MissBlossom I'm still impressed at how maturely you handle the whole situation. I think many people in your shoes would be tempted by a desire to get some revenge, but you manage to keep making ethical and respectful decisions.

I agree. I too would expect an element revenge, but @Christine is consistently and firmly, fair. It's amazing.

MissBlossom Are you thinking of asking your mom to hold your keys again?

The million dollar question. Is it fair for them both to refrain from pre-marital sex, but for only one to wear a belt to enforce it?

      Very interesting accounts may pass this on to my girls so they could reveal to their friends,

      Christine I might have to, coz I have a boyfriend.

      congratulations 😃

      Christine Not changed, but it would be unfair if I enjoy sex with my boyfriend. Or I have to release mom from her belt, that I don't want to.

      that's right, may i ask if you have already had sex? would you (have to) wear a belt again yourself?

            Zoe I got more secure with wearing the belt outside

            A friend of mine who used to joke with women was charged with rape. A woman took offence at his joke.
            Somehow the belt is also an insurance against such suspiciousness.

              Renita Might? You should have it on already.

              Agreed. Christine accepts masturbation as morally okay, so i reluctantly accept she doesn’t need the belt, but if she is dating, she should be kept locked as long as she is spending unsupervised time with him.

                9 days later

                MissBlossom Are you thinking of asking your mom to hold your keys again?

                I have no choice, coz she has to keys to my belts.

                MissBlossom If so, do you plan to negotiate for breaks this time?

                I'm not going to wear 24/7. Only occasionally.

                Angelina may i ask if you have already had sex?

                Not yet.

                Renita You should have it on already

                Let me decide.

                          A few people know but I'm making is seem a toy nothing serious - so not wearing it out so much - don't wanna become the chastity belt girl

                          Angelina She's not, but since her mother possesses the only keys to the belt, she can't go back into it without her mother's involvement. It's not possible to just put it on and give someone else the keys unless mom agrees to it.

                              Angelina but you're not back in the belt yet right?

                              Not yet.

                              Saintprudence but since her mother possesses the only keys to the belt

                              And also the belts. I can only have one if locked on me.

                              Saintprudence It's not possible to just put it on and give someone else the keys unless mom agrees to it.

                              What she will never agree to.

                              Angelina Well, Christine's mother found a good way to be prepared for such cases as now

                              Yes, she knows, that I will come back for the belt.

                                        15 days later

                                        Christine Yes, she knows, that I will come back for the belt.

                                        any news with you since i was offline?

                                            2 months later

                                            Christine No, since I was offline too.

                                            nice that you are back with us, i hope you are well and the break was voluntary 🙂

                                                Angelina i hope you are well and the break was voluntary

                                                Thank you. I just didn't have much to say.