Getting a job, so you can be free from chastity
Trismegistus Also I was caught only two times, so I don't know what frequency of getting caught you are talking about.
I find it hard to believe that anyone would let themselves be caught masturbating a second time when the first situation led to such drastic consequences. Sorry, but your story sounds like gay porn to me.
Laura And if they are mature enough
He has a job, he will be living in an apartment controlled by his girlfriend's parents so there is family supervision, he mentioned school. there is some promise there. In any case, clapping unwilling people (he has said he is unwilling) is not the policy of the group.
Avery I mean, reluctant gay (where a male who is otherwise straight gets involved with another male as the bottom) is pretty much its own porn genre. But I feel like a porn plot would avoid more anal sex than that. Either in an incestuous manner with extremely dubious consent, or simply to find other forms of relief. Since the story involves neither, I would not be so quick to dub it a porn plot.
Andrew Lol. I didn't „let” my father to catch me, he usually storms in my room without knocking.
And the second time I didn't ever hear him when he got home. I tried to fight, but I was too afraid of the consequences to resist against his rules.
After those incidents I started reading psychology and found out that his behaviour is toxic. I am still his son, but we have different worldviews.
He believes it's his right of power to impose rules for my sexual behaviour. I believe everyone should be free to decide what to do with their body.
My girlfriend is by my side and has really helped me to realise I can be the architect of my own life. And nobody can stop me expressing my freedom.
Avery Thank you, Avery! You understand my situation. It's awful that my gf and I are attracted to each other, but we can't enjoy the physical side of our love. I am more frustrated that she is, because her parents don't think masturbation and sex are unhealthy or sinful.
Laura In my country age of consent is 14, so we both are old enough to decide if we want to make love. But no, my father decides on my behalf. 
I understand some people have fetishes, but being forced or manipulated to wear a chastity cage/belt is abuse.
I'm not afraid to work hard, I only want my freedom back and I'm willing to pay the price.
Trismegistus I didn't „let” my father to catch me, he usually storms in my room without knocking.
And being fully aware of the situation in your home and your father's behavior, you jerked off so carelessly that you got caught a second time???
BTW, I come from a country where almost no one knocks when entering their child's room and I don't know of a situation where anyone has been caught masturbating even once...
Andrew I wrote about this. The second time he caught me with the cage, so he replaced it with a belt... And usually people don't confess they got caught masturbating in conversations. I didn't tell my friends about my situation, because I feel ashamed. Only my gf knows.
Andrew Also your logic here is crooked. If you haven't experienced something, that doesn't mean it never happens.
Andrew I mean, it takes a lot longer to get off with a cage on, and probably makes more noise as well. A sexually desperate mind is also frequently not the most careful state a person can be in. All that makes every act of masturbation risky, especially if the bathroom door policy is unlocked so you could not innocuously hide in there either.
youdontknowme You're right. I was only thinking how to cum. When I get home from school, I usually have 2 to 3 hours alone time. That day my father got home earlier than usual. 
The door of our bathroom doesn't have a lock, so it's useless to hide there. The walls to the bathroom are thin, and my father can hear everything if he's home.
ok, i'll focus on the original post
so i'm also involuntarily in the chastity belt, the reason is simply that i'm dependent on my father in certain ways. That's exactly the point, I don't see that, you don't seem to be dependent (anymore). So just get out of the belt and if your dad won't give you the keys voluntarily, look out about lockpicking.
Why are you still in the belt despite your independence? Why?
Angelina I still live in his house. Right now I'm saving money to be truly independent. When I get to live with my gf, I'll give him choice to either unlock me or I'll pick/break the lock. I want to avoid fighting with him, but I'm not sure it's possible.
ah ok, sorry i thought you were going to keep wearing the belt after you moved out
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youdontknowme I mean, it takes a lot longer to get off with a cage on, and probably makes more noise as well.
I know what cage masturbation is because I've done it in every cage I've had, and there have been quite a few (about 15). In each of them it was possible to ejaculate discreetly.
Trismegistus If you haven't experienced something, that doesn't mean it never happens.
I am fully aware that someone may have a different experience than me, but the assessment of the credibility of the statements is based, among others, on the assessment of the probability of an event taking into account the so-called life experience. Life experience suggests that when someone is repressed for specific actions, he tries to hide them from the persecutor, and does not expose himself to unreasonable harassment, unless he deliberately acts in a provocative way. Life experience also suggests that the topic of being caught masturbating is exploited with pleasure by people who try to increase its attractiveness by alleged truthfulness of the story.
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Trismegistus Because I want to have sex with my girlfriend.
And how about her? 
youdontknowme not getting rid of the belt to move in with his girlfriend.
His phrase means exactly this. And if it's not the case he can solve the problem with belt later.