• PollFemale
  • just for fun and interest, should i wear a belt after after the wedding?

youdontknowme And honestly, neither Merkel nor Scholz are people I want to imagine in any state of dress where the belt would be visible

OMG Yes πŸ˜‚

Sasha Happy you now have control of your keys, or your wife does? Either way it’s wonderful

currently no one has control of the keys. she unlocked me on our wedding night and since then the belt is no longer on my body πŸ˜ƒ

Saintprudence Yeah, just assume that half to two-thirds of users are going to say "stay belted no matter what" just on general principle πŸ™‚.

and you would be in the front row πŸ˜‚

Greatcornbow How anout if your partner were also belted and you each KHd mutually?

this would theoretically also be an option

    MissBlossom To reduce confusion, they could be keyed alike! lol

    Indeed - or not fepending what is qanted. If keyed alike, whoeber has the keys makes the decisions. Otherwise they can mutually KH each other.

    Depends on their dynamic.

    Or they can even have a 3rd person KH!

      Greatcornbow Or they can even have a 3rd person KH!

      Lots of things are up in the air, but I am reasonably certain Angelina will NEVER let anyone but Camryn KH for her, and even that's a long shot.

        Angelina
        From a humanist perspective I'd say: Do whatever makes life worthwhile to you (as far as harm to self or others is reasonably limited.)
        From a hedonist perspective I'd say: Have fun!
        From a chastity romantic perspective I'd say: I want positive chastity careers. So if there is a chance - and since this is a dedicated chastity forum and you are battle-hardened veteran - a clear yes.

        Actually, I'd be most happy, if these perspectives could be somehow integrated. I'll be hopeful that your spouse (finally) and you will work on your commitment. May you find real joy and do whatever is right to protect and cherish it.

        Angelina As you don't like wearing it and seemingly don't have any benefit from it I think you shouldn't be belted.

        I think many girls/womans continue... me too

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        Greatcornbow Have you discussed with your partner? Maybe matching belts with interchangeable locks.

        no, so as i mentioned above this survey is out of interest only πŸ˜ƒ

        Saintprudence Lots of things are up in the air, but I am reasonably certain Angelina will NEVER let anyone but Camryn KH for her, and even that's a long shot.

        right, my wife would be the only one in my life i would give a key to again πŸ™‚

        PS: currently the tendency seems to be yes, but at the moment i still enjoy my freedoms. i am overwhelmed how many have already participated in the survey, even though it is only theory πŸ™‚

          Angelina Think about it carefully If it the right thing to do. And If you came to the conclusion it feels right do it.
          Otherwise keep yout belt out of sight. If and only If the right time comes you will remeember where it is.

          Angelina no, so as i mentioned above this survey is out of interest only

          I think there's no alsolute one sizw fits all answer, It depends in the individua;ls and the dynamics between them biut IMO it can surely be an option.

            Greatcornbow I think there's no alsolute one sizw fits all answer,

            i know that, i created the survey because many users here asked if i could imagine to wear the belt again after the wedding or to wear it again someday πŸ™‚

              Angelina i know that, i created the survey because many users here asked if i could imagine to wear the belt again after the wedding or to wear it again someday πŸ™‚

              On reflection I think the answer depends on what will be the basis of your future sex life. If you want to agree that your partner is to be sole decision maker in this then it can be ideal. It's all a matter of control and would you want to cede this?

                Greatcornbow It's all a matter of control and would you want to cede this?

                i would give up everything for my wife, even my sexual freedom, but that is only theory because we have chosen an equal rights marriage.

                  Angelina i would give up everything for my wife, even my sexual freedom, but that is only theory because we have chosen an equal rights marriage.

                  So, does that mean that in the end, you will both give up your respective sexual freedom to each other? πŸ˜›

                    youdontknowme So, does that mean that in the end, you will both give up your respective sexual freedom to each other? πŸ˜›

                    We would both do it, but we don't (at least it's not planned) πŸ˜‰

                      Angelina We would both do it, but we don't (at least it's not planned) πŸ˜‰

                      It's not unkown for a couple to be both belted, each KH of the other. Hal of Tollyboy told me he made some for this.

                        Greatcornbow It's not unkown for a couple to be both belted, each KH of the other.

                        of course, any couple that enjoys it can do so, but we prefer to enjoy the new freedoms at the moment. πŸ˜ƒ

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                        Sasha Now that I'm in the full chastity gear set, almost wondering what people would say about me after marriage

                        That depends on how you've developed and whether you're sure you won't fall back into old habits. Then I would congratulate you on what you have achieved and that you are happy in your marriage. I assume that you have found the right man who gives you what you need to be happy.