Tasha For me it didn't really work out, probably because of my sister being out, I having the possibility to get out of the belt fully, and emotions

Sorry, I don't get it.

      youdontknowme Now I imagine you bringing a boy home and asking for the key with him around...

      But she is unbelted at home, just need to find an excuse for him 😂

        youdontknowme I'm not that stupid haha. If I dare ask that there will be a huge commotion at the home.

        Joh Sorry, I don't get it.

        I was promised monthly unlocking before, I remember posting it here.

        Aside:
        And I've been very busy and will be this week.

        • Joh likes this.

            Tasha Thier opinion would be to he belted at home which is not what I'm looking to be in again.

            Milord Disagree of course

            please read again, i said accept the opinion of the parents and not follow the opinion

                  Milord and i disagree on accepting their opinion.

                  hey, it's nothing different than what I often do to you here. I don't agree with you on some points, but I accept your opinion and try to understand it. @Tasha should do nothing different either.

                      Angelina

                      Maybe we give a different meaning to the word “accepting”. I don’t accept opinion I disagree with. I respect the right to express them, but I don’t respect the idea per se if for me it’s completely wrong. I normally give a lot of explanation on why I don’t accept them.

                      So in my opinion accepting is recognising that the idea is valid, even if I disagree on it
                      For example I accept the idea @Ines being belted. Do I think she should? No. But I accept she want this and happy about it.

                      Hope the example clarify my position.

                          Milord That approach works well when in a situation where the ideas themselves are primary (like this forum). However, when trying to navigate a personal relationship we sometimes need to accept and work around unreasonable and/or irrational ideas.

                          To use Tasha's situation as an example, if she completely disregards her parents' opinion it will probably damage the relationship. Thad doesn't mean she has to do what they want all the time, but at least take their opinion into consideration and show them that she takes it seriously and they are more likely to accept a compromise she is willing to make.

                              pestulens I agree, but when it is out of convenience, I will not call this accepting idea, i will call it accepting situation.

                              On a personal opinion, that someone must accept unfair limit to her personal freedom cannot be accepted even as a situation. But this is me.

                                Tasha Like when going outside or when I'm left alone at home.

                                And it didn't happen yet or what?

                                    Renita we did go out once with my parents, me and her weren't belted because we were together with my parents. They were by my side while shopping around.

                                    But I'm sure if I were to go out by myself they will bring the belt

                                        pestulens show them that she takes it seriously and they are more likely to accept a compromise she is willing to make

                                        Yeah, I think me allowing to be belted while outside probably eased me into getting out of the belt.

                                        I would still like to keep a healthy relationship, but if things don't pan out I'm absolutely willing to break the relationship. But again I think of my sister, wouldn't want to leave her unless she can do something of her own

                                            Tasha But I'm sure if I were to go out by myself they will bring the belt

                                            I'm asking if you didn't go outside for almost a week beside that shopping?

                                                Renita not really. Apart from walks around my house, no where. I don't go out a lot, mainly I stay inside (I prefer to be inside too)

                                                    Tasha Do you have to ask parents' permission to go outside alone?

                                                        Milord So in my opinion accepting is recognising that the idea is valid, even if I disagree on it

                                                        well, maybe i'm too much of a free speech advocate, but for me, any opinion is valid for now, i just don't have to share it. otherwise @pestulens has described well what I mean

                                                        pestulens To use Tasha's situation as an example, if she completely disregards her parents' opinion it will probably damage the relationship. Thad doesn't mean she has to do what they want all the time, but at least take their opinion into consideration and show them that she takes it seriously and they are more likely to accept a compromise she is willing to make.

                                                        That's exactly how it is

                                                            Renita when I was belted, i used to tell them where i was going. I don't really have to ask permission per say.

                                                            Today morning when I went to drop my sister off at school I did wear the belt. I told them I was going out, they put the belt on me. Once I was back I got it removed.

                                                            Being belted for short periods hasn't been a big issue so far, I'll keep this going for now.

                                                                Tasha Being belted for short periods hasn't been a big issue so far, I'll keep this going for now.

                                                                it will also just be a big thing should you meet someone you want to have sex with