Laura so I have to find another candidate to bother encourage to get free. Guess who can be 🤔

      Tasha I pretty much told them I will move out if I don't get what I need

      Are you ready to do it if they say "go ahead"?

      Tasha the look on thier faces when i said this, they were a bit scared

      Was the belt on when you said this?

      Tasha What I did could probably not be done by people who are locked by their parents (and aren't ok with it f
      fully) because they are dependant on their parents

      And did you get the belt off after this conversation?

              Laura everyone there is out of the belt and/or out of the forum. Only you and @Renita are still in.

              And I will not try to convince Renita anymore

                  Milord And I will not try to convince Renita anymore

                  To move in? 😂

                      Renita Are you ready to do it if they say "go ahead"?

                      Yup

                      Renita Was the belt on when you said this?

                      Yup

                      Renita And did you get the belt off after this conversation?

                      My mum unlocked and took it away. So yup

                      Yippee yup yup 😆

                              Laura to get out... @Renita need no help to be submitted to her mother. But fine for her, fine for me. I give up

                                  Laura you always take me off guard with your irony, I'm sorry 😐

                                    Tasha Congratulations on fighting for what you wanted and getting it. Should feel pretty proud of yourself

                                        Renita But not instead you 😃

                                        Of course not, but I think a boss should always be a role model for his employees 🙂

                                        Laura you do the job, it's employment even to yourself
                                        someone else does the job for you, it's a business

                                        and if both are true? if I do the job myself but hire someone to help me, which is it then?

                                        icaasi

                                        please introduce yourself in introduction 🙂

                                        Laura Only me

                                        Let's assume you had a sister, would she automatically have to wear a belt or is that always an individual decision?

                                        Tasha Rings that allow things to be attached? No (yay!)

                                        then you don't need to worry about thighbands 😃

                                        Tasha

                                        congratulations, you have achieved something great 😃 I think continuing to wear it outside the house is the absolute maximum, especially when you consider the context that your sister is currently not wearing a belt at home either.
                                        If there are further discussions, you should make your position clear. But also accept your parents' opinion on the subject. I think mutual understanding is the best solution if you want to continue living with your parents.

                                                      Angelina if I do the job myself but hire someone to help me, which is it then?

                                                      Business, because you could always hand your work to your employees if needed

                                                        Laura And didn't put back since then?

                                                        We went out today with my parents and my sister for - mainly - shopping. My dad told me the belt wasn't needed as they would be close to me. They were, always either my mum or dad were along with me and my sister.

                                                        Sasha Should feel pretty proud of yourself

                                                        I do feel I achieved something I've wanted. Not everything I wanted but good progress

                                                        Angelina But also accept your parents' opinion on the subject

                                                        Thier opinion would be to he belted at home which is not what I'm looking to be in again.

                                                        Just a day out the belt and I'm already happier. Would be hard to go back in.

                                                        Angelina mutual understanding

                                                        I guess yeah.

                                                                  Angelina But also accept your parents' opinion on the subject.

                                                                  Disagree of course

                                                                  Angelina think mutual understanding is the best solution if you want to continue living with your parents

                                                                  They will not send her away. It would be suicidal. Than for the rest you know my position, so useless to discuss it again

                                                                        Tasha Concratulation to Stand Up for yourself.
                                                                        Have you thought about setting yourself a schedule for your me-time?
                                                                        It would help you not to fall back into old habits. For example, once a month or on every Sunday.

                                                                            Joh Have you thought about setting yourself a schedule for your me-time?

                                                                            Currently I've not messed around too much, but yes some sort of a semi rigid seems probably for the better.

                                                                            • Joh replied to this.

                                                                                Tasha
                                                                                I know a women who want to stay cast but not without it until heir wedding. Every last Sunday of the month she is without her belt and then has her me-time.
                                                                                The other time she wears her belt. She says it is less hard and no temptation to cheat

                                                                                    Tasha My mum unlocked and took it away

                                                                                    Congratulations. I always fail in it because talk with the belt on 😃

                                                                                    Laura You have missed my irony. Since @Renita can't get free from her belt by moving out she should move in

                                                                                    It's not as much ironical as you think. If I moved in, I wouldn't wear the belt when we are both home.

                                                                                    Tasha Just a day out the belt and I'm already happier

                                                                                    It's more than a day now.

                                                                                    Tasha Would be hard to go back in

                                                                                    When is it planned to be?

                                                                                              Renita Congratulations. I always fail in it because talk with the belt on 😃

                                                                                              Break it. So you can talk without the belt on. Breaking the lock is not so hard. Pretty easy actually because it is very small

                                                                                              Or when you are opened refuse to get back and talk with her while unbelted.