Angelina yes, so you can of course like to give your partner the part at the some point after you have met them.

When did I think of more special events! Maybe for an engagement or something.

    Dear Chastity Diary,

    Am back from business trip. I've never covered so much distance in my belt before. Never had to deal with metal detecting arches, searches and extremes of heat and fatigue etc. Thing is... I could have chosen not to wear the belt for this one, that offer was on the table but...

    My belt is part of me now. It's a part of my sexuality. It is me. Before leaving I was just filled with the idea that nothing, nothing, on that trip was important enough to compromise my expression of who I am.

    I'm not simply a horndog. I don't lack self-control. I'm not asexual. I'm not shy. I've no problem with anyone else's sexuality. I able and willing to give sexual pleasure and I desire it for myself, intensely, but I find it's not right for me to receive. It's not a good fit. I do far better when contained. I'm a man who's decided that personal chastity is right for me.

    The trip has made me seriously wonder if I will wear my belt for the rest of my life.

    Elsa When did I think of more special events! Maybe for an engagement or something.

    sorry, wrongly formulated. i mean all diary entries after the first date or similar. the idea at the engagement sounds romantic 🙂

    bdsamm WHOA! We are still working on basketball! Your Celtics need help!

    Now we can get on to football. At least in New England.

      Avery I’ve still got hockey down south, so no football just yet

        Avery I am pulling for the Nuggets so still not into the football.

        I trust you made it back home from your belt-free Florida trip. Looked like quite a Track and Field meet.

          Sasha I’ve still got hockey down south

          You're lucky. We thought we were going to have hockey for a while but didn't turn out.

          bdsamm I am pulling for the Nuggets so still not into the football.

          I trust you made it back home from your belt-free Florida trip. Looked like quite a Track and Field meet.

          Could be a good series. Jimmy Butler can make things tuff. Figure Denver will win tho.

          The meet was good. Not too hot. Looks like low 90s in Austin next week. Quite warm by New England standards.

            Avery Since the Finals Meet is being televised, would you mind telling which events you will be competing in? Not looking for. your identiy but since there are so many competing, should be safe. And watch out for those urine samples.

              MissBlossom You may be right and I would certainly understand. She appears to be a very smart young woman with lots of ambition. Her nning is amazing just from the little she has shared. Wish I could do that.

              Sam

                bdsamm You may be right and I would certainly understand. She appears to be a very smart young woman with lots of ambition. Her nning is amazing just from the little she has shared. Wish I could do that.

                Sam

                Sam, I think @MissBlossom is correct. I think this site is pretty safe, but other places I never would have talked this much. Don't know whether you've ever heard of Strava, but they have an app that allows people to record things like their running and cycling routes and people have been able to actually locate which roads and trails certain people use. Can't say anything bad has happened but it can be a little scary.

                  Avery You are right! Your safety should be number one. Anyway, I will just assume the runner coming in first is you and cheer her on. LOL!

                  Good luck in Austin.

                  4 days later

                  I now keept a schedule when to clean my two ladies' belts.

                    Today I woke alone in bed wearing only my metal underwear. The belt felt really tight for some reason. I'm not sure if this was physical due water-weight from higher salt diet yesterday, or psychological, the simple thought that I cannot remove my belt, that it's locked onto me.

                    We talk about the pressure the belt places on the waist but this morning I was so aware of the whole contraption: The bar between my butt cheeks and the front shield tube pressing into me. The latter was very uncomfortable to start with, but now it has carved its position into my pubis in such a way that I'm hardly bothered by it at all and security is unbelievably good.

                    But the whole chastity belt experience felt quite intense to me this morning. Like I'd been showing off and climbed into one of those safety swings at the park and got myself totally stuck! 😅 😅 😅

                    This said, I'm not humiliated by my belt, despite being a man and the expectations that come with this from others here. I increasingly think of chastity as playing the ultimate game of "hard to get". You can look, but you can't ever get in my pants. No easy seduction here, @MissBlossom!! 🤣 There is only one woman on the planet for me (and unfortunately, she knows that I do better in every aspect of my life without orgasm!).

                    So anyway, that's my random chastity diary entry for today. I woke up in metal pants that I can't take off and was straining against the idea that this is how things are going to be, always.

                    It's not boring being in a belt. I'll say that.

                    5 days later

                    KarimM

                    that's good, it's always good when things are decided together 🙂

                    14 days later

                    Another random chastity diary entry:

                    I've lost some weight recently so this week we've tightened my chastity belt at the waist. With some bending we were also able to tighten it between my legs. Overall the belt is much tighter now than I could ever have imagined putting up with when we first bought it (a good few years ago now). It's not simply figure-hugging, it presses in, the security is remarkable.

                    During hot weather I developed some sores under the waist belt which I thought were going to cause a temporary break in wearing but in the end some padding from plasters and zinc oxide cream sorted them out... despite the constant pressure. The belt is much more noticeable to me now it's tighter but overall it moves far less so I don't expect to have any more problems.

                    The worst time for me is always when I go to bed. I am clearly still very used to fantasizing and masturbating at this time. The very moment I lie down I am filled with a rush of sexual desire and immediate frustration. It can be really intense. My wife has to put up with me huffing and puffing trying to deal with it. I tell her just to ignore me.

                    With the belt tighter and the tube pressing into me there is very little room for expansion. My Neo very effectively prevents sex, masturbation ...and erection. The latter is a little more than I bargained for in terms of chastity. I wanted to block sex and masturbation but I'd nothing against feeling horny.

                    With everything so tightly locked up I find that I don't/can't fantasize like I used to. As there's no possibility of touching, there's no re-enforcement, nothing to keep the thought process going. It's strange to see how the physical device is having such an effect on my mind.

                    My other half loves the changes in me and I demand control of myself so it would appear that this is my life from now on. I'm a belted boy: 100% faithful, 100% engaged in life and 100% horny. It's difficult because I want to orgasm so much, but then, I do feel 30 years younger...

                    </diary ends>

                    7 days later

                    Am very distracted by my belt today. It's comfortable enough. The sores have all gone, and I'm totally used to wearing it all day. But its primary function is getting to me right now: Enforced chastity.

                    I know I'm supposed to be transforming the frustration into workouts, high function and productivity, but today that's JUST. NOT. HAPPENING. I am sat here stewing in my own juices. It's a kind of tense, desperate, eagerness to have sex... but ofc it would be, at this point, a really selfish experience, exactly what I am trying to avoid.

                    So I'm sat here my mind full of trash and feeling a little wretched... but the belt is locked on and my net is filtered and so ...the only way is UP. At some point I'll get bored or distracted or even inspired and empowered and I guess I'll start climbing back up out of this hole. By the time my wife gets back tonight I'll be the man I want to be once again. I cannot not be. My belt ensures it.