just for fun and interest, should i wear a belt after after the wedding?

Greatcornbow

Angelina because the question was asked again and again whether i could imagine wearing my belt in any way after the wedding, i'm now doing a small poll just for fun. I would like to know which of you would think it would be good if I theoretically continued to wear the belt after the wedding and gave my wife the keys. This is just out of my interest and just for fun, I just want to know what the community thinks?

How anout if your partner were also belted and you each KHd mutually?

Angelina

youdontknowme And honestly, neither Merkel nor Scholz are people I want to imagine in any state of dress where the belt would be visible

OMG Yes 😂

Sasha Happy you now have control of your keys, or your wife does? Either way it’s wonderful

currently no one has control of the keys. she unlocked me on our wedding night and since then the belt is no longer on my body 😃

Saintprudence Yeah, just assume that half to two-thirds of users are going to say "stay belted no matter what" just on general principle 🙂.

and you would be in the front row 😂

Greatcornbow How anout if your partner were also belted and you each KHd mutually?

this would theoretically also be an option

Greatcornbow

Angelina this would theoretically also be an option

Have you discussed with your partner? Maybe matching belts with interchangeable locks.

MissBlossom

Greatcornbow Maybe matching belts with interchangeable locks.

To reduce confusion, they could be keyed alike! lol

Angelina

Greatcornbow Have you discussed with your partner? Maybe matching belts with interchangeable locks.

no, so as i mentioned above this survey is out of interest only 😃

Saintprudence Lots of things are up in the air, but I am reasonably certain Angelina will NEVER let anyone but Camryn KH for her, and even that's a long shot.

right, my wife would be the only one in my life i would give a key to again 🙂

PS: currently the tendency seems to be yes, but at the moment i still enjoy my freedoms. i am overwhelmed how many have already participated in the survey, even though it is only theory 🙂

Greatcornbow

MissBlossom To reduce confusion, they could be keyed alike! lol

Indeed - or not fepending what is qanted. If keyed alike, whoeber has the keys makes the decisions. Otherwise they can mutually KH each other.

Depends on their dynamic.

Or they can even have a 3rd person KH!

Saintprudence

Greatcornbow Or they can even have a 3rd person KH!

Lots of things are up in the air, but I am reasonably certain Angelina will NEVER let anyone but Camryn KH for her, and even that's a long shot.

Owl

Angelina
From a humanist perspective I'd say: Do whatever makes life worthwhile to you (as far as harm to self or others is reasonably limited.)
From a hedonist perspective I'd say: Have fun!
From a chastity romantic perspective I'd say: I want positive chastity careers. So if there is a chance - and since this is a dedicated chastity forum and you are battle-hardened veteran - a clear yes.

Actually, I'd be most happy, if these perspectives could be somehow integrated. I'll be hopeful that your spouse (finally) and you will work on your commitment. May you find real joy and do whatever is right to protect and cherish it.

Max9

Angelina As you don't like wearing it and seemingly don't have any benefit from it I think you shouldn't be belted.

verena

@Angelina
It's up to you and what view you have. In order to become aware of the whole thing, I also advise you to take a break, as already described here.

This should last longer than 6 weeks and then you should notice whether you are missing the belt and the wearing comfort. Otherwise, the matter will be forgotten and hopefully you will have a happy marriage. Your partner will certainly give you help in one direction or the other.

In any case, it should remain your free decision.

C-B

I think many girls/womans continue... me too

Joh

Angelina Think about it carefully If it the right thing to do. And If you came to the conclusion it feels right do it.
Otherwise keep yout belt out of sight. If and only If the right time comes you will remeember where it is.

Greatcornbow

Angelina no, so as i mentioned above this survey is out of interest only

I think there's no alsolute one sizw fits all answer, It depends in the individua;ls and the dynamics between them biut IMO it can surely be an option.

Angelina

Greatcornbow I think there's no alsolute one sizw fits all answer,

i know that, i created the survey because many users here asked if i could imagine to wear the belt again after the wedding or to wear it again someday 🙂

Greatcornbow

Angelina i know that, i created the survey because many users here asked if i could imagine to wear the belt again after the wedding or to wear it again someday 🙂

On reflection I think the answer depends on what will be the basis of your future sex life. If you want to agree that your partner is to be sole decision maker in this then it can be ideal. It's all a matter of control and would you want to cede this?

Angelina

Greatcornbow It's all a matter of control and would you want to cede this?

i would give up everything for my wife, even my sexual freedom, but that is only theory because we have chosen an equal rights marriage.

youdontknowme

Angelina i would give up everything for my wife, even my sexual freedom, but that is only theory because we have chosen an equal rights marriage.

So, does that mean that in the end, you will both give up your respective sexual freedom to each other? 😛

Angelina

youdontknowme So, does that mean that in the end, you will both give up your respective sexual freedom to each other? 😛

We would both do it, but we don't (at least it's not planned) 😉

Greatcornbow

Angelina We would both do it, but we don't (at least it's not planned) 😉

It's not unkown for a couple to be both belted, each KH of the other. Hal of Tollyboy told me he made some for this.

Angelina

Greatcornbow It's not unkown for a couple to be both belted, each KH of the other.

of course, any couple that enjoys it can do so, but we prefer to enjoy the new freedoms at the moment. 😃

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