Laura Easier said than done

I can (and will) move out if needed. That should stop it 🛑

But before taking anything too big step, I'll want to be sure my sister won't end up in a even worse situation

      Tasha I can (and will) move out if needed. That should stop it

      Of course, but you have to make the decision and say no to the belt rather than agree to wear outside

        Laura

        See @Laura ? it can be done. You should go next. If a 19yo Indian girl can do, for sure you can do it too.

            Milord If a 19yo Indian girl can do, for sure you can do it too

            I know. I could do it all the time but didn't want to

                Laura so I have to find another candidate to bother encourage to get free. Guess who can be 🤔

                    Tasha I pretty much told them I will move out if I don't get what I need

                    Are you ready to do it if they say "go ahead"?

                    Tasha the look on thier faces when i said this, they were a bit scared

                    Was the belt on when you said this?

                    Tasha What I did could probably not be done by people who are locked by their parents (and aren't ok with it f
                    fully) because they are dependant on their parents

                    And did you get the belt off after this conversation?

                            Laura everyone there is out of the belt and/or out of the forum. Only you and @Renita are still in.

                            And I will not try to convince Renita anymore

                                Milord And I will not try to convince Renita anymore

                                To move in? 😂

                                    Renita Are you ready to do it if they say "go ahead"?

                                    Yup

                                    Renita Was the belt on when you said this?

                                    Yup

                                    Renita And did you get the belt off after this conversation?

                                    My mum unlocked and took it away. So yup

                                    Yippee yup yup 😆

                                            Laura to get out... @Renita need no help to be submitted to her mother. But fine for her, fine for me. I give up

                                                Laura you always take me off guard with your irony, I'm sorry 😐

                                                  Tasha Congratulations on fighting for what you wanted and getting it. Should feel pretty proud of yourself

                                                      Renita But not instead you 😃

                                                      Of course not, but I think a boss should always be a role model for his employees 🙂

                                                      Laura you do the job, it's employment even to yourself
                                                      someone else does the job for you, it's a business

                                                      and if both are true? if I do the job myself but hire someone to help me, which is it then?

                                                      icaasi

                                                      please introduce yourself in introduction 🙂

                                                      Laura Only me

                                                      Let's assume you had a sister, would she automatically have to wear a belt or is that always an individual decision?

                                                      Tasha Rings that allow things to be attached? No (yay!)

                                                      then you don't need to worry about thighbands 😃

                                                      Tasha

                                                      congratulations, you have achieved something great 😃 I think continuing to wear it outside the house is the absolute maximum, especially when you consider the context that your sister is currently not wearing a belt at home either.
                                                      If there are further discussions, you should make your position clear. But also accept your parents' opinion on the subject. I think mutual understanding is the best solution if you want to continue living with your parents.

                                                                    Angelina if I do the job myself but hire someone to help me, which is it then?

                                                                    Business, because you could always hand your work to your employees if needed

                                                                      Laura And didn't put back since then?

                                                                      We went out today with my parents and my sister for - mainly - shopping. My dad told me the belt wasn't needed as they would be close to me. They were, always either my mum or dad were along with me and my sister.

                                                                      Sasha Should feel pretty proud of yourself

                                                                      I do feel I achieved something I've wanted. Not everything I wanted but good progress

                                                                      Angelina But also accept your parents' opinion on the subject

                                                                      Thier opinion would be to he belted at home which is not what I'm looking to be in again.

                                                                      Just a day out the belt and I'm already happier. Would be hard to go back in.

                                                                      Angelina mutual understanding

                                                                      I guess yeah.

                                                                                Angelina But also accept your parents' opinion on the subject.

                                                                                Disagree of course

                                                                                Angelina think mutual understanding is the best solution if you want to continue living with your parents

                                                                                They will not send her away. It would be suicidal. Than for the rest you know my position, so useless to discuss it again

                                                                                      Tasha Concratulation to Stand Up for yourself.
                                                                                      Have you thought about setting yourself a schedule for your me-time?
                                                                                      It would help you not to fall back into old habits. For example, once a month or on every Sunday.