Elsa I can always change the decision whether to hand it over for myself when the time comes. Until then, it will take some time anyway.
yes, so you can of course like to give your partner the part at the some point after you have met them. when you are in a relationship the frustrationsj and feelings reach a much more intense level again and that can be interesting to read about. 
Dear Chastity Diary,
Am back from business trip. I've never covered so much distance in my belt before. Never had to deal with metal detecting arches, searches and extremes of heat and fatigue etc. Thing is... I could have chosen not to wear the belt for this one, that offer was on the table but...
My belt is part of me now. It's a part of my sexuality. It is me. Before leaving I was just filled with the idea that nothing, nothing, on that trip was important enough to compromise my expression of who I am.
I'm not simply a horndog. I don't lack self-control. I'm not asexual. I'm not shy. I've no problem with anyone else's sexuality. I able and willing to give sexual pleasure and I desire it for myself, intensely, but I find it's not right for me to receive. It's not a good fit. I do far better when contained. I'm a man who's decided that personal chastity is right for me.
The trip has made me seriously wonder if I will wear my belt for the rest of my life.
bdsamm I am pulling for the Nuggets so still not into the football.
I trust you made it back home from your belt-free Florida trip. Looked like quite a Track and Field meet.
Could be a good series. Jimmy Butler can make things tuff. Figure Denver will win tho.
The meet was good. Not too hot. Looks like low 90s in Austin next week. Quite warm by New England standards.
MissBlossom You may be right and I would certainly understand. She appears to be a very smart young woman with lots of ambition. Her nning is amazing just from the little she has shared. Wish I could do that.
Sam
bdsamm You may be right and I would certainly understand. She appears to be a very smart young woman with lots of ambition. Her nning is amazing just from the little she has shared. Wish I could do that.
Sam
Sam, I think @MissBlossom is correct. I think this site is pretty safe, but other places I never would have talked this much. Don't know whether you've ever heard of Strava, but they have an app that allows people to record things like their running and cycling routes and people have been able to actually locate which roads and trails certain people use. Can't say anything bad has happened but it can be a little scary.
I now keept a schedule when to clean my two ladies' belts.
Today I woke alone in bed wearing only my metal underwear. The belt felt really tight for some reason. I'm not sure if this was physical due water-weight from higher salt diet yesterday, or psychological, the simple thought that I cannot remove my belt, that it's locked onto me.
We talk about the pressure the belt places on the waist but this morning I was so aware of the whole contraption: The bar between my butt cheeks and the front shield tube pressing into me. The latter was very uncomfortable to start with, but now it has carved its position into my pubis in such a way that I'm hardly bothered by it at all and security is unbelievably good.
But the whole chastity belt experience felt quite intense to me this morning. Like I'd been showing off and climbed into one of those safety swings at the park and got myself totally stuck! 
This said, I'm not humiliated by my belt, despite being a man and the expectations that come with this from others here. I increasingly think of chastity as playing the ultimate game of "hard to get". You can look, but you can't ever get in my pants. No easy seduction here, @MissBlossom!! 
There is only one woman on the planet for me (and unfortunately, she knows that I do better in every aspect of my life without orgasm!).
So anyway, that's my random chastity diary entry for today. I woke up in metal pants that I can't take off and was straining against the idea that this is how things are going to be, always.
It's not boring being in a belt. I'll say that.
