Carlos Well that went as well as i was expecting.
Aw, sorry to read this. Was hoping for a speedy end to the madness on this one!!
She did suggest that she would be willing to compromise more in the evening and let me
out when we are home. But i am no longer to wear the cage i have to wear the belt from
When i go to work or go out of the house the belt goes back on.
Since she gets up before me to go to her work the belt goes on just before we go to bed.
Also if she is doing a night shift the belt goes on before she leaves for work.
She also said that we are not going to be playing every night and if i start to
masturbate in the evening when i am free the belt has to go back on.
I know i was really hoping that i would get unlocked this evening but she said that
there is too many emotions going on for me to get out and thought it would be unwise.
She said she feels the belt is way more secure than the cage and that is something she would need.
You try to stand up for yourself, but end up in a higher security full on chastity belt!!
I would say you were now in a worse situation than you were previously.
Carlos, listen, I personally need a chastity belt because without it I'm a flaky chronic masturbator with low self-esteem. I need a secure chastity belt because, locked inside it, I am loving, happy, productive, tough, and filled with energy, drive and passion for life. I need a chastity belt. I don't think you need one. You sound like you need a new gf.
So i am feeling she is prepared to compromise a little but i have to compromise to wearing the belt again.
Is she compromising ....or are you just locked up tighter? 😉 Seriously; compromise is about maintaining equality and a level playing field between people. This is not the situation here. You're trying to rebalance scales that have been tipped well out of your favour!! You do not add weights to both sides to achieve this!!!
I did say ultimately things would have to change otherwise i will need her to move out as i can keep doing what we have been doing.
Needing to be happy is a small ask. Wanting to maintain a level of distrust in someone to the extent that they have to wear a chastity belt for you, is a big ask. This is, I am sorry to say, a relationship-level event and will heavily impact on your life either way.
I am still a little unsure how i feel right now so i guess i will have to see how the next few days play out.
I love chastity, but in your situation I would remove the device, stamp on it, and refuse to discuss chastity again. If distrust really is her issue (as opposed to control, which is more likely) I would lovingly direct her to therapy.
But it's your life mate.