just for fun and interest, should i wear a belt after after the wedding?

Spork What happens if you get bratty half way through and change the lines you're writing to something unauthorised?

then i'll be sitting at the desk with the bands for much longer

youdontknowme I would think the bands only come off if 100 proper lines are submitted for every rebellious outburst that came before

That's exactly how it is

youdontknowme Finding things to do with the belt now that the original purpose, maintaining virginity until marriage, has been fulfilled?

you also hit the nail on the head here and don't take the whole thing too seriously, i just want to try out a few unusual things and see how it affects me, my wife and our marriage. that's why it's only for october, it's supposed to be a temporary experiment

Padre Everything is included, belt, bra, and even the bands. It makes you a better person

am i not a good person? (irony) and the bands are not used yet, i can keep quiet if i have to

Sasha but shorter times between releases seems like something you both might be into. Seems that way at least

nothing is currently planned after october as far as the belt is concerned, never say never but i think i need a normal sex life again for now

Sasha Not pushing, just an thought that came to mind

no problem, i will ‘analyse’ everything in detail after october

Conrad If it was me I would probably have some hard feelings associated with that experience and want to spend a long time out of the belt to let it all go.

well, i got married and didn't wear the belt for a year and led a normal sex life. now i want to give the whole issue a different angle and try to find a different (more positive) connotation to the belt

Padre Maybe create a new poll for it so we all can help you decide

i'd better leave it (i'm afraid of the result )

Joh As a punishment you could also get corner time during which you have to think about a given topic. If the result is not sufficient you repeat the time.

is certainly an idea

Update:
I'm halfway there, I admit it's not easy, especially because my wife gets a kick out of teasing me when we lie in bed together and I give her orgasms, but she should have her fun too. tonight it's that time again and I've prepared the gel packs, I'm curious to see if that works to ease my arousal a bit

Padre You are just getting used to the gear so it would be sad to quit. You both are having so much fun

well, i have several years of experience, so it's not entirely new to me
only if i do a survey i will probably never get out of the belt again

Joh Let us know how did it work and was it in the end helpful.

first test and it failed, but that was probably due to my own naivety, i underestimated how cold the gel packs were, so i had to stop after about 5 minutes, my wife had to open the belt and the gel packs had to be removed before they could really work. I will try again with a lower temperature.

Short Update:
as you already know, i would be punished with writing lines and thighbands if i asked for a release. i have my mouth well under control and have been able to avoid this so far. in the last few days, however, i have tried to fight against the shield and the lock quite often. this is normal, of course, but it is of course not proper for "a good chaste girl".
so we decided that this will also be banned for the rest of the month. if i am caught fighting the belt or the lock, i will also have to write lines and wear thighbands.
this is much harder than just keeping quiet, I really have to be careful. Somehow I think I'll end up in the bands at least once this month