Trismegistus I didn't „let” my father to catch me, he usually storms in my room without knocking.
And being fully aware of the situation in your home and your father's behavior, you jerked off so carelessly that you got caught a second time???
BTW, I come from a country where almost no one knocks when entering their child's room and I don't know of a situation where anyone has been caught masturbating even once...
Andrew I wrote about this. The second time he caught me with the cage, so he replaced it with a belt... And usually people don't confess they got caught masturbating in conversations. I didn't tell my friends about my situation, because I feel ashamed. Only my gf knows.
Andrew Also your logic here is crooked. If you haven't experienced something, that doesn't mean it never happens.
Andrew I mean, it takes a lot longer to get off with a cage on, and probably makes more noise as well. A sexually desperate mind is also frequently not the most careful state a person can be in. All that makes every act of masturbation risky, especially if the bathroom door policy is unlocked so you could not innocuously hide in there either.
youdontknowme You're right. I was only thinking how to cum. When I get home from school, I usually have 2 to 3 hours alone time. That day my father got home earlier than usual. 
The door of our bathroom doesn't have a lock, so it's useless to hide there. The walls to the bathroom are thin, and my father can hear everything if he's home.
ok, i'll focus on the original post
so i'm also involuntarily in the chastity belt, the reason is simply that i'm dependent on my father in certain ways. That's exactly the point, I don't see that, you don't seem to be dependent (anymore). So just get out of the belt and if your dad won't give you the keys voluntarily, look out about lockpicking.
Why are you still in the belt despite your independence? Why?
Angelina I still live in his house. Right now I'm saving money to be truly independent. When I get to live with my gf, I'll give him choice to either unlock me or I'll pick/break the lock. I want to avoid fighting with him, but I'm not sure it's possible.
ah ok, sorry i thought you were going to keep wearing the belt after you moved out
youdontknowme I mean, it takes a lot longer to get off with a cage on, and probably makes more noise as well.
I know what cage masturbation is because I've done it in every cage I've had, and there have been quite a few (about 15). In each of them it was possible to ejaculate discreetly.
Trismegistus If you haven't experienced something, that doesn't mean it never happens.
I am fully aware that someone may have a different experience than me, but the assessment of the credibility of the statements is based, among others, on the assessment of the probability of an event taking into account the so-called life experience. Life experience suggests that when someone is repressed for specific actions, he tries to hide them from the persecutor, and does not expose himself to unreasonable harassment, unless he deliberately acts in a provocative way. Life experience also suggests that the topic of being caught masturbating is exploited with pleasure by people who try to increase its attractiveness by alleged truthfulness of the story.
Trismegistus Because I want to have sex with my girlfriend.
And how about her? 
youdontknowme not getting rid of the belt to move in with his girlfriend.
His phrase means exactly this. And if it's not the case he can solve the problem with belt later.
Laura And it seems that's all he wants
B.S. You should be ashamed of yourself.
The guy has a job. He is close enough to the girl's family that they are willing to let them use a flat they own. He is in contact with his father, though things are tense right now. He has mentioned going to school.
Laura s he paid enough to live on his own or still have to pull more money from his dad?
Read his initial post. Your replies will then be more cogent:
"In my country education isn't expensive, so if I work, I can manage to make enough money to be independent from him."
Laura Them or her?
Read his initial post. Your replies will then be more cogent. Oh, sorry, I already said that.
"My new girlfriend (18) and I plan living in her parents' flat and they agree"
They will be fine. If they need a little help from the family OK, many people do. That's partly why I advised him to try to keep a relationship with his father.
Andrew I know what cage masturbation is because I've done it in every cage I've had, and there have been quite a few (about 15). In each of them it was possible to ejaculate discreetly.
You say that as a middle-aged adult with a fulfilled sex life. Your mind is probably clearer when you tried this than that of a desperate horny teenager. Plus as many cages as you have tried, you have only tried one penis.
Laura Anyway, if he can move out, he could just cut the belt.
Yes, he could. But what does that do to his relationship with his father? He is 18 1/2, it would be much better if he can keep a good relationship with his dad and get him on board of things. We all need help from our families now and then at that age. If his father won't relent I agree though, the belt must go so he can have a normal life with his girl and her family.
In this forum is surprisingly usual, take care.
Renita I've already pleasured her, because she has high libido and I like to see her enjoy our time together. But we both think it should be mutual, and the belt prevents this to happen.
It's not only about getting laid. Sex is expression of love and emotional attachment. When two people in love have sex, their body produces oxytocin and they become more attached to each other.
Angelina I don't want to keep it. My philosophy is that growing up is becoming independent. My father thinks I'm just too rebellious, but my gf thinks I'm right to be unhappy about the belt.
We're dating almost one year, and I want her someday to be my wife.
