Single again chastity

Angelina i figured she was looking for a way to make it less hard for her, you should write down clear rules for both of you to follow if she says yes to the belt.

I agree with Angelina. And as far as I understand the issue, it is about same rules applying to her that she had for you.
If I remember corretly that would mean 24/7 locked up without any chance for sexual relief for as long as she is not engaged or even married. At least that is what I understood were her rules you had to follow when living with her. Or am I mistaken?

Angelina yes and that's a good thing, when the mother is looking for excuses, a good father has to intervene and create the balance.

Although for work reasons I don't come here that often, I can tell you that my mistake was not having introduced the chastity belt much earlier.

Rafael I can tell you that my mistake was not having introduced the chastity belt much earlier.

Agree. However even your elder daughter does not wear it, your family had a good outcome.

Rafael I can tell you that my mistake was not having introduced the chastity belt much earlier.

well, through @Ines and her family you already knew about the belt, why did you wait so long?

Ines Or someone that watch for her. Parents, or maybe a brother.

Yes, there are relatives who would be interested in this, but they would expect the same for me. I doubt that they even know that I don't wear a belt anymore.

curious she will do that when she fi d's a lover or wants sex.

She only can cancel it for good.

Angelina i figured she was looking for a way to make it less hard for her

She was looking for a way not to wear it at all, coz she knows, that no sex is possible with belt on.
Now she swears she doesn't sex, but I have evidence.

curious If I remember corretly that would mean 24/7 locked up without any chance for sexual relief for as long as she is not engaged or even married. At least that is what I understood were her rules you had to follow when living with her.

Yes, but my rules would be different.

Christine Yes, there are relatives who would be interested in this, but they would expect the same for me. I doubt that they even know that I don't wear a belt anymore.

If they are pro-belt it is very logical they want both of you wearing it.

Christine Yes, but my rules would be different.

Which rules do you have in mind?

Christine She was looking for a way not to wear it at all, coz she knows, that no sex is possible with belt on.
Now she swears she doesn't sex, but I have evidence.

yes, i almost thought so, unfortunately there are some parents here who talk big about their daughters' chastity but don't have the courage to try it themselves. would you wear the belt again to get her into the belt?

Angelina yes, i almost thought so, unfortunately there are some parents here who talk big about their daughters' chastity but don't have the courage to try it themselves.

Agree, I think that every mother starting to wear it, is a success of the forum.

Ines Agree, I think that every mother starting to wear it, is a success of the forum.

if you would say the same thing about fathers, then i would agree with you

Ines

i can't quite agree, because a father can also be a role model for his daughter, especially since in many families it is the father who is the driving force behind women's chaste lifestyles

Angelina because a father can also be a role model for his daughter

Not in this. I have lots of influence of my father, but not in behave as a young woman.

Angelina especially since in many families it is the father who is the driving force behind women's chaste lifestyles

If he does not force anyone and applies same rules to all the girls in his home, he is in his right of it.

I have recently heard on a podcast that apparently a woman's sex drive increases with frequent orgasms, whereas a man's increases with waiting for an orgasm. I do not have the experience to see if the former is true, of course, but that would provide at least some justification for double standards on gender.

But I still think you should not expect others to endure what you are not willing to endure yourself regardless of gender, unless of course there is a good reason. Now obviously male orgasm denial is not exactly the same experience as female orgasm denial, but just handwaving it as "eh, it will be less unpleasant for them than it would be for me" seems like a huge cop-out, and that makes it hard to justify it as a good reason.

youdontknowme eh, it will be less unpleasant for them than it would be for me"

I think it is different, in a lot of families, mine for example, female masturbation is much more serious than male one. At the end it is something that they do not have to endure.

youdontknowme I do not have the experience to see if the former is true, of course, but that would provide at least some justification for double standards on gender.

It is a good reason more.

Barbara If they are pro-belt it is very logical they want both of you wearing it.

It would be the worst scenario.

Joh Which rules do you have in mind?

No sex with partners as long as she is single. Fair enough.

Angelina but don't have the courage to try it themselves

She believes she doesn't need one.

Angelina would you wear the belt again to get her into the belt?

No. Pointless.

Laura I think @Christine 's case would be different if only mother worn a belt

Coz I'm more chaste than she.

Ines If he does not force anyone and applies same rules to all the girls in his home, he is in his right of it.

that is true, but he should test (even if only for a short time) how the girls feel, so that he can understand the girls' feelings.

youdontknowme

so i think this report is very doubtful, at least i can say that my sex drive has not decreased significantly since i stopped having orgasms.

Christine No. Pointless.

you wore the belt for 2 1/2 years, right? actually, if we were being fair, your mother would have to make up for that time now.

Angelina but he should test (even if only for a short time) how the girls feel, so that he can understand the girls' feelings.

I think there are two aspects. Physical and emotional.
If I remember correctly, your father agreed to wearing a belt for 1 year to learn how it feels. But he only learns the physical aspect.
If the year comes to an end and you tell him: "Well, I have decided this is good for you, so I am not going to unlock your belt, you will stay like this."
Only then he understands the psychological side as well of not having the time under his control and really being stuck with no choice.
For that reason I don't thi K a short period is all that helpful,

curious

i would disagree, of course the period should not be too short, but i still think in general that men masturbate more often than women and not doing it for a year certainly has psychological effects, he even admits that himself. of course 2 weeks or something like that wouldn't do anything, but i think anything longer than 3 months is a good test