Milord sometimes people think of the what and how, not why.

I fulfil their demand by being belted.

      Tasha yes but, knowing your situation, why on hearth you should add additional restrictions? It can have sense if being belted is your initiative, but since it isn't, you will never ask.

          Milord why she should?

          To ensure her virginity, for example 😃

          Tasha they aren't considering any of those

          But why are you concerned at all?

          Tasha But I'm not going to tell them it's an option

          Is it an option, really?

                  Milord exactly.

                  Renita ensure her virginit

                  Isn't the belt enough? If a 'attacker' were to have non-con sex with me, they will just cut it open if they really need it. Practically speaking, the belt just prevents me, and my dating partner to have sex.

                  Renita why are you concerned at all

                  Concerned about wearing thigh bands? I'm not a fan of arbitrarily restricting my movement.

                  Renita Is it an option, really?

                  I suppose if my parents wanted that as an option they would have put it on earlier. Either they don't know it's an option or they don't care might about that.

                            Tasha Practically speaking, the belt just prevents me, and my dating partner to have sex.

                            To prevent your hymen from damage.

                            Tasha Concerned about wearing thigh bands?

                            Concerned, that it's even possible.

                            Tasha I suppose if my parents wanted that as an option they would have put it on earlier.

                            They didn't want to scare you at the beginning, for example.

                            Tasha Either they don't know it's an option or they don't care might about that.

                            Do you have side D-rings on your waistband? @Laura always use it as an excuse, because she doesn't have them. Btw, I don't have them either.

                                      Renita To prevent your hymen from damage

                                      I'm sure the running sports I did during my time in school have altered it.

                                      Renita it's even possible

                                      I mean I know those exist and I've read experiences here in the fourm too

                                      Renita They didn't want to scare you at the beginning, for example.

                                      Maybe. Don't think so though

                                      Renita Do you have side D-rings

                                      Rings that allow things to be attached? No (yay!)

                                                Tasha I'm sure the running sports I did during my time in school have altered it.

                                                Good excuse...

                                                    Ines this is a low blow, and an underserved one in my opinion

                                                      Tasha what you mean excuse?

                                                      For your future husband 😂

                                                      Tasha I'm sure the running sports I did during my time in school have altered it.

                                                      Of course you didn't not

                                                      Tasha checking the hymen of girls to see if they are Virgin is (imo) really archaic

                                                      But when you go to a gyn, you are being asked, aren't you?

                                                              Laura Of course you didn't not

                                                              How can you be so sure? Granted I was just giving an example but still. I didn't play a lot of competitive sports but it might have had an effect.

                                                              Laura But when you go

                                                              Yes they will ask about it. My answer would yes, I'm a Virgin.

                                                              But again people have different definitions of virginity

                                                                  Laura For your future husband 😂

                                                                  But I am a Virgin. No sexual interaction with anyone. And I intend to be like that for my future partner.

                                                                  The way I read @Ines message, it seems as if I said something wrong and the reply comes off a bit disrespectful.

                                                                      Tasha But I am a Virgin. No sexual interaction with anyone. And I intend to be like that for my future partner.

                                                                      However being careful with your hymen wouldn't hurt

                                                                      Tasha The way I read @Ines message, it seems as if I said something wrong and the reply comes off a bit disrespectful.

                                                                      Other excuses are horse riding, bicycling, etc. 😂

                                                                            Laura I mean if the girl has had sex before, and claims these as the cause then yes it's an excuse. But I don't see where I made a excuse?

                                                                              Tasha The way I read @Ines message, it seems as if I said something wrong and the reply comes off a bit disrespectful.

                                                                              Not at all, @Tasha , but to say that running affects your hymen, it is.... well, you know.
                                                                              And I was semi pro player, and hymen does not suffer with it. With other practices, maybe, but running...

                                                                                  Ines , you know I love how consequently you adhere to your high moral standards! But the moment you call out other people for the state of their hymen, I have to ask if you have thought that through. Hymens come in different shapes and sizes naturally. A torn hymen does not prove you had penetrative sex, and an intact hymen does not prove virginity.

                                                                                  If Tasha feels she needs to give a reason for a torn hymen, it's probably because parts of her social circle convey this unfortunate set of expectations. I agree that running is probably not tearing anything, but that is beside the point.

                                                                                  One effect of this childish fixation on hymens - usually among less educated people - is the rising numbers of hymenoplasty surgery. https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/38470862/#:~:text=Results%3A%20In%20the%20examined%20cohort,procedure%20a%20week%20before%20marriage.