Milord Tasha I will be the first to congratulate you. Besides my position about parental belting, I think that fight for freedom and self-determination is an essential thing and ultimately what makes a teen into an adult, so, very well done!
pestulens Tasha Congratulations. This is definitely a case where you need to do the right thing for your own mental health. Hopefully, your parents will come to respect that in time.
Damien Tasha I'm happy to hear you have stood your ground! I hope your parents will not use the remaining keyholding power you allow them to try and reestablish bad old patterns. All the best, please keep us posted.
Milord Damien completely agree. For sure your parents will try to regain ground. But on the other side, compliance is the only thing that can keep a girl belted. If they lose it, then there is nothing else to do that accepting it. Go on tasha!
Kaja Tasha Congartulqtion! Love for you! You do the best and you are the best example for rest of this forum.
Laura Tasha And yes, I did tell them I'm okay with wearing it outside How would it work if you worn it outside only?
Laura Tasha But I will be free at home without much fuss And you can go outsize without the belt whenever you like. This was my case
Tasha Laura do you mean sneaking out? But I don't think once I'm out the belt I'll be able to be back in it, maybe I won't be listening to my parents.
Laura Tasha do you mean sneaking out? Yes, I did it so often, that I had to start wearing at home Tasha maybe I won't be listening to my parents. Easier said than done
Tasha Laura Easier said than done I can (and will) move out if needed. That should stop it 🛑 But before taking anything too big step, I'll want to be sure my sister won't end up in a even worse situation
Milord Laura See @Laura ? it can be done. You should go next. If a 19yo Indian girl can do, for sure you can do it too.
Laura Tasha I can (and will) move out if needed. That should stop it Of course, but you have to make the decision and say no to the belt rather than agree to wear outside
Laura Milord If a 19yo Indian girl can do, for sure you can do it too I know. I could do it all the time but didn't want to
Milord Laura so I have to find another candidate to bother encourage to get free. Guess who can be 🤔
Renita Tasha I pretty much told them I will move out if I don't get what I need Are you ready to do it if they say "go ahead"? Tasha the look on thier faces when i said this, they were a bit scared Was the belt on when you said this? Tasha What I did could probably not be done by people who are locked by their parents (and aren't ok with it f fully) because they are dependant on their parents And did you get the belt off after this conversation?
Tasha Renita Are you ready to do it if they say "go ahead"? Yup Renita Was the belt on when you said this? Yup Renita And did you get the belt off after this conversation? My mum unlocked and took it away. So yup Yippee yup yup 😆
Milord Laura everyone there is out of the belt and/or out of the forum. Only you and @Renita are still in. And I will not try to convince Renita anymore
