In my opinion, and for my standards, it is very weird to read here how the girls negotiate self touching with the parents.
This is not criticism, but it is very strange for me.

    Ines

    In my opinion not as weird as parents demanding to wear it. It’s a way to open doors to weirder and weirder things.

        Ines
        I disagree:

        Among others
        Parental control
        Chastity bra
        Thigh bands

        Are something that exists only in a chastity belt environment (maybe with parental control being an exception).

        So asking for masturbation release will be very weird outside the chastity belt dynamics

        Not at all inside it

        Edit for clarification

            Hi @Tasha I would like to come back to the picture of your kind of belt.
            If you can't find one a possibility is you take a picture with someone in and do some work on it. Nowadays it is no problem to cut out the belt with an image editing programme, such as Gimp (Freeware), so that nothing of the person is visible.

              Joh Hi Joh, I haven't forgotten, just haven't gotten enough time to search for a one that looks similar. Yes I'm aware of image editing programs and the like, but taking a picture is risky sometimes. I'll find one maybe this weekend when I might be a bit more free. Been busy (always have been haha)

              • Joh replied to this.

                  Tasha Sure, you are a business owner and you have work to do all the time.

                    Milord Among others
                    Parental control
                    Chastity bra
                    Thigh bands

                    You list it not complete. I have checked and found that topic was hidden before you joined otherwise it would blast your brain 😂

                        Tasha ruling is a pretty harsh word I think

                        No, it's right word. You tell people what to do, and they shall do.

                        Milord That’s a lot, and this made your acceptance of chastity belt weirder. This is what @Renita is saying

                        Yes, that's what I mean. Being leading and submissive person at the same time.

                            Tasha both, but you're allredy given an overview of how you got unsupervised showers (unless I am confusing you with someone else).

                                pestulens no you aren't confused.

                                As for relief periods, before the whole business thing took off, I didn't have anything to say as an argument. And I think this is one of the points @Milord brought up in his thread about parental chastity, when you are being dependant on the parent, they have a lot to say. The business working out and making money was one of the key things I used to bring up in conversations regarding chastity. The reason I say i fought pretty hard was because we used to clash a lot, and it took repeated attempts to persuade them. I feel to bring up any "changes" you need to bring something to the table, for some maybe grades, or progress, in my case it was the business advents.

                                The times are still not enough I feel. Getting relief once in a few months for 30-90 minutes is a good start for me, but I'll eventually fight for more. Ofcourse others might disagree on relief periods as a whole but I feel I personally deserve them.

                                I honestly don't know why my parents are like this with regards to just chastity. If someone looks from the outside, thrre isn't much one can infer about the inner dynamics. Reading the fourm more, I am inclined to have a talk with them about being fully unbelted during the stay at house atleast. I can understand thier concers while being outside, but inside I feel I can argue for the removal. But again I don't know if I'll waste a lot of time playing so it's a decision I need to still think on.

                                    Tasha just a little point from someone as inexperienced as me.
                                    You cannot be forced in. And without a supporting environment (supportive of the belt) not even morally or emotionally.
                                    My wife used to joke that just going to a friend, relative, or colleague, and showing the belt would be enough to destroy my reputation and my life. and she’s a wife, so I can play the kinky card, that you can’t use with a daughterr
                                    So, it’s not you that have to bring something to get OUT. It’s them that should give you something to stay IN. otherwise, you will just refuse to be re-belted. It’s not even necessary to menace going to the police. Just showing it to an unsuspecting relative will be enough.
                                    Ah, you said that in India selling and owning sex toys for a minor is illegal. A chastity belt is marketed as a sex toy. Not difficult to correlate this

                                    Of course, this is in Italy. I don’t know India or your situation.

                                    And of course, this is just generic advice from a concerned parent (some here will say too concerned). You know your situation better than anyone else

                                    Also, if my comments annoy you, feel free to tell me, I will not get offended! I promise!

                                        Milord I do get your viewpoint. Here's the deal though. I've mentioned in passing that during my school years, I only wore the belt during vacations. During the normal days, I used to "waste" a bunch of time on play. This was not daily, but it happened in chunks of a few days, then a week of no issues and then I had feelings again. It might be a bit weird to hear that, but that happens with me. When I mean wasting time, i literally mean like the whole day, all that would run through my mind is dirty thoughts, nothing productive.

                                        Now granted that was during school, I've matured a lot now. A lot more than the last year even. But I do have a feeling I might get into the same mindset as before and spend lots of time doing unproductive things. (I'm not saying playing with yourself is unproductive, but spending a whole day thinking about it is certainly not)

                                        So that's why I sometimes feel it's justified to wear a belt (for me), but in other cases, going months without any substantial touches also isn't something I fancy. I'm partly willing for some aspects, not willing for others. I feel I just need time to properly think about, and bring it forward to my parents. For example, being unbelted while I'm at home might bring back my old tendencies, but frequent releases i feel is the first thing I'll bring up to them.

                                        Also I'm sure there are other ways to make myself not be wasting time on playing, but my belt is comfortable, so I don't mind it, and having a physical barrier helps me personally (i think so atleast, never been unbelted for a long time since 18, so I don't know how I'll be behaving now)

                                        And @Milord your comments are usually very constructive, not annoying for me (atleast the ones you make on my posts). I don't want anyone to get the idea that I'm forced into this. I am not, I also choose to wear it, and I don't mind it much, just the terms and conditions aren't the best right now (they have been improved from the starting, but they need more improvement.)

                                        My situation is a bit of a complicated one I feel. Sorry if I made it even more confusing 😅. Now I feel I should have told all this at the beginning so people don't get the wrong idea.

                                            Tasha So you could say they surprise me.

                                            is this perhaps also due to your general behaviour? does good behaviour increase the chances of you getting a break?

                                            Tasha I suppose I behaved well and cleaned myself pretty good so my mum just let me know that they don't need to be supervised one day. Not sure if something else was also at play here.

                                            yes, that's what really surprises me, i'm surprised that the monitoring stops when it goes to 24/7 wear, normally i would have thought it was the other way round

                                            Tasha I feel under 18 is illegal everywhere? 16,17,18 those kind of ages?

                                            in germany it is restricted allowed from 14 and unrestricted from 16, but in most countries the laws are there for adults not to have sex with minors under a certain age. i know of no other country where it is a criminal offence for 2 17 year olds to have sex with each other

                                                    Angelina

                                                    Yeah I don't know much about the laws in other countries. The intention behind the POCSO act (which prevents under-age sex) is mainly reduce.. forced sex (not sure if I can use the word here) and teen pregnancies from my understanding.

                                                    Considering a full time belting since 18, I'm meeting 20 now, I can think of only 9-10 reliefs so far. So far I haven't noticed any correlation between my behavior and the frequency of being released. The correlation seems more towards thier mood than my behaviour.

                                                    I was a bit surprised on the showers too, but not quite sure what happened there. I'm not going to discuss it with them regardless.