Warning: maybe a long message.

Tldr: I fought my way through, I'm allowed to be beltless at home.

I've not been doing that great for the past few days. Reading some experiences here and talking to people have made me re think my stance on wearing a belt.

Since school started this week, my sister has been out of her belt, I got a release on Monday, that didn't help much. I went through some sort of a tipping point and yesterday I couldn't keep my thoughts to myself so I had to have a talk with my parents.

Not going into much detail (I can if you are curious?), my parents are not happy. They were angry yesterday, they seem disappointed today - especially my mother. I'm out of the belt at home (Like my sister is now), I'll be required to wear it whenever they are both gone or I'm going outside.

I feel I justified being belted at home by saying how it might be because of my past habits, but now I no longer think so. I'm really happy once I got the belt off me.

I also have a fear now of being kicked out, I have a 3 month buffer to pay for a apartment and food if needed, I'm planning to extend that to atleast a year to be really safe.

I pretty much told them I will move out if I don't get what I need (the look on thier faces when i said this, they were a bit scared) and I can't take being belted anymore. I think they figured that if they don't let me be, the next step i might take (with all the emotions with me) could put them on trouble for a long time. What I did could probably not be done by people who are locked by their parents (and aren't ok with it f
fully) because they are dependant on their parents. Those who are willing, I see no issue.

I should also clarify my willingness to wear. For the past 2-3 years, i was mostly ok with it, there were some days when I was super Sad about all of this. The past few days have been one of those situations. And yes, I did tell them I'm okay with wearing it outside. Maybe if I think that's too much someday, I'll talk/fight with them.

I wanted to post it yesterday, but my mind wasn't in the best of states. I'm not leaving, I'll still be around. Have a good day.

    Tasha I will be the first to congratulate you. Besides my position about parental belting, I think that fight for freedom and self-determination is an essential thing and ultimately what makes a teen into an adult, so, very well done!

      Tasha Congratulations. This is definitely a case where you need to do the right thing for your own mental health. Hopefully, your parents will come to respect that in time.

        Tasha I'm happy to hear you have stood your ground! I hope your parents will not use the remaining keyholding power you allow them to try and reestablish bad old patterns. All the best, please keep us posted.

            Damien completely agree. For sure your parents will try to regain ground. But on the other side, compliance is the only thing that can keep a girl belted. If they lose it, then there is nothing else to do that accepting it.

            Go on tasha!

              Tasha Congartulqtion! Love for you!
              You do the best and you are the best example for rest of this forum.

                Tasha And yes, I did tell them I'm okay with wearing it outside

                How would it work if you worn it outside only?

                    Laura I can't have sex with anyone. But I will be free at home without much fuss

                        Tasha But I will be free at home without much fuss

                        And you can go outsize without the belt whenever you like. This was my case

                            Laura do you mean sneaking out? But I don't think once I'm out the belt I'll be able to be back in it, maybe I won't be listening to my parents.

                                Tasha do you mean sneaking out?

                                Yes, I did it so often, that I had to start wearing at home

                                Tasha maybe I won't be listening to my parents.

                                Easier said than done

                                      Laura Easier said than done

                                      I can (and will) move out if needed. That should stop it 🛑

                                      But before taking anything too big step, I'll want to be sure my sister won't end up in a even worse situation

                                          Tasha I can (and will) move out if needed. That should stop it

                                          Of course, but you have to make the decision and say no to the belt rather than agree to wear outside

                                            Laura

                                            See @Laura ? it can be done. You should go next. If a 19yo Indian girl can do, for sure you can do it too.

                                                Milord If a 19yo Indian girl can do, for sure you can do it too

                                                I know. I could do it all the time but didn't want to

                                                    Laura so I have to find another candidate to bother encourage to get free. Guess who can be 🤔

                                                        Tasha I pretty much told them I will move out if I don't get what I need

                                                        Are you ready to do it if they say "go ahead"?

                                                        Tasha the look on thier faces when i said this, they were a bit scared

                                                        Was the belt on when you said this?

                                                        Tasha What I did could probably not be done by people who are locked by their parents (and aren't ok with it f
                                                        fully) because they are dependant on their parents

                                                        And did you get the belt off after this conversation?