Milord I do get your viewpoint. Here's the deal though. I've mentioned in passing that during my school years, I only wore the belt during vacations. During the normal days, I used to "waste" a bunch of time on play. This was not daily, but it happened in chunks of a few days, then a week of no issues and then I had feelings again. It might be a bit weird to hear that, but that happens with me. When I mean wasting time, i literally mean like the whole day, all that would run through my mind is dirty thoughts, nothing productive.
Now granted that was during school, I've matured a lot now. A lot more than the last year even. But I do have a feeling I might get into the same mindset as before and spend lots of time doing unproductive things. (I'm not saying playing with yourself is unproductive, but spending a whole day thinking about it is certainly not)
So that's why I sometimes feel it's justified to wear a belt (for me), but in other cases, going months without any substantial touches also isn't something I fancy. I'm partly willing for some aspects, not willing for others. I feel I just need time to properly think about, and bring it forward to my parents. For example, being unbelted while I'm at home might bring back my old tendencies, but frequent releases i feel is the first thing I'll bring up to them.
Also I'm sure there are other ways to make myself not be wasting time on playing, but my belt is comfortable, so I don't mind it, and having a physical barrier helps me personally (i think so atleast, never been unbelted for a long time since 18, so I don't know how I'll be behaving now)
And @Milord your comments are usually very constructive, not annoying for me (atleast the ones you make on my posts). I don't want anyone to get the idea that I'm forced into this. I am not, I also choose to wear it, and I don't mind it much, just the terms and conditions aren't the best right now (they have been improved from the starting, but they need more improvement.)
My situation is a bit of a complicated one I feel. Sorry if I made it even more confusing 😅. Now I feel I should have told all this at the beginning so people don't get the wrong idea.
