Markus You avoid family meetings, because some can notice your belt?
Nope. I got more secure with wearing the belt outside and learned how to dress to avoid flashing it. Just when i did something stupid and have to wear the thighbands as well, I am still not comfortable going out.
In Christines case everyone was told and shown that she is wearing a cb. Friends you can avoid. Family not so much.
Imagine sitting at your grandpas birthday party and your aunty casualy asking if you are still wearing it. Or everyone staring at your crotch trying to figure it out without asking.
While one of best friends probably would just ask, if they want to touch it, i would just try to get out of there as fast as i can π