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Owl It was mostly just a joke about how the speculation seemed to be getting a bit out of hand. In retrospect, I guess it came off a bit more confrontational than I intended.
just for fun and interest, should i wear a belt after after the wedding?
Sounds like you’re both getting into it, and possibly establishing what could be a fun dynamic in the relationship.
Doubt you continue wearing it a month at a time, but shorter times between releases seems like something you both might be into. Seems that way at least
Padre Everything is included, belt, bra, and even the bands. It makes you a better person
am i not a good person? (irony) and the bands are not used yet, i can keep quiet if i have to 
Sasha but shorter times between releases seems like something you both might be into. Seems that way at least
nothing is currently planned after october as far as the belt is concerned, never say never but i think i need a normal sex life again for now
The reason I voted no is because I thought you were pressured into wearing a belt in the first place. If it was me I would probably have some hard feelings associated with that experience and want to spend a long time out of the belt to let it all go.
Sasha Not pushing, just an thought that came to mind
no problem, i will ‘analyse’ everything in detail after october 
Conrad If it was me I would probably have some hard feelings associated with that experience and want to spend a long time out of the belt to let it all go.
well, i got married and didn't wear the belt for a year and led a normal sex life. now i want to give the whole issue a different angle and try to find a different (more positive) connotation to the belt
Padre Maybe create a new poll for it so we all can help you decide
i'd better leave it (i'm afraid of the result 
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Joh As a punishment you could also get corner time during which you have to think about a given topic. If the result is not sufficient you repeat the time.
is certainly an idea
Update:
I'm halfway there, I admit it's not easy, especially because my wife gets a kick out of teasing me when we lie in bed together and I give her orgasms, but she should have her fun too. tonight it's that time again and I've prepared the gel packs, I'm curious to see if that works to ease my arousal a bit 
Padre After Loctober there is No Touch November
When does October end? When does November begin?
“When igzackly does the Old Year end?”
“Tonight”, said Mary Poppins shortly. “At the first stroke of twelve.”
“And when does it begin?” he went on.
“When does what begin?” she snapped.
“The New Year”, answered Michael patiently.
“On the last stroke of twelve”, she replied, giving a short sharp sniff.
“Oh? Then what happens in between?” he demanded.
Padre You are just getting used to the gear so it would be sad to quit. You both are having so much fun
well, i have several years of experience, so it's not entirely new to me
only if i do a survey i will probably never get out of the belt again
Joh Let us know how did it work and was it in the end helpful.
first test and it failed, but that was probably due to my own naivety, i underestimated how cold the gel packs were, so i had to stop after about 5 minutes, my wife had to open the belt and the gel packs had to be removed before they could really work. I will try again with a lower temperature.
Short Update:
as you already know, i would be punished with writing lines and thighbands if i asked for a release. i have my mouth well under control and have been able to avoid this so far. in the last few days, however, i have tried to fight against the shield and the lock quite often. this is normal, of course, but it is of course not proper for "a good chaste girl".
so we decided that this will also be banned for the rest of the month. if i am caught fighting the belt or the lock, i will also have to write lines and wear thighbands.
this is much harder than just keeping quiet, I really have to be careful. Somehow I think I'll end up in the bands at least once this month 
Angelina i underestimated how cold the gel packs were
In first aid we learned that if someone had an injury and it had to be cooled, you would take ice with a cloth around it. Ice directly on the skin is too cold and it may freeze. That is why you first have to put a cloth around it. Maybe that is the case with your cold pack. You can try it.
Angelina I will try again with a lower temperature.
Even more cold than before?
Just not dry ice.