprudence āyouāre well into your 20s and still live with your mother, clearly you need to be belted and kept in line until you get your life together.ā All these sides are in conflict.
i agree with this part, but i think it doesn't help anyone. anyone who lives in chastity against their will will never have the positive attitude towards chastity that you have. it would be right if it was on a voluntary basis. but i can understand that you have a lot of conflicts in your mind about the subject.
Sara2001 Me, too. Regarding what happens after her 18th birthday it's a constant up and down. Currently I think she will quit wearing the belt on her birthday and will think about her time at the university from her birthday on. I think she wants to know how it is not to wear a belt before she can decide if she is able to wear the belt for an appointment.
that doesn't sound so bad, so she can compare the different situations. i think the question will be whether she will be willing to return to the belt in exchange for your father's services, if your father then still wants it at all.
