Christine Ofc, her ideas become worse and worse, but they don't affect me yet.
just make sure it doesn't get any worse, i think your mum is doing more harm than good. 
Sara2001 If so, you could maybe argue with your mother that it has to be his wish, too
it has to be his wish anyway. i'm just thinking about how a situation would develop if my father demanded that camryn keep me in the belt after the wedding, sounds scary
Sara2001 But what if you find a perfect partner who is exactly how you ever dreamed, except that he wants you to stay belted? Would you do it out of love for him? Consensually, but once you have agreed to it, you wouldn't have access to the key except for emergencies.
I have wondered it just feels so sad that your sister seemed to have met the right person only to break up without any announcement. 
Well if that happened to me we would just make a joke of it by unlocking me every 5 minutes.
Angelina i'm just thinking about how a situation would develop if my father demanded that camryn keep me in the belt after the wedding, sounds scary
That would be a comedy skit 
I don't know what the punchline would be probably oops I accidentally unlocked my wife.
Megan I have wondered it just feels so sad that your sister seemed to have met the right person only to break up without any announcement.
Just give her a some more time. It wasn't her fault.
Megan Well if that happened to me we would just make a joke of it by unlocking me every 5 minutes.
Yes, most people are not that kind of person 
Megan That would be a comedy skit
Yes, this couldn't work. An unwilling keyholder who just do it because the wearer's parents want it sounds like fantasy for me.
Christine She wants me to keep wearing, even if I get married, my future husband should take care.
If you plan to live a virtuous life, why not stay belted as she asks until marriage, and then leave the decision to your husband?
(Yes, six months as a keyholder have changed me!)
Christine I doubt he could be perfect with such demands.
would you reject the man of your dreams for that reason?
Megan That would be a comedy skit
let's see if chuck lorre has time to produce it 
Sara2001 Yes, this couldn't work. An unwilling keyholder who just do it because the wearer's parents want it sounds like fantasy for me.
of course,let's say my father demanded it, how would he be able to enforce it? totally impossible
sorry off topic but nice to have you back, i was thinking of Goody and you a few days ago
Angelina sorry off topic but nice to have you back, i was thinking of Goody and you a few days ago
Thank you! I’ve been lurking all along but the influx of the weird and creepy fantasy people was really putting me off. But I guess I couldn’t stay quiet forever; I’ll just ignore the ones who are writing their own porn and try not to get freaked out. (Here’s a hint, newcomers: we actually do have a fantasy section for that!)
My whole concept of chastity is sort of fluid right now so I’m just rolling with it . There’s a part of me that’s more pro-belting than I used to be so I’m just letting it out a bit!
That sounds great, I'm glad you're doing well. I hope to update you soon on how your "role reversal" is working.
Saintprudence My whole concept of chastity is sort of fluid right now so I’m just rolling with it
Great you are back and please, let us know what is going on in your life.
Joh one reason I’m having a hard time describing it is that my opinions are in flux. I’ve really been examining my beliefs and who I think I am, but also trying to figure myself out.
For instance, keeping Goody belted has started to reinforce the idea in me that masturbation really is a sin and should be prohibited. There’s an authoritarian side of me that looks at people like Christine and actually approves of her staying belted until marriage. I can’t quite tell if that’s really coming from me or from my upbringing, but it feels more and more natural to encourage adults to stay belted. (I’m one million percent against use by or on anyone who’s not an adult, and the fantasies being spun on this forum by people who seem WAY too into the idea was really freaking me out, hence my long silence.)
Saintprudence one reason I’m having a hard time describing it is that my opinions are in flux. I’ve really been examining my beliefs and who I think I am, but also trying to figure myself out.
Yes, this a difficult task and needs time and patience.
How is Goody doing in her belt and has it change her view and behaviour?
Is she still happy with your progress?
Saintprudence I’m one million percent against use by or on anyone who’s not an adult, and the fantasies being spun on this forum by people who seem WAY too into the idea was really freaking me out
The same is true for me, and that is one of the reasons why I try to talk sense into people or they leave us.
Saintprudence There’s an authoritarian side of me that looks at people like Christine and actually approves of her staying belted until marriage.
And @Renita too.
Saintprudence but it feels more and more natural to encourage adults to stay belted.
That's the goal
Laura As I recall, you yourself remain comfortable with the idea of being locked up until marriage as well! Of which I highly approve.
Once one reaches the mental state of “that kind of touch is appropriate only for your married partner,” it’s pretty easy to justify the belt. After all, the only reason to object would be to do something forbidden!
Renita indeed, you seem to have a laudable acceptance of what it takes to live a thoroughly virtuous life.
Saintprudence why not stay belted as she asks until marriage, and then leave the decision to your husband?
Coz she can convince him.
Angelina would you reject the man of your dreams for that reason?
No, but it could be a nightmare.
Saintprudence looks at people like Christine and actually approves of her staying belted until marriage
It's nothing, but craziness. What lets you think so?
