"Coming Out"

Zoe Just glad you were fine with it and don't have to avoid family members for the next decades

You avoid family meetings, because some can notice your belt?

Markus You avoid family meetings, because some can notice your belt?

Nope. I got more secure with wearing the belt outside and learned how to dress to avoid flashing it. Just when i did something stupid and have to wear the thighbands as well, I am still not comfortable going out.

In Christines case everyone was told and shown that she is wearing a cb. Friends you can avoid. Family not so much.

Imagine sitting at your grandpas birthday party and your aunty casualy asking if you are still wearing it. Or everyone staring at your crotch trying to figure it out without asking.

While one of best friends probably would just ask, if they want to touch it, i would just try to get out of there as fast as i can

Zoe Did you tell them, they can borrow it now?

No, these belts are mine. They should order their own for their women.

Jonas Even if she refuses to show her waist band the fact that you asked will inform anyone present that she's wearing.

But I will ask her consent first, if she is OK how her brilliant idea works in her case or she likes to keep it in secret.

Jonas I wonder whether your experience with chastity has changed your views on sex before marriage in any way?

Not changed, but it would be unfair if I enjoy sex with my boyfriend. Or I have to release mom from her belt, that I don't want to.

Christine But I will ask her consent first, if she is OK how her brilliant idea works in her case or she likes to keep it in secret.

I'm still impressed at how maturely you handle the whole situation. I think many people in your shoes would be tempted by a desire to get some revenge, but you manage to keep making ethical and respectful decisions.

Christine Not changed, but it would be unfair if I enjoy sex with my boyfriend. Or I have to release mom from her belt, that I don't want to.

Are you thinking of asking your mom to hold your keys again? If so, do you plan to negotiate for breaks this time?

MissBlossom I'm still impressed at how maturely you handle the whole situation. I think many people in your shoes would be tempted by a desire to get some revenge, but you manage to keep making ethical and respectful decisions.

I agree. I too would expect an element revenge, but @Christine is consistently and firmly, fair. It's amazing.

MissBlossom Are you thinking of asking your mom to hold your keys again?

The million dollar question. Is it fair for them both to refrain from pre-marital sex, but for only one to wear a belt to enforce it?

Very interesting accounts may pass this on to my girls so they could reveal to their friends,

Christine I might have to, coz I have a boyfriend.

congratulations

Christine Not changed, but it would be unfair if I enjoy sex with my boyfriend. Or I have to release mom from her belt, that I don't want to.

that's right, may i ask if you have already had sex? would you (have to) wear a belt again yourself?

Zoe I got more secure with wearing the belt outside

A friend of mine who used to joke with women was charged with rape. A woman took offence at his joke.
Somehow the belt is also an insurance against such suspiciousness.

Christine I might have to, coz I have a boyfriend.

Might? You should have it on already.

MissBlossom Are you thinking of asking your mom to hold your keys again?

I have no choice, coz she has to keys to my belts.

MissBlossom If so, do you plan to negotiate for breaks this time?

I'm not going to wear 24/7. Only occasionally.

Angelina may i ask if you have already had sex?

Not yet.

Renita You should have it on already

Let me decide.

A few people know but I'm making is seem a toy nothing serious - so not wearing it out so much - don't wanna become the chastity belt girl

Christine I have no choice, coz she has to keys to my belts.

but you're not back in the belt yet right?

Angelina She's not, but since her mother possesses the only keys to the belt, she can't go back into it without her mother's involvement. It's not possible to just put it on and give someone else the keys unless mom agrees to it.

Saintprudence

Well, Christine's mother found a good way to be prepared for such cases as now

Saintprudence Couldn't she just replace the lock?

Angelina but you're not back in the belt yet right?

Not yet.

Saintprudence but since her mother possesses the only keys to the belt

And also the belts. I can only have one if locked on me.

Saintprudence It's not possible to just put it on and give someone else the keys unless mom agrees to it.

What she will never agree to.

Angelina Well, Christine's mother found a good way to be prepared for such cases as now

Yes, she knows, that I will come back for the belt.

Christine Yes, she knows, that I will come back for the belt.

any news with you since i was offline?

Angelina any news with you since i was offline?

No, since I was offline too.