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Well that went as well as i was expecting.
I confronted her this evening about our current regime and how un happy it was making me. I made her very aware about her trust issues. But i was honest and said this was making me miserable. I did suggest the compromises of putting the cage on when i leave the house on my own. But i want out when i get home no questions asked.
She was pretty unhappy with me wanting this and got a little defensive about her position. She said this is something that she needs in the relationship to give her piece of mind. She did suggest that she would be willing to compromise more in the evening and let me out when we are home. But i am no longer to wear the cage i have to wear the belt from now on. When i go to work or go out of the house the belt goes back on. Since she gets up before me to go to her work the belt goes on just before we go to bed. Also if she is doing a night shift the belt goes on before she leaves for work.
She also said that we are not going to be playing every night and if i start to masturbate in the evening when i am free the belt has to go back on.
I did say ultimately things would have to change otherwise i will need her to move out as i can keep doing what we have been doing.
I have a lot of mixed feelings right now. It is not exactly what i wanted. But there has been a little compromise of me getting out in the evenings when we are both home together and at the same time i am going to be in the belt that i really hate. She said she feels the belt is way more secure than the cage and that is something she would need. So i am feeling she is prepared to compromise a little but i have to compromise to wearing the belt again.
I know i was really hoping that i would get unlocked this evening but she said that there is too many emotions going on for me to get out and thought it would be unwise.
I am still a little unsure how i feel right now so i guess i will have to see how the next few days play out.