I see, others probably had this idea too 🙂 And also those who want to start with it 🙂

Avery The big thing, I think, I've learned from it is I have to keep myself in a healthy mental and physical place.

If anything positive comes of it, it's even better 🙂

Angelina but it wouldn't be something i would hand over to my partner, it should be something for you,

I can always change the decision whether to hand it over for myself when the time comes. Until then, it will take some time anyway.

Angelina a place where you can let out all your frustrations

Yes, that would be great for that too. Letting that out quietly is also better than running around angrily.

Angelina and maybe also see your progress in accepting your chastity (and also all the failures and what you have learned from them). 🙂

I think I'm still at the very beginning with this.

            Elsa Running around angrily is important feedback for your keyholders, and personally (as a non relative) I think I would enjoy the view.

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                Damien Running around angrily is important feedback for your keyholders,

                I can't say too much about that now. My parents also get feedback from me like this.

                Especially my mum talks to me a lot about the belt and wearing it. She always asks how I'm getting on with everything. She takes very good care of me.

                  Avery Good for her. A somewhat unusuaal name but still one I have seen others with and no connection with the real chastity thing. In fact maybe just the oposite. Probably wishful thinking on the parents part.

                  And now, I am worried about you in dangerous Florida without your physical protection. You will be seeing some hot guys. Will your will power do the job.

                      bdsamm And now, I am worried about you in dangerous Florida without your physical protection. You will be seeing some hot guys. Will your willpower do the job?

                      There are a variety of issues around this. A few days ago I posted as to how I wore my belt to Albuquerque in March and then had to provide a urine sample. Embarrassing for me tho not, apparently, the sample collector. The schedule:

                      https://ncaaorg.s3.amazonaws.com/championships/sports/crosstrack/d1/outdoortf/2022-23D1XTO_EastFirstRoundSchedule.pdf

                      separates the sexes on alternate days, but we go to cheer the boys on so this separation is not a bar to sexual activity. There is always the widely held belief that ejaculation weakens a male competitor's legs, however there are ways around this, e.g. the scene in the film "Raging Bull" where DeNiro fools around with his wife just before a fight but pours a pitcher of ice water over his genitals at the critical moment. My hotel roommate sleeps in the nude, which is a temptation, but so far so good.

                        Elsa I can always change the decision whether to hand it over for myself when the time comes. Until then, it will take some time anyway.

                        yes, so you can of course like to give your partner the part at the some point after you have met them. when you are in a relationship the frustrationsj and feelings reach a much more intense level again and that can be interesting to read about. 🙂

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                            Avery WOW! Chastity Pickett is a famous athlete world wide.

                              Angelina yes, so you can of course like to give your partner the part at the some point after you have met them.

                              When did I think of more special events! Maybe for an engagement or something.

                                  Dear Chastity Diary,

                                  Am back from business trip. I've never covered so much distance in my belt before. Never had to deal with metal detecting arches, searches and extremes of heat and fatigue etc. Thing is... I could have chosen not to wear the belt for this one, that offer was on the table but...

                                  My belt is part of me now. It's a part of my sexuality. It is me. Before leaving I was just filled with the idea that nothing, nothing, on that trip was important enough to compromise my expression of who I am.

                                  I'm not simply a horndog. I don't lack self-control. I'm not asexual. I'm not shy. I've no problem with anyone else's sexuality. I able and willing to give sexual pleasure and I desire it for myself, intensely, but I find it's not right for me to receive. It's not a good fit. I do far better when contained. I'm a man who's decided that personal chastity is right for me.

                                  The trip has made me seriously wonder if I will wear my belt for the rest of my life.

                                  Elsa When did I think of more special events! Maybe for an engagement or something.

                                  sorry, wrongly formulated. i mean all diary entries after the first date or similar. the idea at the engagement sounds romantic 🙂

                                    bdsamm WHOA! We are still working on basketball! Your Celtics need help!

                                    Now we can get on to football. At least in New England.

                                        Avery I’ve still got hockey down south, so no football just yet

                                            Avery I am pulling for the Nuggets so still not into the football.

                                            I trust you made it back home from your belt-free Florida trip. Looked like quite a Track and Field meet.

                                                Sasha I’ve still got hockey down south

                                                You're lucky. We thought we were going to have hockey for a while but didn't turn out.

                                                  bdsamm I am pulling for the Nuggets so still not into the football.

                                                  I trust you made it back home from your belt-free Florida trip. Looked like quite a Track and Field meet.

                                                  Could be a good series. Jimmy Butler can make things tuff. Figure Denver will win tho.

                                                  The meet was good. Not too hot. Looks like low 90s in Austin next week. Quite warm by New England standards.

                                                      Avery Since the Finals Meet is being televised, would you mind telling which events you will be competing in? Not looking for. your identiy but since there are so many competing, should be safe. And watch out for those urine samples.

                                                          MissBlossom You may be right and I would certainly understand. She appears to be a very smart young woman with lots of ambition. Her nning is amazing just from the little she has shared. Wish I could do that.

                                                          Sam

                                                              bdsamm You may be right and I would certainly understand. She appears to be a very smart young woman with lots of ambition. Her nning is amazing just from the little she has shared. Wish I could do that.

                                                              Sam

                                                              Sam, I think @MissBlossom is correct. I think this site is pretty safe, but other places I never would have talked this much. Don't know whether you've ever heard of Strava, but they have an app that allows people to record things like their running and cycling routes and people have been able to actually locate which roads and trails certain people use. Can't say anything bad has happened but it can be a little scary.