Dating a belted girl (or boy)

youdontknowme

Avery This endangers the girl's relationship with her guardian. The guardian who said in her second post she has considerable financial control over the girls.

Avery I'm certain Jenna would not cast her out if she went ahead with this. But some parents might.

It feelslike you are implyimg a certain degree of lip service there.

Avery

youdontknowme I don't like to ignore you but here I think it's best.

Kaja

Avery You are wrong at this toppic.

Avery

Kaja You are wrong at this toppic.

Not sure what you mean. If you think my views are wrong I have no comment. If you think we are off topic we are discussing the situation of a belted girl dating and what to do about sex. That's the topic.

youdontknowme

Avery I believe I understand.

Kaja

Avery Cast out? It will not be parents and familly but dangerous psychopats

Renita

Milord I would like to know the unbelted point of view, not about dating in general

Then you should be specific boy or girl.

Milord

Renita why? They are both welcome for me.

Renita

Milord why? They are both welcome for me

An unbelted girl dating a belted boy is not the same as an unbelted boy dating a belted girl.

Jenna

Avery I have moved our conversation over to "Belting for Nieces" so as not to incur anyone's wrath.

Angelina

Susan You are 100% right. She thinks it is best to wait...

For you and Jenna I'll explain my post again because otherwise I'm afraid it could be misunderstood. Your boyfriend accepts a long-distance relationship and the chastity belt, that's great, he really seems to love you and if he can continue to accept it well, the relationship will work well in the long term, because then you already know how to deal with difficult situations. @Jenna once wrote that a condition for removing the belt would be that you have a long-term relationship and I think the chances are really good if the relationship continues like this that he will do everything to make it "worth it" (and yes Anyone can criticize my choice of words) to have sex with you (from your aunt's perspective and not right now, but in the not too distant future).

I'm sorry if my post was unclear

Avery

Angelina in the not too distant future

Before Christmas?

youdontknowme

Avery Angelina spent four years dating the same person before they (after marrying) had the opportunity for a completely unbelted night in bed together. "Not too distant" could easily be over a year in that context.

Angelina

Avery Before Christmas?

@Jenna and @Susan will have to decide that, probably not. I think I've explained my points though

curious

Renita
In a modern world where gender based roles are becoming more and more obsolete, there is not much difference.
Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.

Tjc

Renita I think it may depend to some extent on the type and design of the belts but I think the cases are more alike than they are different. I think you have good ideas and good posts so I am interested to hear why you think they are not the same.

Renita

curious Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.

Right, my world is viewed through an old fashioned lens, so if I met a boy wearing a chastity device I would ask him to stop it immediately.

MissBlossom

curious Only if your world is viewed through an old fashioned lens of different rules for men vs women, the question who of the two is belted makes a difference.

Maybe the old timers understand something about human nature that the whippersnappers haven't figured out yet.

Milord

Tjc still I want to hear from everyone, and I don’t want to create several threads for all the scenarios. I think they all fit in the same thread. To answer to @Renita too

toad

i think in many ways our early sexual activity will help define our overall sexual life. If a woman is not submissive, how will pleasuring a man with no pleasure for herself, effect her later sex life? Will she become independent and control her sex life or will she always give into the demands of the man and in essence just become a life long play thing?

Milord

toad

I try to avoid the "what will happen" scenarios, very hard to know what will happens

toad

true enough, but expierience has worth good or bad

Milord

toad
But this is a completely new scenario for me. What I can say is that it in very repressed girls I have known (but never belted) two very different things happens:
Some of them get broken, and find a husband / boyfriend that governs them and keep them under their thumb
Some get rebellious, a lot of them cut ties with home families, and have an opposite life, either having a lot of sexual relationships or marrying and gives a lot of freedom to their sons and daughters.
What I know for sure is that they endure a lot of suffering, and relationships with original parents have been strained.
Don’t want to go off topic too much, maybe you should open a thread on the future

Max9

Milord This totally depends on the grade of voluntarity in the keyholding desicison.
Are you belted because you believe it's good for you or are you belted because you have to in order to avoid repressions.
The cases you mentioned only apply to the latter case.

Milord A chastity cage heavy impact on masculinity
It actually speaks submissions and lack of willpower.
So, for a woman it's a feature to have no willpower and to be submissive, whereas for a man its a bug.
How can a belt have an inpact on masculitiy?
A shield over a vagina also doesn't extinquish the private part.

In the 21st century there are also some women who don't just cook and clean, but also go to work, study a profession and succeed in the career.

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