no thread needed, it's just a thought
Dating a belted girl (or boy)
curious Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.
Right, my world is viewed through an old fashioned lens, so if I met a boy wearing a chastity device I would ask him to stop it immediately.
Renita my world is viewed through an old fashioned lens
I think I am old-fashioned, also. I am curious as to why you would ask him to stop wearing. Because boys should not be wearers, because boys should have more freedom, so you can give him physical pleasure that he cannot give you? If he asked you to stop wearing, would you?
curious And if in return he would ask you to continue wearing and wants to have complete control over your key?
He would have to ask my mom about this 
curious Would you accept?
If you meant in general, than yes.
Tjc Because boys should not be wearers, because boys should have more freedom,
Because men are different.
Tjc If he asked you to stop wearing, would you?
Depends on what for.
curious Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.
Maybe the old timers understand something about human nature that the whippersnappers haven't figured out yet.
Tjc chastity belt on a girl doesn’t impact feminity. Moreover it tells about a girl submitted and pure, both characteristics tied to a old fashioned way to see a wife. Some men can find this very appealing
A chastity cage heavy impact on masculinity
It actually speaks submissions and lack of willpower. Most women want a men that is strong and confident, master of his own life, “manly”. It’s difficult to transmit this idea if your manhood is caged. Cage is very emasculating
I’m not saying that it is right, I’m just
explain why, in my opinion @Renita and @MissBlossom find it so unappealing
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Renita If you meant in general, than yes.
Agree.
Renita Because men are different.
Agree.
Renita Roles.
And in nature. Gender deleting politics are absolutely nonsenses.
MissBlossom Maybe the old timers understand something about human nature that the whippersnappers haven't figured out yet.
Agree. It is as if you live in a 30 years old home, and, yes, of course, it needs some refits because, for example a pipe leaks water, and then, suddenly, a guessed architect comes and say that building has to be demolished.
Milord Cage is very emasculating
I’m not saying that it is right, I’m just
explain why, in my opinion @Renita and @MissBlossom find it so unappealing
Agree.
Milord Thank you for the opinion. I have not felt wearing a belt to be emasculating as that was not the intention. I suppose for some it is. I think I am strong and confident. People don't seem to be able to tell that I am a wearer unless they ask or I volunteer the information.
But your opinion helps me to understand @Renita and @MissBlossom